Feb. 13, 2024

The Gracious Two - LIVE Show 016 - Bob Zazzera

The Gracious Two, Chad Gracey and JRo (Mr. GodTimes) discuss LiVe's history and early success.

Live achieved rapid success with their first two albums but exhaustion from constant touring led to tension with their management, who failed to convince them to take a break and capitalize on opportunities.

Chad Gracey, Mr. GoodTimes and Bob Zazzera discuss management issues and exhaustion during Distance to Here era

As LiVe's fame grew, their management handled multiple bands and did not proactively address the group's fatigue, lost opportunities, or inter-band communication issues, exacerbating tensions that impacted their next album's promotion.

The 3 guys discuss "Crying Time" a song by The Gracious Few. They discuss origins and homemade music video by Bill Hynes

The emotional song was inspired by a friend's death and the video highlighted his full life, strengthening the tribute and bringing new understanding to the song's meaning for viewers.

Chad, JRo and George discuss the breakup and aftermath of LiVe

Unresolved issues, manipulative media coverage, and lack of discussion allowed resentment to build between band members, culminating in their hiatus, while fans took polarized sides until gaining perspective; reconciliation may require open communication.

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And I believe we are live ladies and gentlemen

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gracious Yeah, baby gracious two back again episode

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16 Merry Christmas to all hope everybody had

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a had a wonderful wonderful Christmas if you're

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still Partaking in the festivities more power

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to you. What up, Chad? What up, John? Chillin

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Merry Christmas. Yeah, we're moving in the new

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year now, you know New Year's Eve coming up.

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Yeah great time of year I was thinking we should

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do like I'll have to remember this next year

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while the time is rolling on to do like Different

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gracious to gear for holidays, you know I'm saying

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like have some Christmas stuff have some New

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Year's stuff Absolutely. Yeah. Yeah Christmas

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sweaters gotta do those. Yes exactly Christmas

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sweaters So happy Kwanzaa right today's Kwanzaa,

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I believe That's right. That's what they say.

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So they say Um, we do have a cool guest on I

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think I'm pronouncing his name. Correct Bob's

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Azera a very big fan of live and of yours. Been

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around since the beginning. Yes, I know Bob well.

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We actually text back and forth sometimes. Him,

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Bill and I, and yeah, Bob is a long time fan.

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Vast knowledge. He has a huge database of recordings

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and all kinds of stuff, so yeah. Which is cool.

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I think it was him who just released... a 1998

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chameleon club by you guys. I don't know if he

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shot it, but he put it up on YouTube. And it's,

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you know, the video and sound aren't the best,

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but what a great concert, man. New City was a

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song that was played there that I don't think

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is on anything else out there. Yeah, that's that

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was a B -side, I think, to Secret Samadhi or

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maybe no, that would be a B -side to Distance

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To Hear. Ah didn't put on yeah a bunch of cool

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um in there, you know, you had change in there

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new city a couple uh, you know different lyrics

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and stuff the stuff that did end up on the distance

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to hear So it was definitely cool to to hear

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just wish it was better quality Yeah, so that

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would have been a show where we were trying out

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new material for distance here. That makes sense.

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Yeah Yeah, those are great shows those 1998 shows.

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Um, well we used to write songs and then go play

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them out live and check, you know fans loved

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it. It was fun to like, to try this stuff out

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on the live audience. And, and when you play

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a song, you write a song and then you play it

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live, it takes on a different, sometimes a different

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vibe or you do different stuff. Right. Or you

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can get more intensity out of it. And so that

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was, that was our process at the time, but we

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stopped doing that. Well, it was a great process.

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I agree. I don't know if you guys did this but

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I know Pearl Jam was doing it for a while where

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they like recorded every concert they did I guess

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through their soundboard and then like they released

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it like in a like a cardboard package or anything

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but I know you guys didn't release anything like

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that but did you word your stuff like all your

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soundboard stuff or no just kind of? We have

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over the years not all of it but yeah there's

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some sometimes when we recorded it. Yeah that

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was Pearl Jam was releasing their own bootlegs

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it was freaking cool. It was very cool. It was

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like being ahead of the bootleggers because,

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you know, they're making money off of your backs.

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Right. Yep. They ruined the whole bootleg for

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them anyway. Now it doesn't even matter. Everyone

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has a camera to show. Right. Yeah. Back in the

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day, it was like, um, you know, to do that, it

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like went against every band's policy and stuff,

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but now it seems like it's just par for the course.

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And maybe a good way to get some free marketing

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and free publicity, but you guys. Yeah, I mean,

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I agree. Even back in the day, like. I don't

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know. Like why people were so anti, like recording

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and fucking and taking pictures and all this

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shit like even we were that way, I guess, because

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we were taught to be that way. I don't know.

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But just think back on it like, why wouldn't

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you want to spread? the message and the music

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and the images, you know, as far as they can

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go. Let people just fucking record and take pictures

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and just go for it. Like, spread the shit around.

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You know, ultimately, you're gonna have people,

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more people to the show, which is where, you

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know, you make money. So if it's about making

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money, it's like you want to spread the word,

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or to make it. Especially for a band like you

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guys who, not that you're bad on CD, but you're

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just like, the energy in the concert is like...

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fucking bar none. So it would, it would have

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been good to get that word out. So more people

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went to the shows and whatnot. I agree. You know,

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hindsight is 2020. Right. I believe Dave Matthews

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band. That's kind of how they got their start.

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They encouraged like, you know, before they had

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record deals and stuff, they were playing like

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frat houses and stuff, and they encouraged people

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to record and just kind of spread it out that

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way. And that's how they got, you know, their

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following or whatever. Yeah. Little ahead of

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the curve, but I mean it you could see both sides

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of it You know, you can see how it gets the word

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out on your music But then also what happens

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if you guys decided to release it and it's already

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out there, you know So it's I could see both

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sides Oh exactly bands like fish and the Grateful

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Dead and even Dave Matthews They would encourage

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people to come and record right made sense, you

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know, you'd think Everyone should have done that

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Whatever like you said it's 2020 Someone someone

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said to me hindsight 50 -50. Yeah, okay How does

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that work? Is it the lower the number the better

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your vision or the higher? I really don't know

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like 2020 is perfect. Yeah 2015 is better like

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2015 2010 is like really fucking amazing You

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see not only do you guys get cool insight on

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the band live you get insight on this stuff on

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them all ophthalmological voice exactly exactly

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right uh if anybody's wondering why i sound like

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uh a train wreck it's because i have like some

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kind of mucus membrane just clogging up my uh

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whole my whole face so that's why i sound this

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way but came here to put on a show for y 'all

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so hey hey holding through bear with us Uh, got

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a lot of good feedback on, on, uh, last week's

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show, uh, with the, uh, Sabo's, uh, that was

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amazing. So great to have them. I'm still so

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pumped about that rerouting movie, man. I can't

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wait to see the full thing after watching it.

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Hopefully they get some traction at the festivals

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and they can release it. It's freaking great

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from the trailer. Anyway, it looks amazing. Right.

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I mean, Hey, if, if independence are doing stuff

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like that, I mean, And let's just say they don't

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get traction at these festivals. That just shows

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like that the independent genre is getting really,

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really good because that looked to me like it

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was a, you know, full on release by some major

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studio in my, in my mind. Sure. Yeah. I agree.

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It didn't look like no $50 ,000 budget, you know?

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It's amazing. Yeah. Yeah. Like a Titanic or something

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that costs like what? Like millions to make.

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Million exactly. I mean we've we I mean the BAM

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you shot videos that cost like 500 grand 600

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grand, you know, it's like it was It's just amazing.

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They did it on $50 ,000. Our first video was

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$5 ,000 for Operation Spirit now what was that

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the one at where You did two for one video was

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that Operation Spirit or pain lies on the riverside?

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Because one was filmed at Stone Pony almost like

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a live cut of it And then the other one was like

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a regular video Pain, Lies, and Riverside, we

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did two on. We did a regular video and then we

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did kind of a live video. We reported some of

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it to Chameleon and maybe Stone Pony as well,

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but Operation Spirit was all... There's some

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footage from Chameleon show in Operation Spirit.

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Mostly it's just us running around fucking, I

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don't know, the park. We're in Central Park and

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we were shot in Sandy Hook, New Jersey on the

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beach. Like the fire scene is Sandy Hook, New

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Jersey on the beach, bonfire. Anyway. Do you

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know roughly, cause do you know roughly what

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the I loan video costs you guys to shoot? Um,

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that was probably one of the more expensive ones

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for, so I, I don't remember. I was top of my

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head and really just paying for set. It seems

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at that point, cause it was a lot of you guys

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in there. It didn't seem like there was a lot

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of like, um, CGI or anything like that. Kind

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of like the set you were paying for and then

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even what you have your drums there. Yeah, you're

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paying for set and then the director. Ah, but

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yeah, yeah. Yes, exactly. I had the drums on

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the set, but then the guy was like, we don't,

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I don't like the drums on the set. Well, now

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we know, now we know after you guys get back

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together after the rock and roll hall of fame

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to hire the safe, the save those to do the videos

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and we can save some loot. Exactly. Yes. The,

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um, forever may not be long enough video that

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looked like that could have cost some some a

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pretty penny because not only were there scenes

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from the movie in there that you might have had

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the license but there seemed to be like some

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really cool backgrounds and stuff like that or

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sets seem to be expensive for that for that video

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yeah i don't know exactly the record company

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paid for part of that but it was in it was uh

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like uh together with the movie production so

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ah I don't know if they paid part of the expense

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or not, but Yeah, that was that was a whole weird

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deal. There's so we had forever not may not be

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long enough. That was part of the mummy, right?

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That there was another song was supposed to be

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in Keep the first Fast and Furious Deep enough

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deep enough. Yep was supposed to be in the first

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Fast and Furious and I guess it was but like

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direct So the record company had these three

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three opportunities plus it was overcome with

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the whole 9 -11 thing Right. Three opportunities

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to like really promote that record, five, and

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they squandered all the record companies, fucked

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them all up. Yeah, because as you're saying -

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Two major movies and fucking, and not that you

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wanted the profit off of 9 -11, but like we,

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the Overcome was blowing up as it just naturally

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started getting played on VH1. Someone put together

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this video and we were like, let's put it out

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and like, well, donate all the proceeds to the

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9 -11 fund or whatever, you know. They're like,

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no, we don't want to do it. OK, thanks. It's

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amazing. It's like you almost then see why the

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record companies went the way they went when

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they're making dumb decisions like that, you

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know? Yep, exactly. Like you guys are a heavy

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marketable band and, you know, they totally squandered

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that time. Like you said, two major motion pictures

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plus the overcome thing. And that was really

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That was all over. That was not just all over

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VH1 or MTV. That was all over, you know, the

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radio with clips playing in the background and

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whatnot. And deep enough, the director wanted

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to do like a full video with the fucking all

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the all the all the cast and stuff like like

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a major part of the movie. And they wouldn't

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do it. Isn't that amazing? It's amazing. Drives

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you crazy. Yeah. So who is that part of management

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or is that part of like Like your manager or

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is that like the owner of the record company?

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How does that not the owner? Well, there was

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no owner. It was Universal Time So it was you

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know, the guy running Universal Time. I think

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his name was Jay Bovert He came in he took over

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so like the the regime that was there for like

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throwing copper and secret Somali was uh was

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the one that signed us right so they had ownership

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in it and they helped blow us up and like you

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know, make us successful. And then Jay Boberg

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took over. I forget what his background was,

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but he was a horrible record company for instance.

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He didn't know how to use you guys. No. His promotion

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of The Distance of Here was crappy. It was just

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bad, the whole thing. Yeah, because in my eyes,

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I mean, the distance to hear, I mean, I don't

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know, I'm guessing it was successful in its own

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right, but that should have been one of your

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biggest albums. I mean, there was a lot of real

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radio friendly songs on there, on top of some

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nice deep ass tracks on there that, you know,

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really, you know, touched your core audience

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as opposed to just, you know, as opposed to just

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casual listeners. Sure. Yeah. This is a pretty

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prominent story in the record business, like

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bands that are successful and then a new regime

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takes over. Sometimes they're not making good

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music, but I think in our case, we're still making

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good music. But it's just a matter of whether

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the record company wants to put their weight

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behind you or not. Right. Right. It happens.

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I still think, not to jump gears, but Birds of

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Prey, that number two song, She, is such a rocking

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song. I would've loved to hear you guys play

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that in concert, but I don't know if you've ever

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did, or just I missed it, but that is a great,

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great song, and it seems like it'd be perfect

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to be somewhere in the live concert set list

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because it just, it rocks, and it's short. I'll

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have to listen to it again. Know what song it

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is. Know what I'm talking about. Yeah. Yeah.

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Yeah. I think I remember what it is, but I have

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to listen to it. Oh, funny. I listened to on

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the way here on the flight. I listened to a bunch

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of tracks on distance to here. And, and then

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I was listening to five to him. We're just to

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haven't listened to him forever. That's gotta

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be so cool. Going back through your catalog and

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just like checking out songs that, you know,

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you haven't heard in forever or, you know, cause

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I, You guys do play a lot of, you know, the new

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album and concert, but there are some that you

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leave out, so there might be some songs that

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you haven't, you know, listened to in 20 -plus

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years or something. So it's got to be coming

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back. Oh, well, I just, yeah, I mean, some of

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the deeper tracks on Distance to Here and Five,

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I hadn't listened to for a long time. Obviously,

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I have to listen to Bird to Prey. But what I

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noticed from Distance to Here to Five is that,

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you know, Ed took over all the writing at that

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point. And, uh, which was fine. There were some

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great, great tracks on five, but I noticed that

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the drums are a lot quieter on five than they

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are on distance. I agree. I got mixed down. Yeah.

