March 25, 2025

The Gracious Two - LIVE Show 080 - Saidi Bess

The Gracious Two - LIVE Show 080 - Saidi Bess

The Gracious Two, Chad Gracey & John Rotolo, start the show and right off the bat The Democratic Party is criticized for its inability to course-correct and its tendency to double down on failed policies and narratives. JRo, a former liberal, highlights the party’s divisive tactics, including labeling opponents as Nazis and encouraging social isolation. TGT argues that liberalism can lead to depression and a lack of individual thought, driving many to leave the party.

Chad criticizes the Democratic party for advocating against world peace and promoting suicidal empathy, arguing it destroys culture. They express support for Trump’s efforts to make English the national language and restrict immigration, believing it preserves American identity. The Gracious Two then introduce a guest, Saidi Bess, who discusses her mission to bring greater consciousness around sexuality and challenge societal norms that shame and pervert it.

The podcast explores the complexities of human sexuality, questioning societal norms and monogamy. Saidi, a sexuality coach, emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own desires and communicating them openly in relationships. She encourages individuals to break free from societal expectations and embrace a more conscious and fulfilling approach to sexuality.

Saidi Bess recounts her journey of self-discovery and empowerment through various experiences, including dancing and escorting. She emphasizes the importance of understanding and healing underlying issues, particularly intergenerational trauma, to improve sexual relationships. Saidi now focuses on coaching both men and women to bridge the gap between masculine and feminine energies and dismantle harmful societal beliefs.

Society’s demonization of masculinity has led to fear and a lack of communication in relationships, hindering healthy sexual connections. A healthy sexual appetite varies from person to person and should be based on individual desires and communication within a relationship. Marriage, as an institution, may not be suitable for everyone and can lead to shutdowns in sexuality and overall well-being if not approached with open communication and a clear understanding of individual needs.

Saidi's twelve-week program is discussed, focusing on exploring belief systems, self-discovery, and personal growth. The program involves daily practices, energy healing sessions, and a deep dive into various aspects of life, including sexuality, spirituality, and career choices. Participants report transformative experiences, leading to significant life changes such as career shifts, divorces, and newfound empowerment.

Saidi Bess discusses the benefits of breath work and her program, which includes guided videos and energy healing sessions. She emphasizes the importance of daily practices and accountability in achieving personal growth. The Gracious Two express interest in Saidi’s work and tease future episodes with potentially more explicit content.

The hosts then transition to a discussion about the Illuminati and the possibility of living in a simulation. The podcast takes a philosophical turn, questioning the nature of reality and the possibility of a timeline shift or glitches in the matrix.

Exciting developments are coming, including Bobby sharing vintage underwear on Facebook. The Gracious Two bids farewell, encouraging viewers to like, subscribe, and support the channel.

Transcript
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And we are live. Mr. Gracey. What's going on?

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Show 80. Oh, by the way, I am very 80, dude.

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I'm very hyper today. So I don't know if you're

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going to be able to get a word in edge wise just

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for a warning. Oh boy. No, just kidding. Just

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kidding. Just kidding. Can you take over everyone?

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Can you take over the show? I'm very low energy

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today. I don't know if I can make it through

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a Red Bull. I'll do my best. Yes. Yes. Yes. Very

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sexual show we have today. Mr. Gracey. Are you

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excited? Hey, yes. That's what who does. You're

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gay. Oh, hey, now that was Howard Stern. He's

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coming on later to talk about his little penis.

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And they fear fear of COVID still. Still, dude,

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he's probably locked the way I haven't his love

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of Kamala. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. I heard that Republican.

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Okay. Yeah. I heard that's going to be the Democratic

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nominee in 2028. Stern Harris, Stern Harris.

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Yes. Yes. Waltz wants to run in 28. I'm like,

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yeah, go ahead, buddy. I told you, well, we talked

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about that. We talked about the IG library last

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week. I said, just wait. the Democrat national

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primary is going to be fucking hilarious. Just

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watch who they pull for this thing. Whatever,

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whatever happened to like taking your medicine

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and going away, like, you know, and they they

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do that. We've talked about this before. You

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course correct when you're what you're doing

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is not working. They don't do that. They just

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double triple quadruple down on the same shit.

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It's it's I mean, it's just like mind boggling

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at this point. How do you continue to operate

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a a political party the way they are. It's just

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they don't course correct on anything. They double

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down on the same shit, triple down quadruple

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down on the same narratives. And it's just like,

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Hey, that's not working. That's why you've lost

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the election in a land slide. And then they,

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sorry. No, I was just gonna say, what if it was

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a Republican coup from within the Democratic

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party from way back in the day? And they just

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like, Past 20 years just kind of took over started

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putting in this crazy fucking ideology So it's

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a one -party system because otherwise I have

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no idea how the Democrats don't It'd be like

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the only thing that makes sense. You have to

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go through a whole bunch of, you know, the public

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has to go through a whole bunch of pain. But

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yeah, I mean, it is the only thing that really

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makes sense. I doubt, I doubt that's true. I

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think they're just that fucked up, but that is

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the only thing that makes logical sense is to

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have Republican operatives in there. It's just

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like completely changing the party. Yeah. Never,

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never. Of course, correct on anything. All the

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best Democrats hop over to the Republican side.

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It's like, it's fucking absurd, man. Like you

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had Rogan, you had Musk, you had Trump, you had

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Tulsi Gabbard, you had fucking Arthur Jr. Yeah.

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Like the list goes on and on and on and on. And

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you're now, I mean, now, similarly, they want

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the fucking World War three. Like they literally

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want to blow up the fucking world. Yeah. What,

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to get Trump? It's, I mean, it's like. To say

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will Trump wants to have world peace so we have

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to be opposite I'm I swear to God I've said it

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many times if Trump said oxygen is great They

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fucking put bags over their heads. It's crazy,

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man They would figure out a way on how oxygen

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is destroying the planet somehow because it's

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taking away from some kind of fucking and somewhere

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Oh, no oxygen is not good. What do you talk about

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this study says that oxygen is bad for you? Yeah,

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okay Trump wants to fucking Trump wants just

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to breathe more oxygen. He's fucking crazy, dude

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He wants to give the people back I've seen this

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I've seen this meme going around Trump should

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come out as a woman So the left either gonna

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have to accept them as the first woman president

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or Just you know get over there insanity about

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changing your identity on the wind which ones

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are gonna be And he would be somebody to fuck

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with them just like that, you know I mean, there's

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so many ways he can. He should just start saying

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he wants to wants to bring in all these immigrants.

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He'd like just open the borders again. They'd

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be like, no, shut them down. This is bullshit.

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You know, they would take the exact opposite

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stance. That's how they work. I love his line.

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I forget exactly how he worded, but he was basically

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saying it like they were saying it took like

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some kind of vote or some kind of law to close

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down the border. And he was like, no, it turns

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out all it took was a president change. Yeah,

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it's all a second with a new president. Yeah.

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Biden was saying the whole time we need new laws

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and the Democrats we the Republicans won't let

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us pass any new laws to shut down the border

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Long comes Trump boom. We're down. What 95 98

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% crossings. Yeah, but here's my question What

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was the what was the law that opened the borders

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that we had to change to close them like they

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weren't like that fucking well when you come

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in and just dismantle everything that the former

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president did just because you hate him. Yeah.

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And you have an open border. Oh, we're not going

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to build another inch of the wall under my presidency.

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Those were literally his words. And he thought

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they were cool to say like that was a good thing

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to say. Well, for his party, that was cool. Like,

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oh, yeah, look, walls are racist. But it's just

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like, man, like how did we get that mind fucked

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into like thinking some of the that's like him

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saying, I like to smell shit and fucking drink

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piss. And we're like, yeah, I mean, that sounds

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crazy. But that's right. That is how propagandized

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and I hate to say it, but brainwashed the leftist.

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They they do not adhere to logic and reason anymore.

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Whatever their party tells them to say or think.

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They're right on it boom boom. Okay. Yeah, so

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I mean if it was the Republicans saying this

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dumb shit I'd be like fuck you people are retarded

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like that doesn't make any sense I feel like

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I want I feel like I want some of what they're

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on like that I don't need to think juice and

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like well We should play the video of this girl

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I wanted wanted Bobby to play because she sums

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it up perfectly and then she goes into like the

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mental health of the left like they're all fucking

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depressed and like They just hate Trump so much

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You cannot friggin stand anything that's going

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on. And so they're all like losing it. Yeah.

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I mean, not as probably worse than when he beat

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Hillary back in 2016. That was some of those

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videos were the best to see. So critical of the

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Democratic Party right now is because I literally

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just left it just like a lot of other people

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I was a bleeding heart liberal like all of you.