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Yeah. Shining too much, I guess. I don't know.

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Maybe he's like in deep enough that that's a

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real heavy drum sound, but yeah, maybe it's turned

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down in the mix or something. I don't know. It's

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weird. I was like, yeah, that's noticeably quieter.

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Well, I got Mr. Bob about to enter the room.

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So, ladies and gentlemen, Mr. Bob Z, is it Zazera

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Bob? Am I am I pronouncing that correctly? I

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talk to him all the time, you know, online, but

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never correctly corrects everybody. Yeah, yeah.

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That's correct. There it is. I believe I believe

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Bob is going to be off camera. I'm not 100 percent,

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but because he's he's doing stuff. So that might

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be the case. I'm not sure somebody coming up

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is off camera. I'm not sure if it's Bob or not.

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But Bob, how are you, sir? And good, guys. Merry

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Christmas. Hope it was nice. Merry Christmas

00:16:13.490 --> 00:16:15.909
to you. Yeah, I had a great one. Thank you. Yeah,

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same here. Same here. Yeah, it was down. Everything

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was nice. It was real, real quiet, real, real

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together. And, you know, that was, you know.

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topped off the day by I think watching a little

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bit of football, but then it was uh It was good.

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Nice. It was uh, it was basically uh, I want

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to say Why it's been real fast, right? You know

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leading up to Christmas, you know Thanksgiving

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was just here and Everything just goes fast at

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the end of the year. Oh, that's just me I I don't

00:16:48.679 --> 00:16:50.740
know if you guys experienced that kind of you

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know, the calendar the dates go fuck go fast

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and I'm like, okay End of the year is coming

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up already. 2024 is here in less than a week,

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right? It's freaking wild. I experienced it too.

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I hear you. I've been told that I have some of

00:17:05.049 --> 00:17:08.390
your signature cocktail songs coming to me. I

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was about to ask, did that arrive yet? No, Bill

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has not arrived yet, so it's coming with him.

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Alright, that's right. I made enough for both

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of you guys to have. I know you tried it last

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year, but I think I hopped it up a little more

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this year. Nice. Bill said it rivals St. Elmo's.

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That's what he says. That's what he says. Well,

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let the audience know what we're talking about

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here. What do you, what do you, what kind of

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sauce do you make there, Bob? All right. So cocktail

00:17:35.069 --> 00:17:37.230
sauce, right? You know, you put it on whatever

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shrimp or whatever you want, you know, dip, you

00:17:39.509 --> 00:17:42.690
know, ketchup, horseradish, you know, I'm not

00:17:42.690 --> 00:17:46.049
going to tell you my what's in there, but I might

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have a, I might, I might have a little post retirement

00:17:49.170 --> 00:17:51.130
business opportunity there. I might want to.

00:17:51.369 --> 00:17:54.269
put it into some bottles and maybe sell it, but

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it's good. Last year I told Bill about it and

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I said, hey, I want to try this because I know

00:18:01.829 --> 00:18:04.309
you like St. Elmo's and he goes, yeah, your stuff

00:18:04.309 --> 00:18:05.970
probably can't touch that. And then I brought

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it over to him last year and everything else

00:18:09.410 --> 00:18:15.609
went fine. And then just one thing. So St. Elmo's.

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Oh, sorry. No, it's okay. So I had I gave him

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some and he's like, he's like, Oh, he's he made

00:18:23.450 --> 00:18:25.230
a video with one of his girls. And he's like,

00:18:25.309 --> 00:18:27.789
this stuff is unbelievable. I was like, okay,

00:18:27.910 --> 00:18:31.349
good. Happy to hear it. So I had him bring you

00:18:31.349 --> 00:18:33.230
some last year. And I think you said you liked

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it. So yes, more on the way. Sweet. So St. Elmo's

00:18:37.769 --> 00:18:41.450
is a very famous legendary steakhouse in Indianapolis.

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And they have this their cocktail sauces like

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the horseradish they use is off the fucking charts

00:18:47.609 --> 00:18:51.119
hot. yeah cocktail sauce is so good but like

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it's very common you'll take someone new there

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and they're like they you know they get the shrimp

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you have to get the shrimp cocktail and they

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get it and they're like they take a big dollop

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of this shit and you just see it's like their

00:19:02.160 --> 00:19:06.880
sign is yeah horseradish is a unique spice because

00:19:06.880 --> 00:19:09.859
it like gets into your nasal acids it's kind

00:19:09.859 --> 00:19:15.019
of like wasabi Yes, very very very similar to

00:19:15.019 --> 00:19:17.400
the wasabi burn right up your nose into your

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nasal cavity into the back of your eyes and then

00:19:19.619 --> 00:19:23.099
it goes away real fast, right? So it's but it's

00:19:23.099 --> 00:19:25.960
intense Interesting about wasabi is like 90 %

00:19:25.960 --> 00:19:29.319
of wasabi that you have is not real What do you

00:19:29.319 --> 00:19:32.299
mean? It's fake. It's fake. It's basically horse

00:19:32.299 --> 00:19:35.619
radish color green because wasabi is only grown

00:19:35.619 --> 00:19:38.140
in like one little region in japan along some

00:19:38.140 --> 00:19:40.500
fucking creeks and it's like really hard to grow

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so you probably have not had real wasabi in your

00:19:44.220 --> 00:19:47.519
life that's crazy you're just over there having

00:19:47.519 --> 00:19:51.579
green horseradish yes well hey they fooled me

00:19:51.579 --> 00:19:53.759
because i'm over there thinking i'm listen that's

00:19:53.759 --> 00:19:57.420
how i eat my sushi wasabi soy sauce and then

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ginger on top i know ginger is supposed to clear

00:19:59.380 --> 00:20:02.319
the palate but I just I just throw it all on

00:20:02.319 --> 00:20:04.259
there and then munch the nice piece of sushi

00:20:04.259 --> 00:20:06.000
and I'm in heaven. Oh, you were there kicked

00:20:06.000 --> 00:20:08.160
out of the sushi Nazi in L .A. You got kicked

00:20:08.160 --> 00:20:11.319
the fuck out of there. I'm sorry. I'm sure I

00:20:11.319 --> 00:20:14.779
was out. So, Bob, are you doing anything for

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Kwanzaa today? No, no. It's also I've learned

00:20:19.900 --> 00:20:21.579
from my Australian friend something or something

00:20:21.579 --> 00:20:23.779
called Boxing Day, which is what they have down

00:20:23.779 --> 00:20:27.099
there. Let's like Canada. Chad, you know, they're

00:20:27.099 --> 00:20:29.740
the same. Yeah, that's a Canadian thing that's,

00:20:29.759 --> 00:20:32.660
I guess, from the British Isles, right? When

00:20:32.660 --> 00:20:34.960
they spread out everything, some of those traditions

00:20:34.960 --> 00:20:37.140
of Canada. Yeah, Australia shares the same thing.

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That's that's true. And there's a story behind

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that. I believe it's Boxing Day. And the rumor

00:20:44.279 --> 00:20:46.779
is it's everything you don't you have to bring

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back to the store. You box it up and bring it

00:20:49.480 --> 00:20:51.920
back. But I think that's the old wives tale version

00:20:51.920 --> 00:20:55.099
of what it means. Oh, I thought it was like sport

00:20:55.099 --> 00:20:58.660
boxing, like where people know. Oh, so they're

00:20:58.660 --> 00:21:02.380
box up your shit. Hmm. Take your take your stuff

00:21:02.380 --> 00:21:04.900
back to the store today. But I think I don't

00:21:04.900 --> 00:21:07.400
believe that's 100 percent accurate. But that's

00:21:07.400 --> 00:21:10.359
like what I've been told as a side story from

00:21:10.359 --> 00:21:13.900
some of my Canadian friends. So it's it's interesting.

00:21:14.079 --> 00:21:20.039
But, yep, lots of holidays to dig into. But yeah,

00:21:20.039 --> 00:21:22.900
so I guess. I guess with everything, I think

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I caught some of the stuff when I came on. I

00:21:25.319 --> 00:21:27.579
was a few minutes late. I heard you guys talking

00:21:27.579 --> 00:21:31.059
about Five and Birds of Prey and that I heard

00:21:31.059 --> 00:21:32.660
you said you were listening to some of that stuff.

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Did you guys see what I put out in the groups

00:21:35.700 --> 00:21:39.220
last week? Yeah, that's how we got on the conversation.

00:21:39.460 --> 00:21:44.160
He wasn't sure if it was that. Yeah, that's what

00:21:44.160 --> 00:21:46.220
I know. I didn't see it. I have to check it out.

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It's a bad recording, right? It's somebody's

00:21:49.450 --> 00:21:52.589
up in the balcony. It's obstructed most of the

00:21:52.589 --> 00:21:55.630
time. The sound is good and bad, but it's the

00:21:55.630 --> 00:21:59.829
whole show, the 61198 show with Chameleon. And

00:21:59.829 --> 00:22:01.950
I know Jimmy has the videos, right? And he's

00:22:01.950 --> 00:22:04.009
had some that he put on the Friends Alive website

00:22:04.009 --> 00:22:06.089
years and years ago that I think you can find

00:22:06.089 --> 00:22:09.509
on some archive somewhere. But those, some songs

00:22:09.509 --> 00:22:12.549
never saw the video, right? Some of those unreleased

00:22:12.549 --> 00:22:16.400
things. So that people in the... The fan base

00:22:16.400 --> 00:22:18.980
has been clamoring for New City for years and

00:22:18.980 --> 00:22:22.200
years and years, like the Lost Gem. You know,

00:22:22.339 --> 00:22:24.380
that's the first time I heard it, right? I never

00:22:24.380 --> 00:22:25.880
heard it either because I didn't go to those

00:22:25.880 --> 00:22:29.380
shows. I was working, flying, doing something.

00:22:29.440 --> 00:22:32.460
I wasn't available. But yeah, I missed those.

00:22:32.460 --> 00:22:34.920
It would have been good to see. But you get to

00:22:34.920 --> 00:22:37.180
hear it and it's it's it's really good. But I

00:22:37.180 --> 00:22:39.440
could see that why it didn't make the cut. It's

00:22:39.440 --> 00:22:41.480
got a little bit different sound that doesn't

00:22:41.480 --> 00:22:44.589
go with the distance to hear. So. It's, it's,

00:22:44.650 --> 00:22:46.069
but it's, you know, it's in those other ones,

00:22:46.210 --> 00:22:48.529
like Don't Wait and, you know, Vine Street, you

00:22:48.529 --> 00:22:50.089
know, those other ones that have a little bit

00:22:50.089 --> 00:22:52.890
more rock and tone, but they, they didn't fit

00:22:52.890 --> 00:22:55.710
the flow of the record. But, but no, well, there's

00:22:55.710 --> 00:22:58.690
always a first for everything, I guess. Sure.

00:22:59.490 --> 00:23:01.450
Now that video was kind of cool too, because

00:23:01.450 --> 00:23:03.990
the person shooting it, they kind of did like

00:23:03.990 --> 00:23:06.849
a documentary style as they were going to the

00:23:06.849 --> 00:23:09.630
concert, which was cool. And that video is perfect.

00:23:10.269 --> 00:23:13.490
Yeah. No, the person recording gets a little

00:23:13.490 --> 00:23:16.269
drunk or something, but he starts like recording

00:23:16.269 --> 00:23:18.329
just like a black background for most of the

00:23:18.329 --> 00:23:20.589
show. I'm like, what's going on here? Do you

00:23:20.589 --> 00:23:23.349
have any insight behind that, Bob? So I know

00:23:23.349 --> 00:23:25.730
I know this this guy, this film. All right. The

00:23:25.730 --> 00:23:28.069
guy that filmed it is mentioned in the YouTube

00:23:28.069 --> 00:23:30.769
channel. Now, this guy's website, I don't know

00:23:30.769 --> 00:23:33.089
if it's the same guy, but I've seen this guy.

00:23:33.170 --> 00:23:36.930
I saw this guy film in Van Halen in 2015 down

00:23:36.930 --> 00:23:39.670
in Camden because I went to that show and I saw

00:23:39.670 --> 00:23:42.089
this guy with a rig. like he had a backpack and

00:23:42.089 --> 00:23:43.769
he had a rig in it and I was like you know what

00:23:43.769 --> 00:23:46.029
I saw his YouTube videos and they were where

00:23:46.029 --> 00:23:48.890
I was sitting and I was like then I saw that

00:23:48.890 --> 00:23:53.109
he did the Allentown Fairgrounds show in 95 throwing

00:23:53.109 --> 00:23:55.529
copper that's on his channel this guy has thousands

00:23:55.529 --> 00:23:58.869
of bootleg concert videos on his channel I mean

00:23:58.869 --> 00:24:02.079
everything from like the the late the late early

00:24:02.079 --> 00:24:05.259
90s late 89 right through right through today

00:24:05.259 --> 00:24:08.119
like he's still filming them so there's always

00:24:08.119 --> 00:24:10.279
the guy that tapes it apparently tapes it and

00:24:10.279 --> 00:24:12.319
then this guy audits them or whatever and puts

00:24:12.319 --> 00:24:15.400
them on the channel but yeah if you browse it

00:24:15.400 --> 00:24:17.259
you'll you'll find all kinds of stuff when i

00:24:17.259 --> 00:24:18.740
was looking at that the other night i was like

00:24:18.740 --> 00:24:22.579
man this guy's got everything that's been filmed

00:24:22.579 --> 00:24:26.059
mostly east coast new york new jersey philadelphia

00:24:26.059 --> 00:24:28.819
you know mostly east coast stuff right you know

00:24:29.429 --> 00:24:32.210
logistically, it's it's logistically easy to

00:24:32.210 --> 00:24:35.650
get to so many shows in this area. Yeah. So,

00:24:35.650 --> 00:24:38.349
yep. And that's a little background that I know

00:24:38.349 --> 00:24:40.990
about it. He was doing it during the time when

00:24:40.990 --> 00:24:44.210
it was like heavily frowned upon doing. Oh, yeah.

00:24:44.470 --> 00:24:47.410
That could be part of the reason why it's, you

00:24:47.410 --> 00:24:49.730
know, filming whatever at some point, maybe just.

00:24:49.829 --> 00:24:52.509
And they were there were the handheld camcorders

00:24:52.509 --> 00:24:54.390
of the day. If you remember, you'd be able to

00:24:54.390 --> 00:24:56.789
sneak them in if you you somehow have a you put

00:24:56.789 --> 00:25:00.210
a coat on and. you know i snuck stuff into live

00:25:00.210 --> 00:25:02.309
shows i'll tell them chad that i think i told

00:25:02.309 --> 00:25:04.730
them that in the past i i snuck tape recorder

00:25:04.730 --> 00:25:08.990
into pnc art center once i i've done i've done

00:25:08.990 --> 00:25:12.269
stuff right just to say i did it but it was it

00:25:12.269 --> 00:25:15.529
was crappy but yeah anyway it's come a long way

00:25:15.529 --> 00:25:17.990
now you could just stand there point and shoot

00:25:17.990 --> 00:25:20.890
with your with your phone and i use the audio

00:25:20.890 --> 00:25:23.589
mic condenser mic when i did them on the youtube

00:25:23.589 --> 00:25:27.220
channel stuff and it's good but you know people

00:25:27.220 --> 00:25:29.539
frown, people don't frown, it depends on what

00:25:29.539 --> 00:25:32.500
the band will allow you to do, right? For the

00:25:32.500 --> 00:25:34.819
venue, to the venue. Yeah, we were just talking

00:25:34.819 --> 00:25:36.940
about this, Bob, about why, like in hindsight,

00:25:37.099 --> 00:25:40.259
why we even gave a shit if people recorded everything

00:25:40.259 --> 00:25:43.180
and fucking, you know, it's like, it's like nowadays,

00:25:43.779 --> 00:25:46.079
like everyone, it's encouraged because it can

00:25:46.079 --> 00:25:48.339
go viral or it can go on people's YouTubes, it

00:25:48.339 --> 00:25:51.059
gets spread around. Exactly. It's a whole different

00:25:51.059 --> 00:25:54.740
perspective now, right? So, before proprietary...

00:25:54.490 --> 00:25:56.809
I don't want new unreleased songs out there.

00:25:57.029 --> 00:25:59.890
And I'll tell you that when you guys played Bethlehem

00:25:59.890 --> 00:26:03.849
Music Fest 2017, I was there with Rich and Chris

00:26:03.849 --> 00:26:06.670
and a bunch of the other other other fans. And

00:26:06.670 --> 00:26:11.289
you guys did 10 ,000 cups, right? You did it

00:26:11.289 --> 00:26:13.829
in the soundcheck, right? We heard it. We were

00:26:13.829 --> 00:26:16.069
standing outside the venue there. We heard it

00:26:16.069 --> 00:26:17.750
because you guys were sound checking. And then

00:26:18.009 --> 00:26:20.630
We were there with you guys in the back and we

00:26:20.630 --> 00:26:22.569
saw this. We saw the set list that was on there,

00:26:22.569 --> 00:26:24.309
but it never got played. So I don't know who

00:26:24.309 --> 00:26:26.910
nixed it. Was it Ed or was it was a tailor that

00:26:26.910 --> 00:26:29.089
nixed it because it didn't get played? And I

00:26:29.089 --> 00:26:31.309
don't know if it's because we were there filming

00:26:31.309 --> 00:26:33.670
or whatever. I don't know. I think it's probably

00:26:33.670 --> 00:26:36.490
Ed. He seemed to like he would mix at the time.

00:26:36.490 --> 00:26:38.869
He seemed he would mix like we would put stuff

00:26:38.869 --> 00:26:41.829
in the set that we are either fucking like, you

00:26:41.829 --> 00:26:45.410
know, in new recordings or like older songs or

00:26:45.410 --> 00:26:48.490
deeper, deeper cut tracks. He would usually nix

00:26:48.490 --> 00:26:50.190
them during the show because he's like, I want

00:26:50.190 --> 00:26:53.470
to do it right now. Okay. Okay. But now it's

00:26:53.470 --> 00:26:55.890
funny because, you know, we're not in the band

00:26:55.890 --> 00:26:59.750
now and it's like, he's playing these great fucking,

00:26:59.869 --> 00:27:02.089
these great set lists. I guess Zach is in charge

00:27:02.089 --> 00:27:04.089
of the set list. I'm like, why the fuck do we

00:27:04.089 --> 00:27:06.829
play this shit in 17, 18 and 19? Like, I would

00:27:06.829 --> 00:27:09.589
have loved to play all that stuff. Yeah, it's

00:27:09.589 --> 00:27:15.579
always been a, I guess a... How would I characterize

00:27:15.579 --> 00:27:19.119
it, you know, who's who's who's responsible for?

00:27:19.720 --> 00:27:23.200
For that, right? So you know, on stage, it was

00:27:23.200 --> 00:27:24.900
always that he would be like, no, we can't play

00:27:24.900 --> 00:27:28.660
it. Let's get it. OK. It almost like you thought

00:27:28.660 --> 00:27:31.920
like casual fans were coming to the show, not

00:27:31.920 --> 00:27:33.960
like hardcore fans like it almost seemed like

00:27:33.960 --> 00:27:36.400
you thought, you know, fans were coming just

00:27:36.400 --> 00:27:39.819
for the hits when your fans want to hear everything.

00:27:39.859 --> 00:27:42.000
It wasn't, you know, wasn't just as especially

00:27:42.000 --> 00:27:44.650
because Somebody like me. I'm sure somebody like

00:27:44.650 --> 00:27:49.150
Bob if you guys came to you know our area New

00:27:49.150 --> 00:27:50.869
York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania I was hitting

00:27:50.869 --> 00:27:53.650
up a bunch of shows so I didn't need to I alone

00:27:53.650 --> 00:27:56.910
and all over you three times I could have they

00:27:56.910 --> 00:28:00.029
traded them in for stage or TBD or some cool

00:28:00.029 --> 00:28:04.609
shit, you know Yeah, I that's that's exactly

00:28:04.609 --> 00:28:06.769
what I would say is I would I would prefer to

00:28:06.769 --> 00:28:09.089
hear something that's not played a lot or something

00:28:09.089 --> 00:28:11.859
that might be new and you know Go ahead, Chad.

00:28:11.940 --> 00:28:13.119
I think you were going to say something. Sorry

00:28:13.119 --> 00:28:16.460
there. Oh, I was just, yeah, I was kind of, you

00:28:16.460 --> 00:28:19.259
know, vamping on that. Like, yeah, we, it's always

00:28:19.259 --> 00:28:22.559
seemed to be on stage, at least Ed, but Chad

00:28:22.559 --> 00:28:24.319
would put together the set list for the night

00:28:24.319 --> 00:28:26.380
and then they would have something cool in it

00:28:26.380 --> 00:28:28.480
that we rehearsed or we'd do it a sound check.

00:28:28.640 --> 00:28:31.420
And then I don't know if it's just show flow

00:28:31.420 --> 00:28:33.680
or what it was for Ed, but yeah, it's like, no,

00:28:33.779 --> 00:28:35.700
don't skip it. We're going on the next song.

00:28:36.279 --> 00:28:40.539
Okay. I understand. Yeah, I understand the newer

00:28:40.539 --> 00:28:42.740
stuff, right? If you guys were just, if they're

00:28:42.740 --> 00:28:45.839
in there, they're still working songs, right?

00:28:45.920 --> 00:28:47.700
That you guys would call them working, but they're

00:28:47.700 --> 00:28:50.259
not the same as when they got released. So John,

00:28:50.440 --> 00:28:52.819
like when they would put old stuff out, like

00:28:52.819 --> 00:28:54.799
you would hear some of the early throwing copper

00:28:54.799 --> 00:28:57.000
stuff at the end of the mental jewelry tour,

00:28:57.019 --> 00:28:59.180
or they didn't have them fully done. You heard

00:28:59.180 --> 00:29:00.900
different, some little different arrangements

00:29:00.900 --> 00:29:03.200
on the songs, right? They're called those working

00:29:03.200 --> 00:29:05.640
so that they don't, they're not the final versions,

00:29:05.900 --> 00:29:07.940
but they're similar enough, but you'll hear that

00:29:07.940 --> 00:29:10.720
there's slight differences in the Ed might have

00:29:10.720 --> 00:29:13.299
a different lyric or there might be a different

00:29:13.299 --> 00:29:16.119
bridge fill or the Chad might do or you know

00:29:16.119 --> 00:29:18.319
there's always some little nuance and all the

00:29:18.319 --> 00:29:20.099
big fans are like oh we got to have that version

00:29:20.099 --> 00:29:22.160
of that song that's great why can't you go and

00:29:22.160 --> 00:29:26.460
play it like that or you know me being a long

00:29:26.460 --> 00:29:28.759
time fan and you know I didn't get a chance to

00:29:28.759 --> 00:29:31.559
see you guys when you were in mental jury or

00:29:31.990 --> 00:29:34.509
throwing copper tours. I didn't get a chance.

00:29:35.210 --> 00:29:37.650
So the first time I saw was Secret Samadhi. And

00:29:37.650 --> 00:29:39.549
I was like, oh, it was like a year and a half

00:29:39.549 --> 00:29:41.630
built up and to see that. And I was like, you

00:29:41.630 --> 00:29:43.349
know what, I can't wait to go to that because

00:29:43.349 --> 00:29:46.390
it'll be it'll be real for me just not just hearing

00:29:46.390 --> 00:29:49.569
it on the record or the radio and the TV, you

00:29:49.569 --> 00:29:52.049
know, with MTV. But when I saw the first time

00:29:52.049 --> 00:29:56.289
I was in a transform to another place that I

00:29:56.289 --> 00:29:58.789
don't think I've ever been to at a show because

00:29:58.789 --> 00:30:02.200
I felt like I was just standing. in the in the

00:30:02.200 --> 00:30:05.000
crowd and just like my body was vibrating like

00:30:05.000 --> 00:30:06.680
you put your finger in a light socket you would

00:30:06.680 --> 00:30:09.539
get that hold your the pins and needles will

00:30:09.539 --> 00:30:12.019
go up on your body oh yeah when i heard some

00:30:12.019 --> 00:30:13.900
of the songs like because you guys did i think

00:30:13.900 --> 00:30:17.039
you did t i don't think you did tbd but you guys

00:30:17.039 --> 00:30:20.819
did gasset goes west and i think you did graze

00:30:20.819 --> 00:30:23.839
and i was like oh my god now that's just that

00:30:23.839 --> 00:30:26.740
was just the sound the whole band was so tight

00:30:26.740 --> 00:30:30.279
then I mean, it would rival any band. You know,

00:30:30.279 --> 00:30:33.039
I thought you guys were the top of your game

00:30:33.039 --> 00:30:35.460
in Secret Samadhi. And I think a lot of fans

00:30:35.460 --> 00:30:39.599
felt that that that version alive was just powerful

00:30:39.599 --> 00:30:42.740
enough. A four piece, right? You guys were four

00:30:42.740 --> 00:30:45.039
piece and everything was just like, man, that's

00:30:45.039 --> 00:30:46.920
just so clicked in. You would hear the record,

00:30:47.019 --> 00:30:49.380
go see them. There's no difference. It's like,

00:30:49.380 --> 00:30:54.200
man, that's really rare. Right. Yeah. I mean,

00:30:54.200 --> 00:30:56.039
we took pride in it, too, and being a four piece

00:30:56.039 --> 00:30:58.519
and then You know, want to start adding a keyboard

00:30:58.519 --> 00:31:00.519
player and all this bullshit. I was like, whatever.

00:31:01.259 --> 00:31:03.720
I've always wanted to be more rocking in the

00:31:03.720 --> 00:31:07.099
band. Yeah. We just kind of floated away from

00:31:07.099 --> 00:31:11.779
that. But yeah, it's interesting. It's interesting.