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I mean blue hair and everything I mean, believe

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me I have plenty of pictures proving that I was

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all in if you would have asked me a year ago

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I would have said there is no way in hell I will

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ever vote for Donald Trump But let me tell you

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what changed my mind The big moment for me was

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when the left started trying to push this like

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Nazi Hitler fascism narrative that they're trying

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to push right now Like what y 'all actually did

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is made a lot of us really go research Trump

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even harder. And we started to realize that a

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lot of things that you guys had shown us about

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Trump and things that he had said were taken

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way out of context. A lot of us started noticing

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a pattern where you guys were showing us like

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little 10 second clips of a 10 minute conversation

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that did not reflect the entirety of that conversation

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at all. So that was number one. And then around

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Thanksgiving, all of a sudden you guys are telling

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us that it would be better for us to sit at home

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and spend the holidays with no one than it would

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be to go home to your family who voted for Trump.

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I was like, okay, now you can not tell me for

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your mental health right to sit at home alone

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than it is to go and spend time with your friends

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and family y 'all had actual therapists getting

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on TV and telling you guys this and the sad thing

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is is that it would have been better for them

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to encourage you to do something like Find other

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people that believe the same as you to spend

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the holidays with but they didn't they told you

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to stay in your home and spend the holidays with

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no one when that happened I was like, okay I

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gotta give this party a second look because something

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is not right here. But honestly, if you want

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to know the truth, what really did it for me

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is realizing how freaking depressed I was when

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I was functioning as a liberal. Liberalism will

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literally make you hate yourself. It will make

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you hate your family. It will make you hate your

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friends. It will make you hate everything about

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the world. And I'm not saying that you should

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just be ignorant to everything that is going

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on in the world. But the way that the left chooses

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to internalize everything that is going on in

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the world is detrimental to their mental health.

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And this is why people try to tell you that empathy

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is dangerous. But even that, you want to take

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out of context. Empathy itself is a great quality

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to have. Empathy without discernment is detrimental.

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You have to be able to discern when you are carrying

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too much and you need to take a step back and

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none of you are doing that. Believe me, it is

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possible to care about everything that is going

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on in the world and not let it consume every

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single thought that you have and every single

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conversation that you have. A lot of us are leaving

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the party in droves because you guys have made

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it impossible to have any sort of individual

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thought whatsoever. Like, for instance, if I

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say that I like RFK Junior because I want bad

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chemicals out of my food and because I want to

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know what's in my vaccines, you will assume that

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I am someone who is anti -vax and anti -science.

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All three of my kids and my myself have been

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vaccinated. I just want to tell you guys something.

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Every Republican most likely voted for Trump.

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Every person that voted for Trump is not a Republican.

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The fact that you guys are so against Trump's

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administration right now, when most of his administration

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is former Democrats who have now left the party,

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y 'all look wild. I mean, the Democratic Party

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has brainwashed people so hard that they are

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actually advocating against world peace right

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now. People on the left would rather us keep

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giving money to Ukraine to fund a war than to

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even fathom getting Ukraine and Russia at the

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table to try to agree to peace. A party that

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I joined because they were so anti -war who is

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that Chad I don't know I just saw randomly on

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Instagram I don't know what her name is she was

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it was on another page this real reals nitro

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or something that I follow yeah I was like wow

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this she's fucking nailing it beautifully put

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and like it's a it's crazy that it's literally

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straight to the point these are words that everybody's

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been thinking but she's just saying it kind of

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in layman's terms and really hitting the nail

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home And, yeah, people could be too empathetic,

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but I don't think that's what the left was. I

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don't think they were empathizing too much with

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people. Well, no, no, no, no. They use empathy

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as a weapon. Right. I mean, this is what Elon

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talked about on Joe Rogan. Weaponized empathy

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from the top. Yeah, yeah, yeah. To then you...

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Commits suicidal empathy where you're like. Oh,

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yeah, we have to let all these people in our

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country because they're it's humanitarian We're

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compassionate. Yeah, and then they friggin destroy

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your country. That's I mean, this is what happens

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in California Yeah, like it's a one -party state

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because they've let in Millions of illegals who

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then that and you've not even allowed to ask

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for a driver's license It's illegal to ask for

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a driver's license. It's insane. You can't even

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if you go to the pole and and and say, Hey, do

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you need my driver's license? No, no, like they

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freaking freak out, dude. It's fucking I have

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people that have personally done it. It's frigging

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wild. Anyway, my point is suicidal empathy changes

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your culture. I mean, it's destroying England.

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It's destroying Germany. It's destroying Sweden.

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Suicidal empathy is what these people come in.

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They destroy your your culture. Why are we allowed

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to have the American culture? Why can't we just

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be Americans? But these people don't want to

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be Americans. They want to come into the country

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and change it into Mexico or change it into whatever.

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Yeah. Fly their Mexican flags. It's like, why

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the fuck are you here if you're flying your Mexican

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flag? Like, it could be pre -powder where you

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came from, but like, if you love it so much,

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go back. Yeah. The fact that people are pissed

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off that Trump is trying to make the national

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language English or sign an executive order to

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do so, like, what's wrong with you? Like... However,

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many, uh, percentage of the country speaks that

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language. It's in the majority. And then also

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the country was founded by those same English

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speaking founders. So it should have already

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been the national language. He's just kind of

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fucking doing what should have been done a long

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time ago. And if you're against that, it's like

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you're against fucking like. American shit. I

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don't understand it. It's not saying that you

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can't speak Spanish here or you can't speak French

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or it's just saying like we have a national language.

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This is what is taught in our schools. This is

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what we speak when we do business. Like it's

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just basically international language for flight.

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All flight operations are done in English. Yes

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around the world. Right. So international business

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if you want to do it you speak English nobody's

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doing it in habla espanol pardon my French Yeah,

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as I speak for like in Spanish pardon my French,

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but you know what I'm saying like Big world business

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is being done in English like that's the second

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language you're learning in these other countries

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if you're trying to become an international businessman

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you're not you know learning fucking parle vous

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français and You know, maybe Chinese. I'll learn

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some Mandarin. Me how? Me how? Whenever you hear

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Chinese people speak Spanish, like they do it

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in that fast Chinese like dialect, but like,

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but they're speaking Spanish. It's pretty cool.

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Don't ask me why or how I heard that, but I have.

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I mean, I'll watch the podcast with the, the

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telepathy. The telepathy thing on Joe Rogan.

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Yes. Hi, Dixon. I think your name is. Yes. Talk

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to me. I mean, you have these nonverbal people

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speaking, you know, communicate and telepathically.

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But I was fascinated by the fact that like they're

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they had this case of this person nonverbal who

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could read hieroglyphs and understand hieroglyphs

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and never was exposed to it. Like how the how

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the fuck it like what? Right. Never been exposed

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to it. But you understand hieroglyphs. You can

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just like, wait, what did you take from that?

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Did you take that somebody in the hide or whatever

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they call it? Like, like, hold this, the hill,

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like, told. I mean, I guess, or they can just

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learn things telepathically or absorb things.

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Right. Right. Matrix, you know, they're plugged

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in, but it's yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah a different

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version of because like in the matrix, you know,

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they plug into the into the system and you can

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instantly learn I know kung fu, you know, or

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learn how to fly a helicopter or speak a different

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language. But now check this out, Chad. So like,

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let's just say 30 years ago, the more likely

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scenario would have been that there is telepathy.

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These people are meeting up on the hill. And

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they're, you know, communicating through telepathy.

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Like that would have been what that we heard

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this here and that would have been like the likely

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scenario now the more likely scenario is We're

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in a fucking simulation and the telepathy going

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on on that hill is all done through the simulation

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and Fucking that'd be we're living in the matrix

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All right, we're gonna bring our guests on before

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I do audience did you guys see that they're supposedly

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some Planet that's sending radio signals from

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it Keep that in mind as I bring on our guest.

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I'm going to leave you guys with that. Yes. Hello,

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Miss Sadie Bess. How are you? I'm great. How

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are you doing? Hi there. Pleasure to have you.

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Thanks for coming on. So talk to me. You have

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a lot of big words like on your, you know, podcast

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or Facebook page and all that stuff, sacred,

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sensual alchemy. Can you talk to me a little

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bit about that philosophy and what you do with

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that? Yeah, absolutely. For me, my whole mission

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now is to really bring greater consciousness

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around our sexuality. Our sexuality has been

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really shunned, shamed, perverted, distorted

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in our society through various means. And I think

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we've really gotten disconnected from our power

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and our creativity, our passion, our vitality,

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our life force energy, that we are sexual creatures,

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right? And it's just really, really perverted.

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And we've really lost touch with that. And there's

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all this guilt, sin, shame, you know, that we've

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taken on in really big ways. And it's, it's a

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mess. So, you know, bringing more awareness and

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consciousness to that and helping us to unpack

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those unhealthy belief systems we've taken on

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that we've just inherited, right? We just We

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didn't even get to question this stuff. So now

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it's it's time to start questioning, like, where

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did I get that? Is it serving me? You know, could

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I try on maybe a different belief that's supporting

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my my highest good? So, yeah, more European,

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it sounds like. Because it sounds like we're

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like uptight here in America about our sexuality

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and nakedness and stuff like that. We're not

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as loose as maybe the Europeans are. Is that

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sort of is that sort of what you're saying here?