00:31:12.299 --> 00:31:15.099
It seemed like somewhere between and I think

00:31:15.099 --> 00:31:17.480
I've heard other fans say this, like, I don't

00:31:17.480 --> 00:31:22.480
know if it was after 99 or after 2000. Ed almost

00:31:22.480 --> 00:31:26.500
went like he wasn't using that real Graspiness

00:31:26.500 --> 00:31:28.599
to his voice, like when he would, you know, like

00:31:28.599 --> 00:31:30.680
yell and stuff like, you know, he almost made

00:31:30.680 --> 00:31:35.660
it like, um, like, uh, I don't want to say a

00:31:35.660 --> 00:31:38.200
pussy way of singing for him, but it just wasn't

00:31:38.200 --> 00:31:40.740
that great that he once had and that angst in

00:31:40.740 --> 00:31:42.079
it. Bob, do you know what I'm talking about?

00:31:42.299 --> 00:31:44.460
Like, yeah. So, so let me give you a little background

00:31:44.460 --> 00:31:46.980
on that. When you guys did the distance to hear

00:31:46.980 --> 00:31:50.140
poor in 99 and you were on the East coast, you

00:31:50.140 --> 00:31:52.559
played the tower theater and Ed was sick. All

00:31:52.559 --> 00:31:54.849
right. Remember Ed was very sick. and then they

00:31:54.849 --> 00:31:57.009
can you guys canceled a bunch of shows after

00:31:57.009 --> 00:32:00.930
like November 20th or whatever and you guys postponed

00:32:00.930 --> 00:32:03.609
the the New Year's Eve show and Hershey because

00:32:03.609 --> 00:32:07.509
he was really sick his voice his voice I don't

00:32:07.509 --> 00:32:10.190
think ever was that edgy after that I don't know

00:32:10.190 --> 00:32:12.970
if he screwed up his vocal cords but he played

00:32:12.970 --> 00:32:16.450
he sang a lot softer than for several years and

00:32:16.450 --> 00:32:19.349
well now he's a little bit more edgy but not

00:32:19.349 --> 00:32:22.920
not that older older mental jewelry voice because

00:32:22.920 --> 00:32:25.039
your voice changes you guys were kids right your

00:32:25.039 --> 00:32:28.960
voice still changes yeah so and that stuff you

00:32:28.960 --> 00:32:32.599
put it in a bottle but i i knew that he was his

00:32:32.599 --> 00:32:34.700
voice was he was having issues with his voice

00:32:34.700 --> 00:32:38.140
and you know but that's my take on it and yeah

00:32:38.140 --> 00:32:39.920
but i hear what you're saying about him sounding

00:32:39.920 --> 00:32:44.059
softer and more pitchy and whatever i yeah but

00:32:44.059 --> 00:32:46.220
there's there's that's what i think is the reason

00:32:46.220 --> 00:32:49.099
but there could be others i don't know but that's

00:32:49.099 --> 00:32:52.750
what i think yeah I mean, that probably played

00:32:52.750 --> 00:32:54.769
into it, but also I think he's just learning

00:32:54.769 --> 00:32:59.250
how to sing properly as well over those years.

00:33:00.089 --> 00:33:02.690
That's true. In the early years, he was just

00:33:02.690 --> 00:33:07.450
singing the way he was. When you naturally start

00:33:07.450 --> 00:33:11.230
to sing, you don't support your diaphragm correctly

00:33:11.230 --> 00:33:14.809
and you're not supporting your vocal chords correctly

00:33:14.809 --> 00:33:19.420
and that can lead to harming them. Okay, I think

00:33:19.420 --> 00:33:21.539
if I remember correctly, he may have been taking

00:33:21.539 --> 00:33:24.900
I don't say vocal lessons but getting Lessons

00:33:24.900 --> 00:33:28.599
on how to breathe right? Yeah, I remember reading

00:33:28.599 --> 00:33:32.319
something about that. Yeah Well, I was gonna

00:33:32.319 --> 00:33:34.319
I just remember I want to touch on something

00:33:34.319 --> 00:33:36.839
going back to the bootleg thing at some point

00:33:36.839 --> 00:33:39.000
Chad Taylor and I we had this whole conversation

00:33:39.000 --> 00:33:41.400
during when we were making the gracious shoe

00:33:41.400 --> 00:33:45.220
stuff about putting out each version of the song

00:33:45.220 --> 00:33:49.299
as we wrote it and like how it would like mature

00:33:49.299 --> 00:33:50.960
into what it became on the record yeah they're

00:33:50.960 --> 00:33:52.940
definitely they're definitely different because

00:33:52.940 --> 00:33:55.359
i john i have some of them they're they're definitely

00:33:55.359 --> 00:33:58.859
different guys that would have been very cool

00:33:58.859 --> 00:34:00.839
yeah so i mean chad and i actually talked about

00:34:00.839 --> 00:34:02.900
doing that like putting out each version of the

00:34:02.900 --> 00:34:06.259
song like we wrote it here it is raw like the

00:34:06.259 --> 00:34:08.920
way we put it together and then it gets a little

00:34:08.920 --> 00:34:12.010
bit more But obviously never did that, but it

00:34:12.010 --> 00:34:15.170
was a good idea. That's a great idea. I wonder

00:34:15.170 --> 00:34:17.889
why. Well, I mean, I'm sure there is logistics

00:34:17.889 --> 00:34:19.769
on why you guys didn't do that. But I wonder

00:34:19.769 --> 00:34:22.909
why more bands don't do that. Maybe because it's

00:34:22.909 --> 00:34:25.309
so easy to do now. If a band has a YouTube channel,

00:34:25.329 --> 00:34:27.369
you just like here, we just wrote the song. Check

00:34:27.369 --> 00:34:30.510
it out. Right. And then, you know, a couple of

00:34:30.510 --> 00:34:32.630
maybe a week or two or three or whatever a month

00:34:32.630 --> 00:34:35.309
later. Oh, here's here's how the song sounds

00:34:35.309 --> 00:34:37.690
now. Now we're going to record it. This is the

00:34:37.690 --> 00:34:40.280
actual recording. You know, whatever. Yeah. Yeah,

00:34:40.280 --> 00:34:42.780
that's a good point. Especially if you did it

00:34:42.780 --> 00:34:45.420
with Honest Man because you went with, it started

00:34:45.420 --> 00:34:48.219
off Believe with Live and then it went into Honest

00:34:48.219 --> 00:34:51.860
Man with The Gracious Fuso to see the transition.

00:34:52.480 --> 00:34:54.260
That would have been cool from when you guys

00:34:54.260 --> 00:34:57.320
first had Kevin start to put his spin on it up

00:34:57.320 --> 00:34:58.940
until the release of it. That would have been

00:34:58.940 --> 00:35:01.900
really cool. And I don't think I'd say this this

00:35:01.900 --> 00:35:04.679
often, but that was the first time I was like,

00:35:04.699 --> 00:35:08.579
whoa, somebody could do something. a little bit

00:35:08.579 --> 00:35:10.940
better than Ed did with it, because I never thought

00:35:10.940 --> 00:35:12.619
that before. I thought Ed was the man, the myth,

00:35:12.659 --> 00:35:15.159
the legend. So to have him put his spin on a

00:35:15.159 --> 00:35:16.179
song, I was like, all right, that's got to be

00:35:16.179 --> 00:35:18.679
the best it could be. And then you hear Kevin

00:35:18.679 --> 00:35:21.739
come in with, you know, there's a riot in mind.

00:35:21.739 --> 00:35:24.000
And then you guys just start jamming on. I'm

00:35:24.000 --> 00:35:27.179
like, oh, dude. Well, as I said before about

00:35:27.179 --> 00:35:30.440
that topic, I don't think at that point communication

00:35:30.440 --> 00:35:33.920
and broken down, we were like. About to go our

00:35:33.920 --> 00:35:36.920
separate ways and we gave that to Ed. And I mean,

00:35:36.980 --> 00:35:38.840
like I said, I don't. I don't think he put his

00:35:38.840 --> 00:35:41.840
best best effort into it just because he didn't

00:35:41.840 --> 00:35:44.519
feel like doing it time. I don't know. That's

00:35:44.519 --> 00:35:47.659
my opinion. But and it wasn't all his, you know,

00:35:47.659 --> 00:35:49.739
like he didn't write it start to finish. He just

00:35:49.739 --> 00:35:52.199
kind of came in and put melodies and lyrics over

00:35:52.199 --> 00:35:55.300
it. Right. Yeah, but that was a cool song. I

00:35:55.300 --> 00:35:59.300
saw that you guys played at someplace in Atlantic

00:35:59.300 --> 00:36:01.420
City, maybe showboat or something right before

00:36:01.420 --> 00:36:05.059
the hiatus in 2009. And you guys played that

00:36:05.059 --> 00:36:06.670
there and it was. It was definitely cool. But

00:36:06.670 --> 00:36:08.250
then to hear the Gracious Few version, I was

00:36:08.250 --> 00:36:12.110
like, whoa, I almost put together at first to

00:36:12.110 --> 00:36:14.389
realize that they were the same song, because

00:36:14.389 --> 00:36:16.989
even though the core of it's the same, it's just

00:36:16.989 --> 00:36:22.210
it's a lot different. Mm hmm. Yeah. And we brought

00:36:22.210 --> 00:36:23.989
it up. So we played it for Kevin. He was like,

00:36:23.989 --> 00:36:26.650
that's bad. So, you know, obviously it was the

00:36:26.650 --> 00:36:31.170
excitement of the new the new thing and. And

00:36:31.170 --> 00:36:34.219
rocking out again, so. Now with the gracious

00:36:34.219 --> 00:36:37.360
few Chad, I think I heard this I might be mistaken

00:36:37.360 --> 00:36:40.679
but I thought I heard that Chad Taylor like kind

00:36:40.679 --> 00:36:44.440
of didn't want the Responsibility of being like

00:36:44.440 --> 00:36:46.800
the lead guitarist. He wanted to be more background

00:36:46.800 --> 00:36:50.860
in this band, but it seems like he Really took

00:36:50.860 --> 00:36:53.460
over the the lead guitarist role in that and

00:36:53.460 --> 00:36:56.079
really You know put his heart and soul into it.

00:36:56.119 --> 00:36:58.739
Do I have that twisted? Did I I thought I remember

00:36:58.739 --> 00:37:00.659
hearing like he wanted more of like a backseat

00:37:00.659 --> 00:37:03.679
role And then it just didn't seem to turn out

00:37:03.679 --> 00:37:08.719
that way. I mean, Chad is not going to take a

00:37:08.719 --> 00:37:11.679
back seat, even if he says he's going to. But

00:37:11.679 --> 00:37:15.099
as far as like solos, he would hand those off

00:37:15.099 --> 00:37:18.260
to Sean, like most of the solo for Sean, because

00:37:18.260 --> 00:37:21.369
Sean is... Chad's a great guitar player and he

00:37:21.369 --> 00:37:23.570
does his thing, but he's not an amazing soloist.

00:37:23.809 --> 00:37:27.070
Like, he's not like a fucking, he's not that

00:37:27.070 --> 00:37:28.650
kind of guy. He's never been that kind of guy.

00:37:29.130 --> 00:37:31.469
But Sean, Sean could play anything at the time.

00:37:31.570 --> 00:37:33.449
I mean, he was fucking, he's still, he's still

00:37:33.449 --> 00:37:35.070
an amazing guitar player. But he - The good,

00:37:35.070 --> 00:37:37.130
the good thing about those shows is that Sean

00:37:37.130 --> 00:37:39.969
and Chad played off each other during the shows

00:37:39.969 --> 00:37:41.690
and they, where, where there was a solo that

00:37:41.690 --> 00:37:43.670
Sean would do, Chad would come in and they would

00:37:43.670 --> 00:37:46.170
actually duel, right? Some of them are duels

00:37:46.170 --> 00:37:49.889
like - I think it was, what is it, Crying Time

00:37:49.889 --> 00:37:53.750
had dual souls and Chad would do an outro solo.

00:37:53.909 --> 00:37:56.409
It was, it was definitely what you said, John,

00:37:56.670 --> 00:38:00.289
mostly, you know, Chad did do a few more solos

00:38:00.289 --> 00:38:06.010
in that arrangement than before. Right. But it

00:38:06.010 --> 00:38:08.849
was just fantastic stuff, you know. Yeah, and

00:38:08.849 --> 00:38:10.510
most of those, you know, most of those songs

00:38:10.510 --> 00:38:13.269
were, you know, Chad Taylor guitar riff ideas

00:38:13.269 --> 00:38:18.050
that we fucking wrote, which are... Crying time.

00:38:19.070 --> 00:38:22.309
That song I could put on repeat and just listen.

00:38:22.389 --> 00:38:23.630
I remember the first time I heard it, I was like,

00:38:23.650 --> 00:38:28.110
wow, that is a crying time. It's like a slower

00:38:28.110 --> 00:38:30.610
song on there, but just the lyrics are great.

00:38:30.730 --> 00:38:32.789
The band sounds awesome behind it. It's just,

00:38:32.989 --> 00:38:34.409
I remember hearing, I was like, wow, this is

00:38:34.409 --> 00:38:38.269
a really, really good song. Like, uh, and I kind

00:38:38.269 --> 00:38:43.800
of wrote that about, um, this guy, um, Oh shit,

00:38:43.920 --> 00:38:45.980
now I can't remember his name. Wendell something.