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No. Well, yeah, I mean, when we think about it

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was the Puritans that came over here and founded

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our country. So they came in with those strong

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belief systems and it's just really permeated

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our entire culture and our whole way of. of being

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so um yeah it's time to undo that mindset and

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and challenge it and do some critical thinking

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and it hasn't served us too well so yeah so multiple

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sexual partners is what i'm hearing monogamy

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no good all Monogamy is not very realistic. Is

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it, you know, we've tried it on and I think we've

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proven it just doesn't work too well. It's, um,

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yeah. So, yeah. Okay. But let me, let me ask

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you this because I kind of feel the same way.

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Um, I don't like monogamy for me, but I love

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it for the lady I'm with. You know what I'm saying?

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Because I have it both ways, buddy. I technically

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can separate the. sexual part from the feeling

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part. I feel like the ladies, they don't really

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do that. So that's my kind of, I'm going to push

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back on that way because I don't have any problem

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with that. And I can care about somebody and

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enjoy, you know, sexual encounters with them

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and then go on my way, right? But are you in

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the majority or minority of the females? That

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like, that's the kind of difference I think.

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Yeah, no, I'm actually I'd say most men are very

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attached. They are very possessive. Once they

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claim something, they want to keep it as their

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own, right? Okay, I see that more in men actually.

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But again, it's really across the board. It's

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not a gender -based thing. It's these belief

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systems of the happily ever after. There's going

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to be this one person who completes me and makes

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everything good and whole and and that's on both

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that's that's all of us we're all rocking that

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out so um but no and that's part of why you know

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doing the work and getting underneath these things

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we've just taken it for granted that that's the

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way it's supposed to be it's like well is that

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really working for you and that's everybody right

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and when you start picking it apart it's like

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maybe maybe not you know maybe that's not the

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best model for me so yeah I completely, I completely

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get it. And I was kind of joking when I was saying

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kind of good for the goose, good for the gander.

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When I was saying like, I could not be a binoculars,

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but I want my, you know, lady partner to be,

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that would be an ideal world. But, you know,

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it doesn't usually work like that. Um, but like,

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if I'm not, why would that be ideal? Well, cause

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I, okay. So I've shared ladies before, but not

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that I was in a like a loving relationship with

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so just like kind of dating surface Lee or friends

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with benefits and I'm absolutely 100 % cool with

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with that but the moment there's like you know

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some love involved and you guys are making kind

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of commitments with that that's where I'm like

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I don't know if I want to share that side to

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because it's like it's not it's not like you're

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not this kind of you're not just fucking like

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this is something more intimate you know what

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I'm saying you're kind of being vulnerable like

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when you're fucking, it's not really a vulnerable

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moment. It's like a, uh, you know, having fun

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doing whatever. But that other side where you're

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the love parts, like you're kind of letting your

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guard down with that person. And then to share

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that with other peeps just doesn't want to go

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out and share. Yes, dude. Now you're talking.

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I don't, I don't, I don't want to, but there,

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I could say there could be a time where I'm,

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I'm not thinking of the other person that way.

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And then like, you know, something happens. Don't

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want to. It's not the plan to do, but you know,

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people are human. Uh, don't mind me, Sadie. I,

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uh, a little too honest for, uh, the podcast

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and, and the world. Yeah. No, it's real. It's

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real. Yes. Um, yeah. My mom said you're a little

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crazy today, John. I told you before we started

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chat. I told you before this is the new me, ladies

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and gentlemen. be prepared. Um, but no, so Sadie,

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so you actually do like coaching and stuff with,

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uh, this philosophies that you got going on here.

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Am I correct in that? Yeah, absolutely. And it

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really is, um, you know, um, a kind of, well,

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first it's looking at belief systems. Like what,

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what are you rocking out? What are you bringing

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into your sexual encounters? What are you bringing

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into relationships? And again, is that serving

00:22:05.180 --> 00:22:10.559
you? Um, and if not, then how do we try on some

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different philosophies, beliefs, understandings,

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practices that really support where you want

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to be, right? So yeah, there's so much unconsciousness

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around sexuality. Again, like the monogamy piece,

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we've just taken it on, right? Well, let's explore

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that. And is that really serving you? Is that

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really how you want to be in the world? Is that,

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yeah, I mean, there's just so much to unpack

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here, right? guilt and shame around, you know,

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various different desires or ways of showing

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up sexually, right? So looking at that and doing

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a real honest assessment of what what is my sexuality,

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you know, for me in the beginning, it was like,

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really, okay, like, what's a healthy sexuality?

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How can I align with that? And then I would,

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you know, learn more and explore and research

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and, you know, people are saying, it's healthy

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to want to have sex three times a week you know

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it's just like oh okay so that's a healthy libido

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that's what that looks like and then I was just

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like but according to whom right and does that

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actually fit me so so there's these things out

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there that are still like this is what a healthy

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sexuality looks like and it it's not it's different

00:23:20.940 --> 00:23:24.660
for every single person so it's a real personal

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journey and an exploration of what unpacking

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what we've been told again and there's so many

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layers to it right what we think it's supposed

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to look like and and it just doesn't right and

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but we have to dive into that for ourselves and

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not take it for granted and not take on somebody

00:23:42.980 --> 00:23:45.559
else's you know understanding of what a healthy

00:23:45.559 --> 00:23:49.119
sexuality looks like so um so yeah that's a big

00:23:49.119 --> 00:23:54.410
part of it diving in what is it That's kind of

00:23:54.410 --> 00:23:56.430
key. What you said too is like, it's not one

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size fits all for sexuality here. It's like everybody's

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on their own journey. And a lot of times, uh,

00:24:02.490 --> 00:24:06.049
people probably are taking their cues from learn

00:24:06.049 --> 00:24:08.970
behavior, stuff they kind of grew up with and

00:24:08.970 --> 00:24:11.990
whatever. Like, yeah, like if you want to fucking

00:24:11.990 --> 00:24:15.109
have sex seven times a week and you're told,

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Oh, it's normal for three times, you might feel

00:24:17.190 --> 00:24:20.009
like you're overly sexualized, but then, yeah.

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Yeah. And then saying that it's really important

00:24:24.839 --> 00:24:28.200
once we get clear on what works for us connecting

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with other people that are in alignment with

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that and being able to communicate that because

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so many people don't have these conversations

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in the beginning and they just assume it's going

00:24:37.680 --> 00:24:40.279
to again that happily ever after and everything's

00:24:40.279 --> 00:24:42.579
just going to be fine. It's like, no, you need

00:24:42.579 --> 00:24:46.279
to get clear on what works for you. And that's

00:24:46.279 --> 00:24:48.059
a journey. It's not, you know, and that's every

00:24:48.059 --> 00:24:50.700
evolving, right? get some good understanding

00:24:50.700 --> 00:24:54.160
of what you want out of a partnership sexually,

00:24:54.480 --> 00:24:57.019
right? If that's what you're looking for and

00:24:57.019 --> 00:24:59.880
be able to communicate that. And like, is this

00:24:59.880 --> 00:25:02.519
an alignment with what you want, right? And connecting

00:25:02.519 --> 00:25:05.980
with others who are also interested in opening

00:25:05.980 --> 00:25:08.799
this up for themselves, right? And getting conscious

00:25:08.799 --> 00:25:12.630
around this. Yeah. So really important key piece

00:25:12.630 --> 00:25:14.769
because so many people just don't have conversations

00:25:14.769 --> 00:25:16.769
and then they end up, you know, a year later,

00:25:16.869 --> 00:25:20.250
like what happened? And then resentment builds

00:25:20.250 --> 00:25:23.450
and it just, it gets ugly, right? Yeah. It seems

00:25:23.450 --> 00:25:26.210
like a lot of relationships, you know, start

00:25:26.210 --> 00:25:28.309
out great. Everyone's, you know, having sex together

00:25:28.309 --> 00:25:31.029
and lots of sex. And then that kind of tapers

00:25:31.029 --> 00:25:33.789
off and then you don't have any sex eventually.

00:25:34.410 --> 00:25:36.809
It's a lot of relationships devolve into that.

00:25:37.190 --> 00:25:39.369
And it's like, well, why not? If you still love

00:25:39.369 --> 00:25:42.109
that person, why not? be able to go satisfy yourself

00:25:42.109 --> 00:25:44.970
sexually outside of it seems I mean I've been

00:25:44.970 --> 00:25:46.430
a serial monogamous in all the relationships

00:25:46.430 --> 00:25:50.950
I've been in so far and I got divorced in 2021

00:25:50.950 --> 00:25:53.849
but ever since then I'm really questioning whether

00:25:53.849 --> 00:25:56.509
I want to go back into a monogamous relationship

00:25:56.509 --> 00:25:59.430
and I don't think I do because it's just I don't

00:25:59.430 --> 00:26:01.430
want to be locked in like that anymore and that

00:26:01.430 --> 00:26:04.809
was more just me the way I grew up and my parents

00:26:04.809 --> 00:26:07.190
were together all you know there until my dad

00:26:07.190 --> 00:26:09.970
died in 2010 but I don't know. I just don't feel

00:26:09.970 --> 00:26:12.849
like that anymore. societal norms don't have

00:26:12.849 --> 00:26:15.430
to like, what was once societal norms aren't

00:26:15.430 --> 00:26:17.210
the norm anymore. And like, I think we're starting

00:26:17.210 --> 00:26:18.890
to realize that more. I didn't mean to jump in

00:26:18.890 --> 00:26:20.529
there. Sadie, please go ahead. I just had to

00:26:20.529 --> 00:26:22.410
get that out. Cause I hear what Chad's saying

00:26:22.410 --> 00:26:26.369
there. Yeah. No, absolutely. Um, yeah. And that's,

00:26:26.369 --> 00:26:28.329
that's where I'm at too. I just, you know, got

00:26:28.329 --> 00:26:33.819
out of a relationship that, um, I, I knew. I

00:26:33.819 --> 00:26:35.599
knew what worked for me and I know what works

00:26:35.599 --> 00:26:38.259
for me and yet I went against some of that anyways

00:26:38.259 --> 00:26:41.500
just to see like let's let's explore this and

00:26:41.500 --> 00:26:44.599
maybe it could work and it totally didn't right

00:26:44.599 --> 00:26:49.299
so now I'm just like okay I really explored you

00:26:49.299 --> 00:26:52.359
know some different paths there and this that's

00:26:52.359 --> 00:26:55.220
not what works for me and it's again it's a dismantling

00:26:55.220 --> 00:27:00.299
of my own um deep deep deep belief of this one

00:27:00.299 --> 00:27:03.079
happily ever after thing you know we really have

00:27:03.079 --> 00:27:05.759
that it's so fed to us like through disney movies

00:27:05.759 --> 00:27:08.460
and you know when we're young or kids it's just

00:27:08.460 --> 00:27:11.470
and it's just it just doesn't freaking work.

00:27:11.569 --> 00:27:13.670
And I won't say that for everybody. But I just,

00:27:13.829 --> 00:27:16.769
I just challenge us to, you know, push back on

00:27:16.769 --> 00:27:18.970
that a little bit and really question is that

00:27:18.970 --> 00:27:25.450
working? Is it working? The fact that we took

00:27:25.450 --> 00:27:28.150
like one of the most natural things that humans

00:27:28.150 --> 00:27:30.829
do and like made it so taboo is like kind of

00:27:30.829 --> 00:27:33.150
crazy when it comes down to it, you know, biology.

00:27:34.250 --> 00:27:40.430
Yeah, here through sexuality. I was dropped off

00:27:40.430 --> 00:27:46.789
by a stork, just FYI. There's that, sure. But

00:27:46.789 --> 00:27:49.890
really, and then to vilify it and demonize it

00:27:49.890 --> 00:27:53.210
and shame it so much, it just shames our very

00:27:53.210 --> 00:27:56.630
existence. And that, I mean, for me, that's really

00:27:56.630 --> 00:28:00.240
at the core of it, because we We don't love ourselves.

00:28:00.500 --> 00:28:03.619
We don't feel worthy. We're in lack and it stems

00:28:03.619 --> 00:28:06.779
from I mean this is a this is a big one right

00:28:06.779 --> 00:28:11.180
at the foundation of our experience and I mean

00:28:11.180 --> 00:28:14.490
how do you How do you vilify that, you know,

00:28:14.509 --> 00:28:16.630
really a stripped us of our power? And that's

00:28:16.630 --> 00:28:18.609
why I'm so passionate about bringing it back,

00:28:18.769 --> 00:28:21.190
right? Like, no, no, no. We're sexual beings

00:28:21.190 --> 00:28:24.690
and sexuality is gorgeous and amazing if we get

00:28:24.690 --> 00:28:28.529
underneath all the crap, right? Yeah. And like

00:28:28.529 --> 00:28:30.930
I said, it boils down to biology, too. You are

00:28:30.930 --> 00:28:34.410
programmed in your reptilian mind to go out and

00:28:34.410 --> 00:28:36.609
spread your seed to as many people as you can,

00:28:36.950 --> 00:28:39.230
right? I mean, so you have a sexual attraction

00:28:39.230 --> 00:28:42.109
to different people. You know, sometimes it's

00:28:42.109 --> 00:28:45.829
good to act on that. Yeah. Agreed. That's why,

00:28:46.009 --> 00:28:48.789
you know, I know I shouldn't be monogamous because

00:28:48.789 --> 00:28:51.809
it's in my DNA to just go and plow the field.

00:28:52.089 --> 00:28:56.390
So to speak, you know, I have to Yeah, yeah.

00:28:57.509 --> 00:29:00.329
Well, Sadie, did you have like a sexual awakening

00:29:00.329 --> 00:29:02.309
or something like where you once uptight about

00:29:02.309 --> 00:29:05.309
sex and then you had this like awakening and

00:29:05.309 --> 00:29:08.089
then this is how we came on this journey where

00:29:08.089 --> 00:29:10.029
you always like a sexual being kind of wondering

00:29:10.029 --> 00:29:12.990
like, why isn't the world cut up to my lines?

00:29:15.150 --> 00:29:20.049
I was always very sensual, very into touching

00:29:20.049 --> 00:29:22.210
and connecting. And for me, there was something

00:29:22.210 --> 00:29:25.269
very kind of spiritual about it, though I didn't

00:29:25.269 --> 00:29:27.430
have those words at the time. There was like

00:29:27.430 --> 00:29:29.730
a deep connection. I would really appreciate

00:29:29.730 --> 00:29:34.230
just being in union or touching another being

00:29:34.230 --> 00:29:37.529
and just how beautiful that was. And I didn't

00:29:37.529 --> 00:29:40.529
feel like I needed to necessarily attach to that.

00:29:40.650 --> 00:29:44.630
I could experience a number of different beings.

00:29:44.650 --> 00:29:48.630
And that got me in trouble in high school, you

00:29:48.630 --> 00:29:51.609
know, I was labeled a slut and I, because I didn't

00:29:51.609 --> 00:29:54.829
know how to do it in, I wasn't conscious. I didn't

00:29:54.829 --> 00:29:58.250
have the communication skills or tools to know

00:29:58.250 --> 00:30:02.210
how to navigate that for myself. So I kind of

00:30:02.210 --> 00:30:05.470
took that on that I was a bad person too. And

00:30:05.470 --> 00:30:08.250
I couldn't control myself. And, you know, it

00:30:08.250 --> 00:30:10.349
was just hurting everybody and hurting myself,

00:30:10.450 --> 00:30:13.029
causing a lot of damage. And, you know, the further

00:30:13.029 --> 00:30:16.650
I went on, into my, my path. Um, then I ended

00:30:16.650 --> 00:30:19.450
up dancing, um, you know, at strip clubs and

00:30:19.450 --> 00:30:22.210
just that was amazing. Cause I got to really

00:30:22.210 --> 00:30:24.730
be in that sensual energy and expressed in that

00:30:24.730 --> 00:30:26.589
way. And it was supported, right? And it was

00:30:26.589 --> 00:30:32.150
powerful. Yes. Yes. Yes. And that moved into

00:30:32.150 --> 00:30:36.269
escorting, which to me was just like absolute

00:30:36.269 --> 00:30:39.250
heaven because here was these very strong boundaries.

00:30:39.549 --> 00:30:41.410
I get to experience a whole bunch of different

00:30:41.410 --> 00:30:45.190
people. they go home, I go my way, and we're

00:30:45.190 --> 00:30:47.230
all in agreement that like, yeah, that was great.

00:30:47.430 --> 00:30:49.490
That was amazing. And now we're complete, right?

00:30:49.789 --> 00:30:51.750
Like, would you, would you start to interrupt

00:30:51.750 --> 00:30:53.210
because I want to keep going here, but I have

00:30:53.210 --> 00:30:55.930
my brain, you know, gets these questions. So

00:30:55.930 --> 00:30:59.829
when you were escorting, were you actually able

00:30:59.829 --> 00:31:02.630
to have orgasm with these johns or whatever?

00:31:03.369 --> 00:31:08.200
As well? Yeah. Oh, yeah. Would you feel bad like

00:31:08.200 --> 00:31:10.440
charging afterwards? Like, hey, we both kind

00:31:10.440 --> 00:31:17.640
of came to fruition here. Nope. No. And last

00:31:17.640 --> 00:31:20.079
question. What was the charge? How much we talk

00:31:20.079 --> 00:31:24.109
in here? How many shekels? Well, it ranged. It's

00:31:24.109 --> 00:31:29.670
gone up to, uh, is it $1 ,000 an hour? Yeah.

00:31:30.549 --> 00:31:33.349
Yeah. It started lower at 300, but I just kept

00:31:33.349 --> 00:31:35.349
raising it, raising it, raising it to where it

00:31:35.349 --> 00:31:37.970
felt right for me. So yeah. You're like, I'll

00:31:37.970 --> 00:31:39.910
eventually price myself down. They're like, all

00:31:39.910 --> 00:31:42.890
right, I'll do 1100. Fine. Right, right, right.