00:38:46.019 --> 00:38:48.820
Wendell, yeah. Thank you. Wendell was the, so

00:38:48.820 --> 00:38:51.500
Wendell was from Philadelphia and big fan of

00:38:51.500 --> 00:38:53.619
the bands. And he was like the doorman at the

00:38:53.619 --> 00:38:57.440
fucking Sunset Marquis whiskey bar. Wow. And

00:38:57.440 --> 00:38:59.460
so that was like the place to be in the nineties

00:38:59.460 --> 00:39:02.579
and like two thousands. And he would always like,

00:39:03.260 --> 00:39:05.980
he would always let us in. Because he was like

00:39:05.980 --> 00:39:08.099
he was fucking huge fan like I'm talking like

00:39:08.099 --> 00:39:10.260
no big Hollywood actors will be in this place

00:39:10.260 --> 00:39:12.559
like all the bands would be there Metallica like

00:39:12.559 --> 00:39:14.320
everyone stay at the Sunset Marquis go to the

00:39:14.320 --> 00:39:17.119
whiskey bar, right? It was always a scene and

00:39:17.119 --> 00:39:19.780
Wendell was fucking awesome So he and he loved

00:39:19.780 --> 00:39:22.159
Kevin as well Kevin was good actually good pretty

00:39:22.159 --> 00:39:25.039
good friends And then he he hooked up with the

00:39:25.039 --> 00:39:28.380
bass player from Smashing Pumpkins Darcy Nice

00:39:28.380 --> 00:39:30.840
who got him hooked on smack and that's how I

00:39:30.840 --> 00:39:35.139
died. Oh my god Yeah, I went from nice to oh,

00:39:35.260 --> 00:39:38.940
shit. Yeah. Does Wendell know that song about

00:39:38.940 --> 00:39:43.039
him or did he know he's dead? So did he know

00:39:43.039 --> 00:39:45.780
at the time or was he gone? He was already passed.

00:39:46.139 --> 00:39:50.159
Oh, my God. Yeah. Yeah. Now those lyrics are

00:39:50.159 --> 00:39:53.300
so much more to me now that I know what that's

00:39:53.300 --> 00:39:56.119
about. Wow. It's crying time, but we're still

00:39:56.119 --> 00:39:58.519
young. Well, that's yeah. Those are deep, man.

00:40:00.089 --> 00:40:03.530
I kind of nailed on that one for sure. Yeah,

00:40:03.909 --> 00:40:07.710
that was a good one. Good one. And so I wanted

00:40:07.710 --> 00:40:09.989
to go back to when you guys were talking about

00:40:09.989 --> 00:40:13.829
the host distance to here. Well, when I think

00:40:13.829 --> 00:40:15.630
we talked, was it two weeks ago you were talking

00:40:15.630 --> 00:40:19.289
about the bras on the stage story? Yeah, two

00:40:19.289 --> 00:40:23.010
or three weeks ago, something like that. I was

00:40:23.010 --> 00:40:26.230
at that show. Didn't you give me the count via

00:40:26.230 --> 00:40:30.889
text? I was amazed. I was like, wait a minute.

00:40:31.050 --> 00:40:33.090
This doesn't normally happen at a live show,

00:40:33.289 --> 00:40:37.570
but soon after school. I was like, let's get

00:40:37.570 --> 00:40:39.809
as many as we can. Well, if you remember, I was

00:40:39.809 --> 00:40:41.969
in the front, right at front center and there

00:40:41.969 --> 00:40:44.550
was a woman named Susan to my left. Oh yeah,

00:40:44.610 --> 00:40:48.929
Susan. You may remember that fan and she was,

00:40:49.750 --> 00:40:53.159
she had no clothes on. No, of course not dude.

00:40:53.239 --> 00:40:55.820
She was not whatever happened to Susan after

00:40:55.820 --> 00:40:58.960
after we broke up in 2009 like she was gone Never

00:40:58.960 --> 00:41:01.139
seen her again. I don't know the last time I

00:41:01.139 --> 00:41:06.360
think I saw her Might have been 2003. She was

00:41:06.360 --> 00:41:14.019
literally in the crowd Where depends to get and

00:41:14.019 --> 00:41:16.559
get there and be in the front and she were where

00:41:16.559 --> 00:41:20.309
depends so she didn't have to leave Wow She would

00:41:20.309 --> 00:41:22.210
get there super early, always be in the front

00:41:22.210 --> 00:41:24.230
and then have depends on literally she would

00:41:24.230 --> 00:41:25.949
depend so she could stand in the front all the

00:41:25.949 --> 00:41:29.050
time. She was one of the super groupie fans.

00:41:29.550 --> 00:41:31.969
And I think back to what I said, I think I blast

00:41:31.969 --> 00:41:37.690
him. I saw her was the Dennis Rodman show at

00:41:37.690 --> 00:41:40.769
Atlantic City at Taj Mahal because I was, that

00:41:40.769 --> 00:41:43.369
was my birthday and I was at that show with some

00:41:43.369 --> 00:41:46.409
friends and I happened to catch her in the crowd

00:41:46.409 --> 00:41:49.190
and I met Dennis in the bar, which was cool.

00:41:49.630 --> 00:41:55.449
That was nice. But there's a lot of memorable

00:41:55.449 --> 00:41:58.409
stuff. I can't put the stories like Jimmy Lang

00:41:58.409 --> 00:42:01.469
can, but I've been to enough shows where I can

00:42:01.469 --> 00:42:04.150
memorize what happened during the day and what

00:42:04.150 --> 00:42:06.909
happened during the show or after the show. But

00:42:06.909 --> 00:42:09.829
at that show in Cobus School, New York, and that

00:42:09.829 --> 00:42:12.130
was postponed because of Ed being sick in the

00:42:12.130 --> 00:42:15.039
fall, right? Everything was moved. And it was,

00:42:15.139 --> 00:42:17.340
it was like freezing. It had to be like zero

00:42:17.340 --> 00:42:20.260
degrees out there in New York state. And I met

00:42:20.260 --> 00:42:23.539
you guys at the bus after the show. And I remember

00:42:23.539 --> 00:42:26.380
seeing, I think, I think Ed's wife was there.

00:42:26.559 --> 00:42:28.619
I don't know. I don't know if all of his families,

00:42:28.719 --> 00:42:31.460
but I remember seeing Aaron with Ed and I was

00:42:31.460 --> 00:42:35.059
like, it was cool. It was, it was interesting.

00:42:35.079 --> 00:42:36.980
It was interesting ride home discussion. That's

00:42:36.980 --> 00:42:39.300
for sure. After the fact, seeing all that on

00:42:39.300 --> 00:42:43.639
the stage. But I think, I think I forget the

00:42:43.639 --> 00:42:45.460
opening band. It might've been Jimmy's Chicken

00:42:45.460 --> 00:42:52.039
Shack. What year was that? 2000? 2000. February

00:42:52.039 --> 00:42:57.699
6th. So I got divorced in 99 and I was single

00:42:57.699 --> 00:43:02.219
until around 2002. Yes. And in that window of

00:43:02.219 --> 00:43:06.099
time, we all kind of went a little crazy. As

00:43:06.099 --> 00:43:08.940
you should. As you should. Hence the bras on

00:43:08.940 --> 00:43:13.530
stage. That was a new thing for us. Now Chad

00:43:13.530 --> 00:43:15.710
was this at the point where you guys were all

00:43:15.710 --> 00:43:18.050
like didn't you each have your own like tour

00:43:18.050 --> 00:43:22.170
bus like to go on tour was like Well at one point

00:43:22.170 --> 00:43:25.269
during maybe distance to here we Chad and Ed

00:43:25.269 --> 00:43:27.429
had their own buses because they wanted to bring

00:43:27.429 --> 00:43:30.869
out their families and Pat and I were on a bus

00:43:30.869 --> 00:43:33.670
like three buses. Yeah at that point I was gonna

00:43:33.670 --> 00:43:36.110
say that's that's crazy. I've never you know,

00:43:36.110 --> 00:43:38.210
you always hear bands traveling on a bus you

00:43:38.210 --> 00:43:41.429
guys had like two or three going yeah, and like

00:43:41.429 --> 00:43:44.260
even like these last tours we did in 17, 18,

00:43:44.340 --> 00:43:46.940
19, we had two buses, two, two van buses, so

00:43:46.940 --> 00:43:48.559
we could spread out and bring out families if

00:43:48.559 --> 00:43:52.159
they want to come out, kids and stuff. So, yeah,

00:43:52.159 --> 00:43:55.599
I mean, we were on one bus until, let's see,

00:43:55.880 --> 00:43:58.619
probably. Yeah. Most of Thurman Cotter were in

00:43:58.619 --> 00:44:00.559
one bus, and I think distance here, we had two

00:44:00.559 --> 00:44:03.039
van buses. And then we had three for distance

00:44:03.039 --> 00:44:05.139
to here. Never four though. Never, each of us

00:44:05.139 --> 00:44:07.500
never had our own bus. Well, the good, that's

00:44:07.500 --> 00:44:10.599
a little excessive. Did, have your kids ever

00:44:10.599 --> 00:44:14.039
come out or? Maybe not on stage, but side stage?

00:44:14.179 --> 00:44:16.099
Like, have they ever seen their dad, like, rocking

00:44:16.099 --> 00:44:19.079
out? Oh, yeah, yeah. There were a bunch of times,

00:44:19.179 --> 00:44:22.880
in 17, 18, 19. Actually, my son turned 10. We

00:44:22.880 --> 00:44:24.679
were playing in Phoenix. His name is Phoenix.

00:44:24.900 --> 00:44:27.679
He turned 10 on the day we played in Phoenix.

00:44:28.280 --> 00:44:31.900
So I brought him on stage, and it was the rare

00:44:31.900 --> 00:44:33.780
time where I got up to the front, took the mic,

00:44:34.159 --> 00:44:36.159
and had everyone, had the crowd sing happy birthday

00:44:36.159 --> 00:44:42.780
to him. Oh, cool. Phoenix in Phoenix turning

00:44:42.780 --> 00:44:46.239
on a birthday. Great, man. That's awesome. 10

00:44:46.239 --> 00:44:51.019
-21. 10 -21 -09. It's his birthday. The Music

00:44:51.019 --> 00:44:55.280
Fest show in Bethlehem in 2017, all the family

00:44:55.280 --> 00:44:57.840
was there, John, and they all had everybody come

00:44:57.840 --> 00:45:00.820
out at the end of the show and everybody came

00:45:00.820 --> 00:45:03.679
out, did the bow together. Yeah, wives, kids.

00:45:04.000 --> 00:45:06.880
Everyone was there across the front to take the

00:45:06.880 --> 00:45:11.139
bow. So that was cool. Yeah. As it should be.

00:45:11.239 --> 00:45:14.119
I mean, you guys, you know, your fans kind of

00:45:14.119 --> 00:45:16.159
feel like your family. So it only makes sense

00:45:16.159 --> 00:45:18.360
to have your family actually come up on stage

00:45:18.360 --> 00:45:21.480
and, you know, say hi to the say hi to the people.

00:45:22.920 --> 00:45:28.519
That was the time. The last show I went to, I

00:45:28.519 --> 00:45:31.519
guess, the Ridgefield Regency. I believe it was

00:45:31.519 --> 00:45:35.280
Ed's son. He. I got to go hang out backstage

00:45:35.280 --> 00:45:37.300
with them and Zach Lloyd brought me back there,

00:45:37.320 --> 00:45:40.619
but his son was behind a bar making people drinks.

00:45:40.760 --> 00:45:42.900
So I got up there just like grab a drink and

00:45:42.900 --> 00:45:44.760
Ed's son's like, what can I get you? I'm like,

00:45:44.760 --> 00:45:47.820
uh, I'll just take a beer. Like, I don't, I don't

00:45:47.820 --> 00:45:49.820
want you to have to mix a drink for me, but it

00:45:49.820 --> 00:45:52.300
was cool. The, uh, he was getting involved and

00:45:52.300 --> 00:45:55.260
he was personable and talking to everybody. And,

00:45:55.300 --> 00:45:57.219
um, you know, it was like a family affair back

00:45:57.219 --> 00:46:00.000
there. Interesting. Cool. Yeah. It was kind of

00:46:00.000 --> 00:46:02.860
cool. That was at the, uh, Ridgefield. Regency.

00:46:03.000 --> 00:46:05.500
Oh, Wendell's song, Bill. Bill Hines says Crying

00:46:05.500 --> 00:46:09.039
Time is called, I guess, Wendell's song, parentheses.