00:31:43.109 --> 00:31:45.029
Yeah, and that that's actually yeah, you have

00:31:45.029 --> 00:31:46.769
to know the market and where it's going to be

00:31:46.769 --> 00:31:49.430
accepted and work in some areas that's not going

00:31:49.430 --> 00:31:53.990
to fly but Did you ever give a discount for a

00:31:53.990 --> 00:31:58.869
good performance? No All right, I just want to

00:31:58.869 --> 00:32:00.509
make sure because I never got one so I just want

00:32:00.509 --> 00:32:06.079
to make sure that wasn't a thing before So, so,

00:32:06.079 --> 00:32:09.960
so no discounts. So, okay, so now the escorting

00:32:09.960 --> 00:32:14.380
felt more even more powerful and empowering and

00:32:14.380 --> 00:32:17.259
all that jazz. Where if you want to continue,

00:32:17.420 --> 00:32:19.099
sorry, I didn't mean to interrupt. Yeah, no,

00:32:19.180 --> 00:32:21.500
that's fine. Yeah. And then just continuing on

00:32:21.500 --> 00:32:25.420
getting into my spiritual path and learning so

00:32:25.420 --> 00:32:28.579
much more about energy and consciousness and

00:32:28.579 --> 00:32:32.150
in my education. you know, going through various

00:32:32.150 --> 00:32:34.690
degrees and learning so much that I started bringing

00:32:34.690 --> 00:32:37.950
into this sexuality and getting really passionate

00:32:37.950 --> 00:32:42.339
about. you know, getting into hearing so many

00:32:42.339 --> 00:32:44.339
of my clients talking about their relationships,

00:32:44.519 --> 00:32:47.579
right? I learned so much about what wasn't working

00:32:47.579 --> 00:32:50.839
and why they were coming to see me and the patterns

00:32:50.839 --> 00:32:54.660
of the, the women, their partners and the patterns

00:32:54.660 --> 00:32:57.599
of, you know, the men and what was going on.

00:32:57.660 --> 00:33:00.599
So I was learning a lot about that. And, and

00:33:00.599 --> 00:33:03.559
then just starting to apply what I learned spiritually

00:33:03.559 --> 00:33:06.319
and what I learned in my education to that and

00:33:06.319 --> 00:33:08.720
getting just really passionate about getting

00:33:08.720 --> 00:33:12.000
underneath all of it again. And so it's just

00:33:12.000 --> 00:33:15.420
been, for me, a lifelong journey of coming into

00:33:15.420 --> 00:33:21.160
my own sensuality and sexuality, which is it

00:33:21.160 --> 00:33:23.839
is quite a journey, right? And it's it isn't

00:33:23.839 --> 00:33:26.000
like we said earlier, not a one size fits all.

00:33:26.019 --> 00:33:28.640
So it's a constant like learning and pushing

00:33:28.640 --> 00:33:31.299
back on systems and pushing back on those beliefs

00:33:31.299 --> 00:33:35.559
I've taken in. But but yeah, just I see so much

00:33:35.559 --> 00:33:41.589
pain and turmoil around the sexuality. that disappears

00:33:41.589 --> 00:33:43.970
in relationships. And it's not just the sexuality,

00:33:43.970 --> 00:33:48.349
that's kind of a symptom, right, of a much deeper

00:33:48.349 --> 00:33:51.849
underlying feminine masculine issue that we've

00:33:51.849 --> 00:33:55.549
got going on, right? So it just it just shows

00:33:55.549 --> 00:33:59.950
up in sexuality or a lack of thereof, right?

00:34:00.230 --> 00:34:03.289
So, so yeah, that's just kind of been the journey.

00:34:03.650 --> 00:34:08.860
So yeah, have you I'm sorry, gotcha. Oh, I was

00:34:08.860 --> 00:34:11.539
going to say you back there early when you said

00:34:11.539 --> 00:34:13.820
in high school, you were, you know, sleeping

00:34:13.820 --> 00:34:16.599
around and they considered a slut. It's just

00:34:16.599 --> 00:34:18.920
always funny that guys that do that, they're

00:34:18.920 --> 00:34:20.960
like, oh, that's cool. Yeah. But the women are

00:34:20.960 --> 00:34:23.659
there. Oh, they're sluts. And it's like, but

00:34:23.659 --> 00:34:27.340
guys always secretly like sluts or whatever you

00:34:27.340 --> 00:34:30.340
want to call them. Sexually open women. But they're

00:34:30.340 --> 00:34:32.320
like, oh, no, we can't have sex with her. And

00:34:32.320 --> 00:34:35.260
then, you know, in the back, figuring out how

00:34:35.260 --> 00:34:39.739
to get to her. It seems to me like why is like

00:34:39.739 --> 00:34:43.139
how does society program us with that as well?

00:34:43.219 --> 00:34:46.019
It's like one side is it's bad to do the other

00:34:46.019 --> 00:34:48.300
side. It's like, yeah, cool. You're good. Yeah.

00:34:48.300 --> 00:34:50.059
Cause you're young and dumb and not thinking

00:34:50.059 --> 00:34:52.019
properly because they're sluts in high school.

00:34:52.139 --> 00:34:53.619
And then like three years later, they're the

00:34:53.619 --> 00:34:55.420
cool chicks because they, you know, they were

00:34:55.420 --> 00:34:58.480
given out at the proper time, but you're in high

00:34:58.480 --> 00:35:00.159
school. You're like, there's, it's just like,

00:35:00.199 --> 00:35:01.800
you weren't thinking probably like, no, they're

00:35:01.800 --> 00:35:03.980
fucking little ones doing the thing, putting

00:35:03.980 --> 00:35:08.230
it out there. The good old time. How old were

00:35:08.230 --> 00:35:10.429
you when you had your first sexual experience?

00:35:10.610 --> 00:35:12.829
Was it later in life? Because I remember you

00:35:12.829 --> 00:35:14.650
saying you were a little hoochie in high school.

00:35:15.050 --> 00:35:18.969
But was that when the sexual stuff started? Yeah,

00:35:19.070 --> 00:35:23.090
I guess my first, it was in between eighth and

00:35:23.090 --> 00:35:29.389
ninth grade. So I think I was like 13 maybe.

00:35:31.059 --> 00:35:33.500
Right around there. Yeah. You'd think I'd remember

00:35:33.500 --> 00:35:37.840
that, right? The age, but yeah, 13. Yeah. You

00:35:37.840 --> 00:35:39.860
remember like where you were in school. The age

00:35:39.860 --> 00:35:43.260
is like, Oh, it was right before I went into

00:35:43.260 --> 00:35:45.599
high school and somehow I connected with the,

00:35:45.599 --> 00:35:48.400
the quarterback of the football team. So that

00:35:48.400 --> 00:35:51.659
was a great way to enter into high school. Yeah.

00:35:51.880 --> 00:35:55.159
And probably, and probably a good way for him

00:35:55.159 --> 00:35:57.139
to get the slut name out because he probably

00:35:57.139 --> 00:36:00.300
had a big mouth like, Hey, by the way. Actually,

00:36:00.440 --> 00:36:03.480
he wasn't like that at all. No, he was a very,

00:36:03.559 --> 00:36:07.659
very sweet guy. And we had a great connection.

00:36:08.159 --> 00:36:14.440
And it was a really beautiful entry into sexuality

00:36:14.440 --> 00:36:17.679
in that way. So no, there was no weird drama

00:36:17.679 --> 00:36:21.019
around that at all. So I'm really happy with

00:36:21.019 --> 00:36:24.730
how that worked out. That's probably key to that

00:36:24.730 --> 00:36:28.489
first sexual experience to define maybe you as

00:36:28.489 --> 00:36:32.590
a person on that journey. Yeah. If it's all awkward

00:36:32.590 --> 00:36:35.150
and whatever, it might remain like that until

00:36:35.150 --> 00:36:38.130
you find a person to open up that beautiful flower

00:36:38.130 --> 00:36:44.329
type of deal. Yeah. Totally. Beautiful. Thank

00:36:44.329 --> 00:36:48.989
you. Thank you. Man of analogies today. So do

00:36:48.989 --> 00:36:54.480
you find like have you ever gotten frisky with

00:36:54.480 --> 00:36:58.139
maybe some people you're coaching, like to coach

00:36:58.139 --> 00:37:02.320
them out of their sexual proclivity, like, you

00:37:02.320 --> 00:37:07.940
know, they're like, non -sexual way, you know

00:37:07.940 --> 00:37:10.199
what I'm saying? Like, have you ever coached

00:37:10.199 --> 00:37:13.420
them, like, physically to get them out of there?

00:37:14.199 --> 00:37:16.139
Out of their shell. Out of their shell. There

00:37:16.139 --> 00:37:19.949
you go. Thank you. No, I have not had people

00:37:19.949 --> 00:37:22.329
come to me in that way working at that level,

00:37:22.710 --> 00:37:25.789
but I definitely like the gentleman friends.

00:37:26.010 --> 00:37:30.250
I was seeing clients had turned into coaching

00:37:30.250 --> 00:37:34.369
clients and I, you know, support them through

00:37:34.369 --> 00:37:37.989
moving through all of this, right? And unpacking.

00:37:38.329 --> 00:37:42.030
So, yeah. So, so in that sense and some of my

00:37:43.050 --> 00:37:45.809
I do energy healing as well, and some of those

00:37:45.809 --> 00:37:55.050
sessions were our hands on, right? Yeah, so there's

00:37:55.050 --> 00:37:58.289
a release, right? But it's a powerful energetic.

00:37:59.849 --> 00:38:01.849
And it's really, there's been a lot of helping

00:38:01.849 --> 00:38:05.050
people with erectile dysfunction issues because

00:38:05.050 --> 00:38:07.809
there's so much energy blocked up. So using energy

00:38:07.809 --> 00:38:11.230
healing for this and to clear the mind because

00:38:11.230 --> 00:38:13.590
it's all connected, right? Body, mind, spirit.

00:38:14.110 --> 00:38:18.349
So, so yeah, definitely I, I, I work at that

00:38:18.349 --> 00:38:20.489
level and have worked at that level. So yeah.

00:38:20.969 --> 00:38:22.849
What does your client tell like, is it married

00:38:22.849 --> 00:38:26.190
men, men, women? Do you have just broad spectrum

00:38:26.190 --> 00:38:31.889
or is it? I'm starting to work with women a lot

00:38:31.889 --> 00:38:34.690
more now, so moving into that realm, and I have

00:38:34.690 --> 00:38:39.110
supported them in a different way around intergenerational

00:38:39.110 --> 00:38:43.530
trauma and so much of the sexual abuse that women

00:38:43.530 --> 00:38:45.630
have been dealing with for thousands of years.

00:38:45.809 --> 00:38:49.829
It is just underlying our society, and we're

00:38:49.829 --> 00:38:52.980
all carrying that. energy we're all carrying

00:38:52.980 --> 00:38:56.539
that wounding right because men are born out

00:38:56.539 --> 00:38:59.480
of women right so we can't escape it there's

00:38:59.480 --> 00:39:01.780
we're all carrying these traumas right because

00:39:01.780 --> 00:39:04.940
it's an energetic like epigenetics right it's

00:39:04.940 --> 00:39:09.460
just it's part of our DNA so So I'm supporting

00:39:09.460 --> 00:39:13.179
women around that but now then moving back to

00:39:13.179 --> 00:39:15.880
more supporting men and now I'm just really trying

00:39:15.880 --> 00:39:18.400
to bring it all together and work with both and

00:39:18.400 --> 00:39:20.739
we have so much to learn from each other and

00:39:20.739 --> 00:39:24.699
I'm really so passionate about supporting more

00:39:24.699 --> 00:39:27.800
of a connection versus a separation of the we

00:39:27.800 --> 00:39:30.119
don't need any more separation of the masculine

00:39:30.119 --> 00:39:32.480
and the feminine right and any more of the anger

00:39:32.480 --> 00:39:35.340
and resentment so trying to offer things for

00:39:35.340 --> 00:39:38.840
for both and I hold community of events now for

00:39:38.840 --> 00:39:42.599
both people to get involved and so we can learn

00:39:42.599 --> 00:39:44.840
from each other and start taking apart those

00:39:44.840 --> 00:39:47.800
belief systems that we think about, oh, women

00:39:47.800 --> 00:39:50.079
are like this or men are like this. It's just

00:39:50.079 --> 00:39:51.800
like, no, let's come together and talk about

00:39:51.800 --> 00:39:54.719
this and open it up, right? Open up those discussions

00:39:54.719 --> 00:39:59.840
and learn from each other and shift these paradigms

00:39:59.840 --> 00:40:03.769
that just aren't working. Yeah. like surge in

00:40:03.769 --> 00:40:06.610
younger clients because it's keep hearing about

00:40:06.610 --> 00:40:09.230
this younger generation. A lot of them aren't

00:40:09.230 --> 00:40:12.489
having sex. They're more into the porn realm.

00:40:12.670 --> 00:40:14.989
They're sitting in their room by themselves.

00:40:15.510 --> 00:40:16.949
It just seems like they're not having as much

00:40:16.949 --> 00:40:21.030
sex as maybe our generation did. Have you seen

00:40:21.030 --> 00:40:24.130
anything to support that? That's so interesting.

00:40:24.329 --> 00:40:28.269
I listened to another podcast called Man Talks.

00:40:28.269 --> 00:40:29.869
I don't know if you're familiar with it, but

00:40:29.869 --> 00:40:33.280
this guy is really... Yeah, it's so good. It's

00:40:33.280 --> 00:40:36.860
really supporting the masculine to, you know,

00:40:36.920 --> 00:40:38.659
be in their power and move through a lot of these

00:40:38.659 --> 00:40:43.179
unhealthy dynamics. And he's talks about, yeah,

00:40:43.340 --> 00:40:46.679
the decline of the younger generations and their

00:40:46.679 --> 00:40:50.000
disconnection from their power and feeling vilified

00:40:50.000 --> 00:40:52.820
and that society is demonized men, right? It's

00:40:52.820 --> 00:40:55.119
all a man's fault. So he really addresses that.

00:40:55.539 --> 00:41:00.530
And he talks about, yeah, that you know younger

00:41:00.530 --> 00:41:03.349
men are like hiding out behind their computer

00:41:03.349 --> 00:41:05.570
screens and not connecting and they're afraid

00:41:05.570 --> 00:41:08.989
to connect with women and yeah there's a so there's

00:41:08.989 --> 00:41:12.679
a big thing I guess I don't I don't see, I don't

00:41:12.679 --> 00:41:16.380
draw in a younger crowd necessarily. Well, I

00:41:16.380 --> 00:41:19.139
do when I'm out and about, actually. So, but

00:41:19.139 --> 00:41:21.420
they - Wait, you're saying you don't have a children's

00:41:21.420 --> 00:41:24.119
coloring book on this subject that we could give

00:41:24.119 --> 00:41:26.360
to the - Come on, John. That would be great.

00:41:26.500 --> 00:41:28.699
That would be great. No, no, but we need to start

00:41:28.699 --> 00:41:32.780
there, right? Shoot. Yeah. Well, yeah, I mean,

00:41:32.800 --> 00:41:36.179
like you said, society has demonized the masculine

00:41:36.179 --> 00:41:39.980
part of - of our society. And so now those men

00:41:39.980 --> 00:41:42.380
are afraid to go out and even talk to a woman

00:41:42.380 --> 00:41:44.219
because they could be accused. Oh, you're, you

00:41:44.219 --> 00:41:46.059
know, they're, I'm offended. You're talking to

00:41:46.059 --> 00:41:48.159
me. Like, you know, it seems like they're dealing

00:41:48.159 --> 00:41:51.000
with that too. So they can't even get in the

00:41:51.000 --> 00:41:52.840
door to connect to have sex because you're like,

00:41:53.239 --> 00:41:55.699
you say something wrong to some woman and she's

00:41:55.699 --> 00:41:58.460
like, fuck you, you're patriarchy, blah, blah,

00:41:58.480 --> 00:42:01.239
blah, you know, whatever. Yeah. And I've seen

00:42:01.239 --> 00:42:03.179
that where guys are afraid to approach me because

00:42:03.179 --> 00:42:06.199
I might Get upset about something I might take

00:42:06.199 --> 00:42:08.320
something wrong or they don't want to be you

00:42:08.320 --> 00:42:10.440
know that guy and I'm just like oh my gosh How

00:42:10.440 --> 00:42:13.440
are we gonna get anywhere? Not approaching and

00:42:13.440 --> 00:42:17.780
Yeah, I've never You know bought into that you

00:42:17.780 --> 00:42:20.199
know man -hating like it's all I don't know that

00:42:20.199 --> 00:42:23.340
just I I love men so much and that's why I'm

00:42:23.340 --> 00:42:26.760
so passionate about supporting them to Supporting

00:42:26.760 --> 00:42:31.849
all of us right but no I I I would not want to

00:42:31.849 --> 00:42:36.190
be in a world without men I'd like to try it

00:42:36.190 --> 00:42:38.630
for a day like just to be the only man in that

00:42:38.630 --> 00:42:41.829
world I'd like to try that for like one day You

00:42:41.829 --> 00:42:44.170
get around John and then then like after day

00:42:44.170 --> 00:42:46.090
one I'd be like all right well I don't know how

00:42:46.090 --> 00:42:49.050
to pump my own gas so guys we need you back here

00:42:49.050 --> 00:42:51.570
I took care of enough women for us on that one

00:42:51.570 --> 00:42:57.150
day journey um what is what is a good healthy

00:42:57.150 --> 00:43:01.829
uh sexual appetite for for a A person generalized.