00:46:09.239 --> 00:46:11.960
That was the original. Yeah, that was the original

00:46:11.960 --> 00:46:16.039
working title. I mean, changes of Crying Time

00:46:16.039 --> 00:46:18.300
with, I guess, just in parentheses. Yeah, Wendell's

00:46:18.300 --> 00:46:21.480
song. Yeah, because that like that song could

00:46:21.480 --> 00:46:24.179
have been, you know, like, you know, in movie

00:46:24.179 --> 00:46:26.900
show, like in movies and TV shows like that had

00:46:26.900 --> 00:46:30.679
real good like appeal that if, you know, it could

00:46:30.679 --> 00:46:33.590
have been like in a party of five scene or something

00:46:33.590 --> 00:46:35.349
like that. Like if you don't know what it's about,

00:46:35.750 --> 00:46:38.190
like you just have vibe to it that the first

00:46:38.190 --> 00:46:42.269
a lot of times music needs to grow on you. And

00:46:42.269 --> 00:46:44.469
there was a bunch of songs on the gracious few

00:46:44.469 --> 00:46:46.590
album that they didn't need to grow on you. The

00:46:46.590 --> 00:46:47.969
first time you heard it, you're like, that's

00:46:47.969 --> 00:46:52.269
awesome. And that was one of them for me. Mm

00:46:52.269 --> 00:46:56.809
hmm. Good record. Yeah, it's a good record. Is

00:46:56.809 --> 00:46:59.440
the. Have you talked to anybody from Candlebox

00:46:59.440 --> 00:47:02.860
since those days? Like, are this Candlebox out

00:47:02.860 --> 00:47:05.420
doing stuff? Like, I don't even know. Kevin still

00:47:05.420 --> 00:47:07.960
does Candlebox. It's just him. There's no original

00:47:07.960 --> 00:47:12.820
members. I think 23 was his. He keeps threatening

00:47:12.820 --> 00:47:16.199
to retire and not do it again. I believe he did.

00:47:16.599 --> 00:47:22.280
They're done. I saw a photo from him and his

00:47:22.280 --> 00:47:25.139
son in the golf cart saying retirement is good.

00:47:25.559 --> 00:47:27.539
They were out golfing. He had a big cigar in

00:47:27.539 --> 00:47:30.440
his mouth and his son, his son's all grown up.

00:47:30.579 --> 00:47:32.159
Right. So they were, they were in a golf cart

00:47:32.159 --> 00:47:35.940
golfing together. So I said, enjoy it. He'll,

00:47:35.960 --> 00:47:37.960
I'm sure he'll scratch the itch when he's ready.

00:47:38.360 --> 00:47:41.179
Right. So sure. Yeah. Yeah. His, his wife is

00:47:41.179 --> 00:47:44.420
very successful. She makes some, uh, these crazy,

00:47:44.420 --> 00:47:47.559
uh, like really cool dresses that have like took

00:47:47.559 --> 00:47:49.500
off, taken off in Hollywood and like all the

00:47:49.500 --> 00:47:52.079
starware and stuff. So Like the couture dresses,

00:47:52.239 --> 00:47:53.920
they're like handmade? No, not couture, more

00:47:53.920 --> 00:47:58.179
like sundresses kind of thing. And I think she's

00:47:58.179 --> 00:48:01.739
doing very well with it, so. Well, doesn't couture,

00:48:01.780 --> 00:48:04.840
I don't know. I'm not a fashionista or fashion

00:48:04.840 --> 00:48:07.860
whatever, but doesn't couture just mean handmade?

00:48:08.320 --> 00:48:10.260
Like, I know that there's like juicy couturism,

00:48:10.320 --> 00:48:12.320
but I think doesn't the word couture just mean

00:48:12.320 --> 00:48:14.719
like handmade? I don't know. I don't know. I

00:48:14.719 --> 00:48:19.369
always. Liking it to like, you know, super high

00:48:19.369 --> 00:48:21.469
-end fancy dresses right there. Those are probably

00:48:21.469 --> 00:48:25.769
all handmade, which right sense Yeah, my femme

00:48:25.769 --> 00:48:29.230
feminine side is not Cracked out to cracked out

00:48:29.230 --> 00:48:30.670
to what it should be. You know, I should know

00:48:30.670 --> 00:48:35.409
these things Got the long hair So Bob, did you

00:48:35.409 --> 00:48:39.349
actually start the friends of live? Facebook

00:48:39.349 --> 00:48:44.489
fan page I did not you did not know I did not

00:48:44.489 --> 00:48:48.269
it was it started I believe it came to be by

00:48:48.269 --> 00:48:50.889
some other friends, other fans. I think it might've

00:48:50.889 --> 00:48:56.309
been Ali Petchel. It was right around the hiatus,

00:48:56.530 --> 00:49:00.409
I think, the first one. I did not start that.

00:49:00.929 --> 00:49:07.090
I've just been bequeathed the status and the

00:49:07.090 --> 00:49:11.010
Freaks for Live page was started. after that

00:49:11.010 --> 00:49:13.969
page that's that page came along during the Christian

00:49:13.969 --> 00:49:17.510
years and they're both of them are same admin

00:49:17.510 --> 00:49:19.909
group right just there was a second one started

00:49:19.909 --> 00:49:23.269
and the original friends alive was there before

00:49:23.269 --> 00:49:27.110
I joined Facebook I believe so it's been there

00:49:27.110 --> 00:49:30.170
since oh eight or oh nine so I'm pretty sure

00:49:30.170 --> 00:49:33.469
it's been it's been handed around to different

00:49:33.469 --> 00:49:36.570
fans and you know yeah because I see you but

00:49:36.570 --> 00:49:40.510
I did not start it What's crazy about our socials

00:49:40.510 --> 00:49:42.989
is that right as we broke up is when social media

00:49:42.989 --> 00:49:46.570
started taking off. So, like the live page on

00:49:46.570 --> 00:49:48.849
Facebook, I mean, I think it's pretty robust

00:49:48.849 --> 00:49:51.690
now, but at the time, you know, it was pretty

00:49:51.690 --> 00:49:55.090
crappy and Instagram, we're small. Like I think

00:49:55.090 --> 00:49:59.010
as far as live is concerned, like we, as for

00:49:59.010 --> 00:50:02.010
all of our contemporaries, like they have way

00:50:02.010 --> 00:50:06.010
more fans on Instagram than live does. Nowadays,

00:50:06.230 --> 00:50:09.469
when you book shows, they'll say, how many Instagram

00:50:09.469 --> 00:50:11.070
followers do you have? And they can never follow

00:50:11.070 --> 00:50:13.829
that metric with us because our Instagram page

00:50:13.829 --> 00:50:17.650
was way smaller than our actual draw for people

00:50:17.650 --> 00:50:21.570
for shows. I think it's still maybe 30 ,000 or

00:50:21.570 --> 00:50:23.389
something like that. It's ridiculous. It should

00:50:23.389 --> 00:50:25.829
be in the millions. But as I said, we broke up

00:50:25.829 --> 00:50:28.409
right as that shit started. And so no one was

00:50:28.409 --> 00:50:32.320
tending it. Right. Right. Yeah, well because

00:50:32.320 --> 00:50:35.139
I mean when you sell 25 million records you would

00:50:35.139 --> 00:50:37.639
think that your social media would reflect that

00:50:37.639 --> 00:50:40.340
but like you said you guys were not really Up

00:50:40.340 --> 00:50:43.019
on it and then it kind of blew up when you guys

00:50:43.019 --> 00:50:46.519
were on your little hiatus there So it wasn't

00:50:46.519 --> 00:50:48.820
you know being handled the way it should have

00:50:48.820 --> 00:50:51.159
Yeah, cuz that should be you guys should have

00:50:51.159 --> 00:50:54.460
tons of fucking like like toad the wet sprocket

00:50:54.460 --> 00:50:57.559
could have more Instagram followers than live

00:50:58.250 --> 00:51:00.650
Well, then also throw in the confusion of the

00:51:00.650 --> 00:51:03.010
name live as well. So that fucking doesn't help

00:51:03.010 --> 00:51:06.650
us. I was just gonna say that. Yeah, that that's

00:51:06.650 --> 00:51:08.449
always been a problem, right? It's searching.

00:51:09.309 --> 00:51:11.369
If you're trying to like that guy, that guy's

00:51:11.369 --> 00:51:15.610
who the million shows channel, I went to go through

00:51:15.610 --> 00:51:17.789
his channel to see if there are any other live

00:51:17.789 --> 00:51:19.909
concerts in there. And I know there's one the

00:51:19.909 --> 00:51:22.889
Allentown 95 show but trying to find it with

00:51:22.889 --> 00:51:25.550
the word live, or you got to do the band live.

00:51:25.989 --> 00:51:28.829
Your best bet is to say the band live in a search.

00:51:29.130 --> 00:51:31.409
You'll get something, but more than just the

00:51:31.409 --> 00:51:36.489
word live. So it's always been interesting. As

00:51:36.489 --> 00:51:39.010
I say, we named ourselves. I would never changed

00:51:39.010 --> 00:51:42.449
it. It works, man. It works on the artwork, the

00:51:42.449 --> 00:51:45.670
album covers. It works. So, you know, don't change

00:51:45.670 --> 00:51:48.610
it. Even though there's that drawback. The first

00:51:48.610 --> 00:51:50.820
time Uncle George was on the chart. on the Billboard

00:51:50.820 --> 00:51:53.780
charts, it got listed reverse. So it was like

00:51:53.780 --> 00:51:56.119
Mental Jewelry was the band name and the record.

00:51:56.380 --> 00:51:59.460
Oh, really? Yeah. How funny. Billboard messed

00:51:59.460 --> 00:52:02.920
it up. Yes. You know, we were first charted because

00:52:02.920 --> 00:52:04.420
we remember looking at it going, what the fuck?

00:52:05.199 --> 00:52:08.239
They fucked up. It says our name is Mental Jewelry.

00:52:09.280 --> 00:52:11.739
Well, it's such a cool name for a band. But then

00:52:11.739 --> 00:52:13.599
when you when you, you know, the Internet comes

00:52:13.599 --> 00:52:15.519
into play and you're searching for something,

00:52:15.579 --> 00:52:18.460
you know, it'll pull up. You type in live, whatever

00:52:18.460 --> 00:52:22.840
live, I alone. It might pull up like, you know,

00:52:22.980 --> 00:52:26.500
Aro Smith, Steven Tyler alone singing a live

00:52:26.500 --> 00:52:27.900
version of a song, you know what I'm saying?

00:52:27.940 --> 00:52:31.139
Like it doesn't realize like, I mean, no, the

00:52:31.139 --> 00:52:33.320
band live. And like Bob said, if you type in

00:52:33.320 --> 00:52:37.099
the band live, then it helps. But they got to

00:52:37.099 --> 00:52:39.980
make sure that they had like their metadata done

00:52:39.980 --> 00:52:42.579
properly to where that because I kind of do that

00:52:42.579 --> 00:52:45.079
with with stuff that I tag is I put the band

00:52:45.079 --> 00:52:48.199
live, like I put that in like the. You know,

00:52:48.800 --> 00:52:52.559
uh, all that shit is, you got to do it that way.

00:52:52.719 --> 00:52:56.179
Yeah. You know, when, when you guys decide to

00:52:56.179 --> 00:52:58.420
go to therapy and get back together and announce

00:52:58.420 --> 00:53:00.500
some shows, make sure you just put them out as

00:53:00.500 --> 00:53:03.360
the body odor boys, right? Go to, go to, go to

00:53:03.360 --> 00:53:07.099
advertise with that name and then have a play

00:53:07.099 --> 00:53:09.880
on with that and then say, Oh, by the way, this

00:53:09.880 --> 00:53:13.639
is live. Right. She just, You know what I mean?

00:53:14.099 --> 00:53:17.039
Do a wrinkle like that. If we come back together,

00:53:17.159 --> 00:53:18.460
it's definitely going to be therapy. I'm not

00:53:18.460 --> 00:53:21.460
doing it if we don't have fucking therapy. As

00:53:21.460 --> 00:53:24.079
anybody should who has a relationship for that

00:53:24.079 --> 00:53:26.420
long, right? I mean, you can't just go through

00:53:26.420 --> 00:53:28.760
life just bumbling along. I mean, that's a lot

00:53:28.760 --> 00:53:32.980
of baggage and years and stuff like anybody needs

00:53:32.980 --> 00:53:36.340
therapy for, you know, being together that long.

00:53:36.840 --> 00:53:39.199
Yeah. And especially all the shit that's happened

00:53:39.199 --> 00:53:42.739
with us. Right. And I said it on one other show,

00:53:43.119 --> 00:53:45.340
like, you know, not many people, you know, because

00:53:45.340 --> 00:53:47.380
I said, these guys will never break up. They've

00:53:47.380 --> 00:53:49.139
been friends since, you know, grade school, blah,

00:53:49.199 --> 00:53:51.280
blah, blah. But somebody said to me, like, well,

00:53:51.300 --> 00:53:52.960
who the hell are you friends with from grade

00:53:52.960 --> 00:53:55.900
school? And it like, you know, like, yeah, that's

00:53:55.900 --> 00:53:58.760
true. These guys who are, you know, who is still

00:53:58.760 --> 00:54:00.440
friends with people from grade school? Not many

00:54:00.440 --> 00:54:02.940
people. And the fact that you guys made it so

00:54:02.940 --> 00:54:06.059
long with just kind of going through life and

00:54:06.059 --> 00:54:08.119
not discussing the major things and stuff, because

00:54:08.119 --> 00:54:11.530
you were so young when, you know, fame and money

00:54:11.530 --> 00:54:13.710
were hitting you guys that it was like, you know,

00:54:14.030 --> 00:54:16.070
just kind of going through the motions and stuff

00:54:16.070 --> 00:54:18.750
that you never really got to sit down and talk

00:54:18.750 --> 00:54:20.929
about all the real stuff and blah, blah, blah,

00:54:20.929 --> 00:54:25.869
blah, blah. I feel like if there was just one

00:54:25.869 --> 00:54:27.949
smart person, especially management who said,

00:54:28.030 --> 00:54:30.530
hey, whoa, whoa, guys, let's check our egos at

00:54:30.530 --> 00:54:33.150
the door here. Let's talk. Let's get this going.