00:43:02.050 --> 00:43:03.710
I know we're all on different speeds here, but

00:43:03.710 --> 00:43:08.550
what would you say? mid 40s Handsome how often

00:43:08.550 --> 00:43:18.170
should that guy be having sex? So ladies you

00:43:18.170 --> 00:43:21.670
heard her in order to keep this show going I

00:43:21.670 --> 00:43:25.409
need I need a lot of favors here. No, um, I was

00:43:25.409 --> 00:43:26.869
kind of I was joking there, but if you want to

00:43:26.869 --> 00:43:30.409
answer Well, no as often as you want, right?

00:43:30.550 --> 00:43:32.269
I mean, that's that's what it should be Which

00:43:32.269 --> 00:43:34.530
is a really important piece because not everybody

00:43:34.530 --> 00:43:36.889
wants a lot of sex, right? Again, we're told

00:43:36.889 --> 00:43:39.030
that that's the natural way or that's what you

00:43:39.030 --> 00:43:41.250
should want We're told all sorts of weird things,

00:43:41.349 --> 00:43:43.389
you know We but that's one belief that people

00:43:43.389 --> 00:43:46.349
take on that they should want more, right? They

00:43:46.349 --> 00:43:49.010
should want to have more sex and maybe not, you

00:43:49.010 --> 00:43:52.420
know, that doesn't fit everybody so Again getting

00:43:52.420 --> 00:43:54.699
clear. What what do you want? You know, some

00:43:54.699 --> 00:43:56.460
people don't want to have sex at all and that's

00:43:56.460 --> 00:43:58.840
great But don't get into a relationship with

00:43:58.840 --> 00:44:01.539
somebody that does right. It's just not Fucking

00:44:01.539 --> 00:44:07.039
work. It's just not so Again, it's just Try to

00:44:07.039 --> 00:44:09.900
get clear what feels natural. What what where

00:44:09.900 --> 00:44:12.280
is your desire? And that changes of course too

00:44:12.280 --> 00:44:14.219
as we move through our life, right? Sometimes

00:44:14.219 --> 00:44:15.900
we're gonna be in a place where we want more

00:44:15.900 --> 00:44:19.019
sometimes we want less but this is why such a

00:44:19.019 --> 00:44:23.000
journey I'm sure like Viagra and see Alice didn't

00:44:23.000 --> 00:44:25.360
help us on this journey because like when the

00:44:25.360 --> 00:44:28.119
dude's supposed to like stop having these massive

00:44:28.119 --> 00:44:30.480
erections because like his wife is dried up.

00:44:30.599 --> 00:44:32.760
Now he's got these pills and like he's ready

00:44:32.760 --> 00:44:34.820
to go. And the wife was like, dude, I've been

00:44:34.820 --> 00:44:37.679
dead for about five years down there. And now

00:44:37.679 --> 00:44:42.329
you're fucking ready to roll. I think there's

00:44:42.329 --> 00:44:44.989
so many more things going on there, right? And

00:44:44.989 --> 00:44:47.449
part of what I think women are dealing with is

00:44:47.449 --> 00:44:50.349
a real shutdown around their own sexuality and

00:44:50.349 --> 00:44:52.650
are able to receive the masculine. So that's

00:44:52.650 --> 00:44:56.650
their own personal journey to go on. And then

00:44:56.650 --> 00:44:59.949
the masculine is maybe not giving in the healthiest

00:44:59.949 --> 00:45:03.050
of way also, right? Not offering from a place

00:45:03.050 --> 00:45:10.289
of wholehearted. They often want to... They feel

00:45:10.289 --> 00:45:15.409
like... Let's see. They need the feminine to

00:45:15.409 --> 00:45:18.530
give them something right to make them feel whole.

00:45:18.809 --> 00:45:21.449
So and a female we feel that right like it's

00:45:21.449 --> 00:45:24.869
a very needy like I need this from you so I can

00:45:24.869 --> 00:45:27.710
feel complete so I am feeling desired so I feel

00:45:27.710 --> 00:45:31.110
loved and that's not where we want to give from

00:45:31.110 --> 00:45:33.110
right so I think that's part of why a lot of

00:45:33.110 --> 00:45:35.909
women shut down unconsciously and then they create

00:45:35.909 --> 00:45:40.030
you know physical issues where it's actually

00:45:40.030 --> 00:45:42.570
painful, right? And so then they have that like

00:45:42.570 --> 00:45:45.269
this is actually painful. And so then again,

00:45:45.349 --> 00:45:47.630
sex stops. And this is, you know, I'm generalizing

00:45:47.630 --> 00:45:50.710
this, but this happens a lot. I see it a lot.

00:45:51.070 --> 00:45:53.610
But again, it's these deeper underlying issues.

00:45:54.050 --> 00:45:57.170
And men aren't coming to women oftentimes from

00:45:57.170 --> 00:45:59.690
a whole healthy place, right? They're needing

00:45:59.690 --> 00:46:01.869
something. They're needing something that we're

00:46:01.869 --> 00:46:05.250
trying to suck out of the feminine. And it doesn't

00:46:05.250 --> 00:46:07.949
feel good. Right. So again, that's why this is

00:46:07.949 --> 00:46:10.590
a personal journey. We all have to go on because

00:46:10.590 --> 00:46:13.550
there's so much underneath it. It's not I've

00:46:13.550 --> 00:46:16.150
had clients like if my wife just wanted more

00:46:16.150 --> 00:46:19.369
sex, right? It's like, no, and then I see them

00:46:19.369 --> 00:46:22.030
ending up getting more sex from their their wives.

00:46:22.090 --> 00:46:24.530
And they're still unhappy, right? Because it's

00:46:24.530 --> 00:46:26.550
like, Oh, well, I'm getting more sex, but I don't

00:46:26.550 --> 00:46:30.809
feel like she actually wants to be with me. She's

00:46:30.809 --> 00:46:32.730
just going through the motions. It's like, yes.

00:46:33.130 --> 00:46:36.710
it's not about sex it's a deeper deeper deeper

00:46:36.710 --> 00:46:39.590
issue that you're not gonna get you're not gonna

00:46:39.590 --> 00:46:43.389
get complete from that you're not it's we need

00:46:43.389 --> 00:46:46.090
to be whole in ourselves and then we connect

00:46:46.090 --> 00:46:49.530
from that place and it's great right but it it

00:46:49.530 --> 00:46:52.150
yeah there's so much going on with it there's

00:46:52.150 --> 00:46:55.090
so much dudes are like their own worst enemy

00:46:55.090 --> 00:46:57.889
trying to get some from the lady there with like,

00:46:58.090 --> 00:47:00.769
if you just made her feel a little bit more loved

00:47:00.769 --> 00:47:03.230
and welcomed outside of the moment, you're looking

00:47:03.230 --> 00:47:05.849
to get some vagina. It probably go a long way

00:47:05.849 --> 00:47:08.730
for when you're looking to get some vagina. You

00:47:08.730 --> 00:47:10.570
know what I'm saying? Like you're trying to get

00:47:10.570 --> 00:47:14.250
in your own way with things. So to speak, I know

00:47:14.250 --> 00:47:17.900
I've been there like, yeah. Yeah, well, and being

00:47:17.900 --> 00:47:20.179
clear, like, why are you wanting to connect with

00:47:20.179 --> 00:47:23.420
this other person? You know, is it... To bust

00:47:23.420 --> 00:47:25.820
a nut. You could just say... What? You could

00:47:25.820 --> 00:47:28.659
just be like, bust a nut. I want to release her.

00:47:29.579 --> 00:47:31.920
If you're clear on that, that's great. And so

00:47:31.920 --> 00:47:34.320
long as she's into that too, right? Just something

00:47:34.320 --> 00:47:40.420
to get off on. I mean... I wasn't talking about...

00:47:40.480 --> 00:47:42.300
like a relationship. But I mean, yeah, I mean,

00:47:42.300 --> 00:47:44.000
even if it is a relationship, yeah, I've been

00:47:44.000 --> 00:47:45.960
there before and have been that honest with somebody.

00:47:45.980 --> 00:47:48.420
Like, can we just fuck real quick? Like I'm dying

00:47:48.420 --> 00:47:51.820
over here. Oh my gosh, right? And sometimes that's

00:47:51.820 --> 00:47:53.820
it. Like, I don't need a big fucking thing. Like,

00:47:53.920 --> 00:47:56.179
let's just do this because I'm like, bro, you

00:47:56.179 --> 00:47:58.980
know, it doesn't have to be like this, like some

00:47:58.980 --> 00:48:01.619
candles and roll romantic. Like, no, no, no,

00:48:01.619 --> 00:48:07.840
no, no, let's just do it. Right. Yeah. I don't

00:48:07.840 --> 00:48:10.119
need to put on the production over here and,

00:48:10.199 --> 00:48:15.639
uh, you know, but that's a lot of it though.

00:48:15.719 --> 00:48:17.920
It's the, uh, it's the yin and the yang between

00:48:17.920 --> 00:48:20.960
the people having, uh, sex and stuff like that.

00:48:21.260 --> 00:48:24.099
You know, you could, you could feel when, when

00:48:24.099 --> 00:48:26.659
you're not into it as a person or the other person

00:48:26.659 --> 00:48:28.940
just kind of going through the motions, you both

00:48:28.940 --> 00:48:31.159
feed off of that. As a dude, you can get past

00:48:31.159 --> 00:48:32.519
that and be like, all right, she's not into it.