00:54:33.750 --> 00:54:36.389
We never had like a manager, a manager like that.

00:54:36.550 --> 00:54:39.710
Our manager, David Sustak and our. We had co

00:54:39.710 --> 00:54:41.429
-managers, David Sestak and Peter Freeman. Peter

00:54:41.429 --> 00:54:44.809
Freeman died in 99, 2000, somewhere around there.

00:54:44.849 --> 00:54:48.309
Rest in peace. Yeah. But they just, they weren't

00:54:48.309 --> 00:54:50.409
that, they weren't proactive managers. They were

00:54:50.409 --> 00:54:54.030
reactive managers. So it was, you know, you didn't

00:54:54.030 --> 00:54:57.030
have someone like a Paul McGinnis or, you know,

00:54:57.409 --> 00:55:00.469
who you choose forever manager. Like we didn't,

00:55:00.469 --> 00:55:02.570
we didn't have someone to guide us like that.

00:55:02.750 --> 00:55:05.929
Right. The management was spread out against

00:55:05.929 --> 00:55:08.329
other bands too, right Chad? I mean these guys

00:55:08.329 --> 00:55:10.530
were managing not just one or two bands, they

00:55:10.530 --> 00:55:12.969
had an umbrella of people that they would consider

00:55:12.969 --> 00:55:15.329
under their management umbrella and some bands

00:55:15.329 --> 00:55:18.130
got favored the more than others, right? I mean,

00:55:18.289 --> 00:55:21.230
yes, we were the biggest band they had, but it's

00:55:21.230 --> 00:55:23.650
just, it just wasn't, I mean, I'm not blaming

00:55:23.650 --> 00:55:25.610
them. I'm just saying this wasn't their style

00:55:25.610 --> 00:55:28.849
to be proactive, to go. Like for instance, I

00:55:28.849 --> 00:55:32.480
mean, you know, in fucking, what is it? 96? When

00:55:32.480 --> 00:55:35.400
did, when did Clinton get inaugurated? We got,

00:55:35.519 --> 00:55:37.239
we got, we got asked to play at the white house

00:55:37.239 --> 00:55:39.500
and like 96 and we're like, Oh, we're too tired.

00:55:39.679 --> 00:55:42.539
Like our fucking manager shouldn't like get on

00:55:42.539 --> 00:55:44.579
that. What the fuck are you doing? You'd be like,

00:55:44.579 --> 00:55:47.559
you're there, right? You say you show up on this

00:55:47.559 --> 00:55:49.639
date, you know, and then realize where, where

00:55:49.639 --> 00:55:52.079
it is. Right. And yeah, we came to the end of

00:55:52.079 --> 00:55:54.519
95 and we were fucking exhausted from touring

00:55:54.519 --> 00:55:58.280
for 18 or 20 months for throwing copper and.

00:55:59.289 --> 00:56:02.550
in the spring or maybe the early, like the winter,

00:56:02.730 --> 00:56:04.110
late winter, early spring, we were supposed to

00:56:04.110 --> 00:56:07.530
go out and do like a full on arena tour. And

00:56:07.530 --> 00:56:09.210
we didn't want to do it because, again, we were

00:56:09.210 --> 00:56:10.809
tired. Our manager should have been like, go

00:56:10.809 --> 00:56:12.929
to a fucking island, take a private jet, like

00:56:12.929 --> 00:56:15.570
you have the fucking money. And then instead

00:56:15.570 --> 00:56:18.650
it was just like, OK, they're tired. It's like,

00:56:18.650 --> 00:56:22.030
I think it was like a 15 million dollar or 20

00:56:22.030 --> 00:56:23.969
million dollar tour or something like that. Yeah.

00:56:24.110 --> 00:56:31.039
Nah, we're tired. We were 24 years, 25 years

00:56:31.039 --> 00:56:33.340
old. It's like you wish you had someone going,

00:56:33.840 --> 00:56:36.920
hey idiots, do this, shut the fuck up. Right.

00:56:37.159 --> 00:56:39.159
Go to the islands, take your girls, whatever

00:56:39.159 --> 00:56:40.800
the fuck you want to do, hire women, whatever

00:56:40.800 --> 00:56:43.260
the fuck it is. Right. Go down there and relax

00:56:43.260 --> 00:56:45.599
and then go do this fucking tour. Like you'll

00:56:45.599 --> 00:56:47.980
be fine. Well, that's my question. Like, was

00:56:47.980 --> 00:56:51.219
it the fact that you guys just became, again,

00:56:51.239 --> 00:56:53.000
not overnight, you were putting in your hours,

00:56:53.059 --> 00:56:56.280
but you guys went from relatively obscure band

00:56:56.280 --> 00:56:59.260
to like fucking all over the place rolling stones

00:56:59.260 --> 00:57:03.900
95 artists of the year, maybe management Felt

00:57:03.900 --> 00:57:06.260
like beneath you guys and like they couldn't

00:57:06.260 --> 00:57:08.320
tell you what to do. Even if that wasn't your

00:57:08.320 --> 00:57:10.760
sentiment at all Maybe that's the way they felt

00:57:10.760 --> 00:57:13.480
like dude. These guys are fucking over here You

00:57:13.480 --> 00:57:16.460
know doing all this shit playing the video music

00:57:16.460 --> 00:57:18.000
awards and all stuff like they're big. Maybe

00:57:18.000 --> 00:57:20.840
I can't tell them. Hey By the way, you should

00:57:20.840 --> 00:57:23.000
do this. It could have been some of that. I don't

00:57:23.000 --> 00:57:25.159
think they were strong enough personalities to

00:57:25.159 --> 00:57:27.300
override our... because it was four against one,

00:57:27.420 --> 00:57:29.659
four against two, you know? Right. Because when

00:57:29.659 --> 00:57:31.739
the four of us were like, now we're not fucking

00:57:31.739 --> 00:57:33.880
doing it, like there was not much changing our

00:57:33.880 --> 00:57:35.760
mind, but we need someone stronger to fucking

00:57:35.760 --> 00:57:38.159
go, no, dumb asses, like you should really do

00:57:38.159 --> 00:57:43.019
that. Whatever. Can you play that, Bob? Because

00:57:43.019 --> 00:57:47.829
every time I go to play a clip, it... It doesn't

00:57:47.829 --> 00:57:50.750
allow me to do it. I mean, I'll try it. But every

00:57:50.750 --> 00:57:54.650
time I go to do it, it doesn't allow me to. Let

00:57:54.650 --> 00:57:59.750
me see if I can. Oh, let me see. He just sent

00:57:59.750 --> 00:58:04.030
me a link, but I can't. Let's see. He sent it

00:58:04.030 --> 00:58:06.349
to my phone, but I'm on I'm on a laptop here.

00:58:06.630 --> 00:58:10.730
I'm not. I don't have to try to do it just every

00:58:10.730 --> 00:58:14.909
time I go to do this. Bad things happen. Is it

00:58:14.909 --> 00:58:17.320
in the Facebook? Is it in the Facebook stream

00:58:17.320 --> 00:58:21.579
chat? No, but here, you know what? I'm going

00:58:21.579 --> 00:58:23.579
to copy it. I'm going to try and play it. And

00:58:23.579 --> 00:58:25.380
if not, I'll put it in the chat and then you

00:58:25.380 --> 00:58:27.780
could play it. But I'll try to do it first because

00:58:27.780 --> 00:58:32.420
I do have it up. Bum bum bum bum. Sorry, audience.

00:58:32.780 --> 00:58:35.059
We fly by the seat of our pants here. That's

00:58:35.059 --> 00:58:38.900
the beauty of a live show. It's a cool video,

00:58:39.039 --> 00:58:43.559
apparently. So it's a it's a gracious few thing.

00:58:45.210 --> 00:58:50.489
So sure. All right. Oh, Bobby here. Bobby's here.

00:58:50.630 --> 00:58:53.389
Bobby's been here. Yeah. He came in quietly.

00:58:54.989 --> 00:58:59.289
Uh, let's see if we get audio. Yeah. Is it, is

00:58:59.289 --> 00:59:04.210
it plenty? Yeah. Okay. Here we go. Oh, there

00:59:04.210 --> 00:59:12.150
you go. Audio. Yeah, we got audio. Yeah. Oh,

00:59:12.150 --> 00:59:16.650
that's wonderful. Yeah. Did you ever want out

00:59:16.650 --> 00:59:23.510
of this Out of this life Did you ever think about

00:59:23.510 --> 00:59:29.230
it Love from time to time Did you believe in

00:59:29.230 --> 00:59:33.730
everything they said They're saying things I

00:59:33.730 --> 01:04:04.590
don't know How did you get so far I'd never seen

01:04:04.590 --> 01:04:07.030
that. That was cool. Me either. I never saw it

01:04:07.030 --> 01:04:11.530
either. Excellent song. It's just, ugh. And John,

01:04:12.230 --> 01:04:17.489
in concert, man, just light socket. It's the,

01:04:17.489 --> 01:04:20.110
it's the, it's the, like I said earlier, it's

01:04:20.110 --> 01:04:22.590
like, you feel, you get pins and needles on your

01:04:22.590 --> 01:04:26.329
arms and your back. Yeah. That, that, that when

01:04:26.329 --> 01:04:28.650
you get, when he gets into the solo and Tennessee

01:04:28.650 --> 01:04:33.510
solo, it's just, man, it's like pure. Well, that's

01:04:33.510 --> 01:04:36.269
pure rock and roll. Now that I know what that

01:04:36.269 --> 01:04:38.329
song is about, I mean, it almost brings a tear

01:04:38.329 --> 01:04:41.010
to my eye watching that. I mean, it's, you know,

01:04:41.050 --> 01:04:43.610
I didn't know what it was about. I knew it was

01:04:43.610 --> 01:04:47.130
a touching song, a sad song. But, you know, to

01:04:47.130 --> 01:04:51.710
watch that young man's life and, you know, he's

01:04:51.710 --> 01:04:54.030
not here anymore. It's it's very fitting that

01:04:54.030 --> 01:04:56.329
you guys put that in a song and paid such a good

01:04:56.329 --> 01:05:00.530
tribute to because it did it did justice. This

01:05:00.530 --> 01:05:06.360
is a great, great, great. Great tribute. So thank

01:05:06.360 --> 01:05:08.420
you, Chad, for ripping up those drums there.

01:05:09.179 --> 01:05:11.780
Yeah, I could imagine when Sean comes in during

01:05:11.780 --> 01:05:18.340
the concert with that solo. But wow, at least

01:05:18.340 --> 01:05:21.800
the guy looked like he lived a happy life, a

01:05:21.800 --> 01:05:24.860
full life for such a young, you know, for taking

01:05:24.860 --> 01:05:26.940
so young. It looked like he at least enjoyed

01:05:26.940 --> 01:05:31.139
himself while he was here, which is key. I saw

01:05:31.139 --> 01:05:33.019
that picture with him in Slash. They kind of

01:05:33.019 --> 01:05:34.599
looked like they could have been brothers at

01:05:34.599 --> 01:05:37.639
that point with the hair and that stuff, right?

01:05:37.679 --> 01:05:40.519
That was Slash, Bob, in that one. Yeah, he's

01:05:40.519 --> 01:05:43.619
in there, yeah. Yeah, it looked like Slash, yeah.

01:05:44.239 --> 01:05:48.760
Yeah. Wow. What a beautiful tribute that was.

01:05:49.000 --> 01:05:50.719
And I'm glad I got to learn what that song was

01:05:50.719 --> 01:05:52.739
about, because I knew it meant something to me

01:05:52.739 --> 01:05:55.460
the first time I heard it, but never knew. So

01:05:55.460 --> 01:05:58.800
now I know. And Wendell... you know, thank you

01:05:58.800 --> 01:06:02.400
for being human. And then I just want to repeat

01:06:02.400 --> 01:06:05.059
what that said at the end there for people who

01:06:05.059 --> 01:06:11.159
want to go to that foundation and whatever. Oh,

01:06:11.159 --> 01:06:14.900
yes, like he's like, I mean, Bill, Bill Hines

01:06:14.900 --> 01:06:18.079
is texting me. He says he made that video. Oh,

01:06:18.519 --> 01:06:22.139
yeah. Bill made the video. He told me I never,

01:06:22.139 --> 01:06:26.409
I never saw it before. I don't know. Well, thank

01:06:26.409 --> 01:06:32.289
you, Bill. And that website is wendellgreen .ning

01:06:32.289 --> 01:06:37.989
.com. So Wendell, W -E -N -D -E -L -L, green,

01:06:38.070 --> 01:06:43.710
G -R -E -E -N dot N -I -N -G dot com. And that's

01:06:43.710 --> 01:06:46.550
the join in the life celebration of our dude,

01:06:46.570 --> 01:06:48.809
Wendell Green. So yeah, go check that out, ladies

01:06:48.809 --> 01:06:52.219
and gentlemen. Yeah, it's I'm texting doing like

01:06:52.219 --> 01:06:54.179
how the fuck did you never show me this like

01:06:54.179 --> 01:06:57.619
I never see this like I can't believe you made

01:06:57.619 --> 01:07:00.260
it. It's fucking great I mean, I guess he knew

01:07:00.260 --> 01:07:02.900
this guy Howie who played baseball with who was

01:07:02.900 --> 01:07:05.980
friends of Wendell for all those bill hind? I

01:07:05.980 --> 01:07:08.559
never know the story a second weird but this

01:07:08.559 --> 01:07:12.079
is that's that's that is that is a Part and parcel

01:07:12.079 --> 01:07:14.440
bill like he will do shit and not try to take

01:07:14.440 --> 01:07:16.059
credit for it and not tell fucking people about

01:07:16.059 --> 01:07:18.519
it He donates to all these charities and shit

01:07:18.679 --> 01:07:20.739
you know he's made out to be this fucking horrible

01:07:20.739 --> 01:07:24.980
fucking person and he does all these things that

01:07:24.980 --> 01:07:27.699
are great that he doesn't he doesn't and he doesn't

01:07:27.699 --> 01:07:29.639
he's not doing it for like accolades and fucking

01:07:29.639 --> 01:07:33.800
attention right because he's a great guy so anyway

01:07:33.800 --> 01:07:37.199
he's our he's our ralph sorella for anybody who

01:07:37.199 --> 01:07:40.139
listens to the howard stern show so ralph was

01:07:40.139 --> 01:07:42.320
always known as like you know a douchebag people

01:07:42.320 --> 01:07:44.360
didn't like him whatever but you know you're

01:07:44.360 --> 01:07:46.019
starting to find out things in his death like

01:07:46.019 --> 01:07:50.000
he was at 9 11 the day after helping clean up,

01:07:50.019 --> 01:07:51.460
and he was there for weeks and stuff like that.

01:07:52.099 --> 01:07:54.920
So for all the negative stuff said about Bill

01:07:54.920 --> 01:07:57.340
out there that's made public, there's a bunch

01:07:57.340 --> 01:07:59.719
of shit like this that nobody sees behind the

01:07:59.719 --> 01:08:04.219
scenes that really shows Bill's character. So,

01:08:04.219 --> 01:08:07.079
you know, check out both sides of the coin before

01:08:07.079 --> 01:08:10.880
you make your opinion. Don't just read the newspaper

01:08:10.880 --> 01:08:14.739
clippings because the newspaper, God forbid,

01:08:14.980 --> 01:08:17.470
we take that as the truth. They have a cottage

01:08:17.470 --> 01:08:19.529
industry out of Bill Hines at this point in fucking

01:08:19.529 --> 01:08:23.109
York on their fucking stupid paper. Right. I

01:08:23.109 --> 01:08:25.569
think without Bill Hines that York dispatcher,

01:08:25.609 --> 01:08:26.750
whatever the fuck it's called, wouldn't have

01:08:26.750 --> 01:08:29.369
anything to write about. The Gannett group would

01:08:29.369 --> 01:08:31.970
probably close up shop on those two papers, honestly.

01:08:32.270 --> 01:08:35.229
I think so. Yeah. I think so. But that's all

01:08:35.229 --> 01:08:37.409
right. He's going to have his day in court. He'll

01:08:37.409 --> 01:08:40.520
show them all. So Bob, do you have anything you

01:08:40.520 --> 01:08:42.119
want the audience to know? Because we usually

01:08:42.119 --> 01:08:44.500
keep the show around this time. Anything you

01:08:44.500 --> 01:08:46.140
want the audience to know? Anything you want

01:08:46.140 --> 01:08:49.340
to ask Chad personally? Anything before we start

01:08:49.340 --> 01:08:52.520
to wrap it up? Bob has my number. He can ask

01:08:52.520 --> 01:08:54.399
me anything he ever wants. Well, I mean, if he

01:08:54.399 --> 01:09:00.359
wants to ask. Go ahead. I think maybe the only

01:09:00.359 --> 01:09:06.899
thing that I have pressing would be is when we'll

01:09:06.899 --> 01:09:10.439
see what happens with the going forward with

01:09:10.439 --> 01:09:13.699
the band, right? And just, you know, digest what

01:09:13.699 --> 01:09:17.279
happens and let it be real, right? You know,

01:09:17.420 --> 01:09:20.539
understand that it's very complicated. What's

01:09:20.539 --> 01:09:22.439
going on and it's not, you're running the mill.

01:09:22.800 --> 01:09:25.020
Honestly, if you equate it to some of the other

01:09:25.020 --> 01:09:27.000
big bands that have their issues and you don't

01:09:27.000 --> 01:09:29.380
really hear about it, it goes in the press and

01:09:29.380 --> 01:09:31.920
you hear one side, the other side, you know,

01:09:32.039 --> 01:09:34.680
at the end of the day, you know, just these people

01:09:34.680 --> 01:09:36.859
are real. They have families there, you know,

01:09:36.939 --> 01:09:38.960
they're real people. They're not just your idols

01:09:38.960 --> 01:09:42.439
out there. And just let it let things happen

01:09:42.439 --> 01:09:47.180
naturally. And then see what happens in the future

01:09:47.180 --> 01:09:50.699
and just let it be. Let it just happen. Well,

01:09:51.500 --> 01:09:54.210
so, yeah. Because like you said the fans start

01:09:54.210 --> 01:09:57.010
riling each other up taking sides and stuff This

01:09:57.010 --> 01:09:59.210
is not something where anybody needs to take

01:09:59.210 --> 01:10:01.970
sides like you said This is something where you

01:10:01.970 --> 01:10:04.869
need to let stuff lie and time will tell where

01:10:04.869 --> 01:10:07.250
you know where this goes from here But I was

01:10:07.250 --> 01:10:09.869
guilty of taking sides a long time ago, too So

01:10:09.869 --> 01:10:13.069
I mean I got I got rolled into that and saw one

01:10:13.069 --> 01:10:16.569
side and the other side was not Did not speak

01:10:16.569 --> 01:10:19.310
out and really tell the truth, but it was just

01:10:19.579 --> 01:10:22.140
put forth as, oh, it's this and this is the truth,

01:10:22.279 --> 01:10:25.060
right? Well, we know how that is, right? So when

01:10:25.060 --> 01:10:28.859
you come to learn what's really happened and

01:10:28.859 --> 01:10:33.640
who's responsible or who's had more of a say

01:10:33.640 --> 01:10:37.020
in putting that message out versus what should

01:10:37.020 --> 01:10:40.920
have been either cleared up earlier or it's just

01:10:40.920 --> 01:10:44.699
as you get older and more wiser, you learn where

01:10:44.699 --> 01:10:48.079
to make your bet, I guess, or learn how to be

01:10:48.079 --> 01:10:51.939
above the fray. So, you know, and I, you know,

01:10:51.979 --> 01:10:54.279
I apologize to Ed too. I'll take a little responsibility

01:10:54.279 --> 01:10:56.340
for that too. I'll take a little responsibility

01:10:56.340 --> 01:10:58.880
for that too. I was, you know, I was being manipulated

01:10:58.880 --> 01:11:01.319
in ways I didn't understand and that's not going

01:11:01.319 --> 01:11:05.239
to happen to me anymore. So, and I'll tell you

01:11:05.239 --> 01:11:08.060
the objective truth as far as I know it when

01:11:08.060 --> 01:11:12.319
I see it, but, you know, I'll just say that.

01:11:12.520 --> 01:11:14.739
I was being manipulated in ways I didn't understand

01:11:14.739 --> 01:11:16.779
and I totally understand now and I won't fucking

01:11:16.779 --> 01:11:20.189
let it happen to me again. And life is too short,

01:11:20.369 --> 01:11:23.250
right? I mean, you say this all the time, but

01:11:23.250 --> 01:11:26.329
people end up living with regret. Like, oh, I

01:11:26.329 --> 01:11:28.649
should have done this before that happened. Just

01:11:28.649 --> 01:11:31.210
Wendell's a perfect excuse, man. I'm sure nobody,

01:11:31.210 --> 01:11:34.489
you know, saw that coming. And then, you know,

01:11:34.510 --> 01:11:37.949
by sure it did. So, I mean, just God forbid something

01:11:37.949 --> 01:11:40.409
were to happen to, you know, one of you four

01:11:40.409 --> 01:11:43.409
from growing up. Like, is the stuff that, you

01:11:43.409 --> 01:11:45.130
know, brought you guys to where you're at today,

01:11:45.189 --> 01:11:48.569
is it that important? Is it, you know, to where,

01:11:48.569 --> 01:11:51.670
you know, those friendships are no longer what

01:11:51.670 --> 01:11:54.649
they once were. So, you know, again, it's none

01:11:54.649 --> 01:11:57.609
of our business. It's all on your time. But just

01:11:57.609 --> 01:12:00.229
to put that out there is like life is short and

01:12:00.229 --> 01:12:03.810
to live with animosity and regret is not the

01:12:03.810 --> 01:12:06.649
way to do it, because at some point it'll catch

01:12:06.649 --> 01:12:09.050
up to you and you'll be like, shit, I really

01:12:09.050 --> 01:12:11.729
should have reached out and told this person

01:12:11.729 --> 01:12:13.909
I love them or I should have said I was sorry

01:12:13.909 --> 01:12:17.350
for this and that. So that's just my little PSA

01:12:17.350 --> 01:12:20.449
for the day. I don't live that way either. It's

01:12:20.449 --> 01:12:23.390
easier to say than to do, but it really is true.

01:12:23.489 --> 01:12:27.489
You know, you never know, uh, when, when things

01:12:27.489 --> 01:12:29.869
are going to end or when you won't have a chance

01:12:29.869 --> 01:12:32.550
to say what you really wanted to say. And then

01:12:32.550 --> 01:12:34.409
you have to hold it in for the rest of your life.

01:12:34.550 --> 01:12:39.810
So just keep that in mind peeps. Yeah. Life's

01:12:39.810 --> 01:12:41.890
short. And with that, happy new year guys. I

01:12:41.890 --> 01:12:44.449
appreciate the time. Thank you, Bob. It's great.

01:12:45.079 --> 01:12:47.359
All right. Do it again. Keep it real. We'll have

01:12:47.359 --> 01:12:49.399
you again for sure. We know you got a lot more

01:12:49.399 --> 01:12:52.619
to talk about. I do end up monopolizing some

01:12:52.619 --> 01:12:56.020
of the guests' time. I apologize. No, it's quite

01:12:56.020 --> 01:13:00.520
fine. I prefer to be quiet. I think Bill's here

01:13:00.520 --> 01:13:05.020
with my cocktail sauce. Next week, Chad, bring

01:13:05.020 --> 01:13:06.939
on the bottle so we could show people what they're

01:13:06.939 --> 01:13:09.199
missing for when Bob releases it to the masses.

01:13:09.279 --> 01:13:11.399
They could say, there, I saw it on the gracious

01:13:11.399 --> 01:13:15.069
too. I got to go get some shrimp. Bobby, Bobby

01:13:15.069 --> 01:13:17.550
Hayes, why don't you come off and say goodbye

01:13:17.550 --> 01:13:19.289
and happy holidays, everybody, rather than through

01:13:19.289 --> 01:13:21.970
the chat. And from myself, I want to say happy

01:13:21.970 --> 01:13:26.069
holidays. I hope 2023 treated everybody well.

01:13:26.510 --> 01:13:30.310
2024 will be even better for the gracious two

01:13:30.310 --> 01:13:33.560
fans out there. We got a lot of stuff planned,

01:13:33.640 --> 01:13:36.199
a lot of cool, fun stuff that we're keeping close

01:13:36.199 --> 01:13:38.939
to the chest right now, but we'll be going full

01:13:38.939 --> 01:13:41.760
steam ahead once we got everything laid out there.

01:13:41.960 --> 01:13:44.140
But thank you guys for coming on this ride with

01:13:44.140 --> 01:13:46.979
us. And it's only going to get faster and bumpier,

01:13:47.020 --> 01:13:53.359
so be prepared. Thank you, everybody. Thanks.

01:13:54.479 --> 01:13:56.680
Thank you, everybody. Happy holidays, everybody.

01:13:56.880 --> 01:13:59.850
Hope everybody has a great time. I hope everybody

01:13:59.850 --> 01:14:03.810
enjoys your two thousand four twenty four. Yes.

01:14:04.210 --> 01:14:06.229
Thanks, sir. Happy New Year, everyone. Thank

01:14:06.229 --> 01:14:08.470
you. Happy New Year. Bob, real quick. Bob's is

01:14:08.470 --> 01:14:11.350
there. Yes. Do you want anybody to find you on

01:14:11.350 --> 01:14:16.189
social media or? No. OK, cool. No. No, I'm I'm

01:14:16.189 --> 01:14:20.590
I'm only there for those fan pages only. I'm

01:14:20.590 --> 01:14:23.710
pretty devoid of anything personal on there.

01:14:24.010 --> 01:14:27.439
Right. I'm out. It makes sense. Good for you.

01:14:27.979 --> 01:14:32.880
I have nothing to offer. Oh, stop it. Ladies

01:14:32.880 --> 01:14:34.920
and gentlemen, thank you. Bye. We'll see you

01:14:34.920 --> 01:14:38.939
next week. Hasta la vista. Let me go and stop

01:14:38.939 --> 01:14:43.880
this live there and then got to stop it here.

01:14:44.800 --> 01:14:48.420
This is always so difficult. All righty, then

01:14:48.420 --> 01:14:50.300
we should be done live everywhere.