00:48:32.579 --> 00:48:35.699
Let me get my business going. out a chick I mean

00:48:35.699 --> 00:48:38.320
if they're not into it that's that's where you're

00:48:38.320 --> 00:48:41.019
gonna be there all day and a half you know what

00:48:41.019 --> 00:48:43.559
I'm saying so you gotta get that comfortableness

00:48:43.559 --> 00:48:45.860
going and then if she's if not there it's not

00:48:45.860 --> 00:48:51.119
there get on and get out you know um speaking

00:48:51.119 --> 00:48:59.590
of do you think that Well, no, I'm just like,

00:48:59.730 --> 00:49:01.849
do you think that marriage is kind of an archaic

00:49:01.849 --> 00:49:04.289
institution? And the fact that, you know, when

00:49:04.289 --> 00:49:07.230
it was came about, like people were dying probably

00:49:07.230 --> 00:49:11.070
by like 30 or something. Like now to have that

00:49:11.070 --> 00:49:15.010
level of monogamy, monogamy. Is that, is that

00:49:15.010 --> 00:49:19.869
the word? Sweet. For that, you know, amount of

00:49:19.869 --> 00:49:23.630
time, it just seems so unnatural. And. if you're

00:49:23.630 --> 00:49:26.210
not doing your part as the couple, you could

00:49:26.210 --> 00:49:30.010
both start to feel maybe unattracted to the world.

00:49:30.210 --> 00:49:32.570
Like nobody's into me type of deal because you're

00:49:32.570 --> 00:49:34.690
not getting it from your spouse and then you're

00:49:34.690 --> 00:49:37.389
not going outside to get it. So it could really

00:49:37.389 --> 00:49:42.170
take a lot out of a person being in that monogamous

00:49:42.170 --> 00:49:45.090
relationship that's not being fed and like, you

00:49:45.090 --> 00:49:48.699
know, giving back to each other. Absolutely.

00:49:49.000 --> 00:49:50.800
And that's what really happens, right? There's

00:49:50.800 --> 00:49:54.139
just such a shutdown when, you know, our sexuality

00:49:54.139 --> 00:49:59.260
is an important piece of us. And when it's denied

00:49:59.260 --> 00:50:05.179
and not allowed its outlets, right? I mean, it

00:50:05.179 --> 00:50:07.280
shuts all of us down because it is. It's our

00:50:07.280 --> 00:50:09.340
passion, our creativity, our life force energy.

00:50:09.539 --> 00:50:12.619
And when we shut that down, a lot of other parts

00:50:12.619 --> 00:50:17.840
of ourselves shut down. Yeah, so marriage, I

00:50:17.840 --> 00:50:21.280
mean, I think, I don't know, it doesn't work

00:50:21.280 --> 00:50:23.739
for me necessarily, but again, it's all about

00:50:23.739 --> 00:50:26.440
communication, right? And what do you want? Are

00:50:26.440 --> 00:50:29.079
you talking about sexuality? What happens when

00:50:29.079 --> 00:50:31.820
something shifts in the marriage and, you know,

00:50:31.860 --> 00:50:33.980
one person doesn't want to engage sexually anymore?

00:50:34.519 --> 00:50:36.739
you know, does the partner, does the one person

00:50:36.739 --> 00:50:38.980
get to go and explore that elsewhere and how

00:50:38.980 --> 00:50:42.119
their, their, you know, I won't say needs met,

00:50:42.260 --> 00:50:45.059
but, you know, desires met and explore that.

00:50:45.159 --> 00:50:47.199
But if that's not discussed in the beginning,

00:50:47.219 --> 00:50:51.739
so I think the, the monogamous model of marriage

00:50:51.739 --> 00:50:54.900
is, you know, um, I don't want to say it for

00:50:54.900 --> 00:50:57.019
everybody, but again, I don't think it ever really

00:50:57.019 --> 00:50:59.400
worked all that well. Um, and it has just shut

00:50:59.400 --> 00:51:02.800
people down a lot to their passions, to their

00:51:02.800 --> 00:51:05.519
life force and They'll you know just because

00:51:05.519 --> 00:51:07.300
you get through to the end of your life and you've

00:51:07.300 --> 00:51:09.460
been married to that one person It doesn't mean

00:51:09.460 --> 00:51:11.460
it was successful, right? It doesn't mean you

00:51:11.460 --> 00:51:13.539
were like living your life to the fullest and

00:51:13.539 --> 00:51:16.340
you know really rocking it out But that's what

00:51:16.340 --> 00:51:19.059
we base success on is did you make it to the

00:51:19.059 --> 00:51:21.739
end with that one person, right? Like what about

00:51:21.739 --> 00:51:23.780
the rest of your life, right? So we really need

00:51:23.780 --> 00:51:26.280
to look at that like what is success? What's

00:51:26.280 --> 00:51:29.659
important to us? What are our values doesn't

00:51:29.659 --> 00:51:31.940
marriage support that and are you married to

00:51:31.940 --> 00:51:34.139
somebody who supports? What's the change? We're

00:51:34.139 --> 00:51:36.800
going to change. We change all the freaking time,

00:51:36.940 --> 00:51:41.619
right? And if you can't shift and adapt and move

00:51:41.619 --> 00:51:44.480
with that kind of flow, then that's where you're

00:51:44.480 --> 00:51:45.900
going to be shut down. You're going to have problems

00:51:45.900 --> 00:51:48.059
and then you're going to come see an escort,

00:51:48.360 --> 00:51:53.440
right? Society says marriage is supposed to be

00:51:53.440 --> 00:51:55.619
monogamous, but like, you know, I think there's

00:51:55.619 --> 00:51:59.320
tons of marriages out there where The both of

00:51:59.320 --> 00:52:01.219
both agree to go outside of the marriage and

00:52:01.219 --> 00:52:06.980
have fun Yeah, yeah, I think so too. I think

00:52:06.980 --> 00:52:09.880
yeah again, this is yeah, it's in the collective,

00:52:10.059 --> 00:52:13.699
right? We're really questioning the the old model

00:52:13.699 --> 00:52:15.940
right and trying on some new things for ourselves

00:52:15.940 --> 00:52:19.500
So yeah Especially as you're getting to hear

00:52:19.500 --> 00:52:21.860
like as the humans get more connected and you

00:52:21.860 --> 00:52:23.820
get to hear more conversations like this like

00:52:23.820 --> 00:52:26.980
oh shit I'm not the only one who's Okay, not

00:52:26.980 --> 00:52:29.079
having sex in this marriage or you know, I'm

00:52:29.079 --> 00:52:31.739
not I'm not the only dude who wants sex more

00:52:31.739 --> 00:52:33.900
than my wife or more than my partner or whatever.

00:52:34.239 --> 00:52:37.599
It's you know, your conversations like this get

00:52:37.599 --> 00:52:39.760
the word out and you realize hey a lot of people

00:52:39.760 --> 00:52:42.099
kind of have these similar thoughts and maybe

00:52:42.099 --> 00:52:46.619
I'm not so unique in wanting to explore outside

00:52:46.619 --> 00:52:50.400
of my marriage if you know, whatever. There's

00:52:50.400 --> 00:52:52.260
lots of swingers out there, swinging couples

00:52:52.260 --> 00:52:56.719
for sure. Yeah, I respect them. I respect them.

00:52:56.820 --> 00:52:58.719
I just, I personally, I just don't get it. Like

00:52:58.719 --> 00:53:01.099
I said, if I get those deep feelings involved,

00:53:01.320 --> 00:53:05.019
I just am like, you know, how can that person

00:53:05.019 --> 00:53:07.559
go and bang somebody else? Even though I could

00:53:07.559 --> 00:53:09.880
do it, I just don't get how their brain could

00:53:09.880 --> 00:53:12.719
do it because they got to love me just a little

00:53:12.719 --> 00:53:14.199
bit more than I love them. Maybe that's where

00:53:14.199 --> 00:53:17.699
my crazy ego mind goes. I don't know, but It

00:53:17.699 --> 00:53:19.320
just that's that's a thought in my brain. Like,

00:53:19.380 --> 00:53:22.280
oh, she couldn't love me if she's blowing this

00:53:22.280 --> 00:53:27.219
dude or whatever. You know, that's just probably

00:53:27.219 --> 00:53:30.239
my need to work on something I need to work on.

00:53:30.380 --> 00:53:32.559
Yeah, I should be like, Hey, lady that I love,

00:53:32.579 --> 00:53:34.480
you should be blowing everybody. What's wrong

00:53:34.480 --> 00:53:37.199
with you? I left for five minutes. You did not

00:53:37.199 --> 00:53:39.219
blow the neighbor. We're done. I'm out of here.

00:53:40.139 --> 00:53:43.059
I don't have to go that far. Right. Right. Right.

00:53:43.260 --> 00:53:46.929
Right. You don't have to blow the neighbor just

00:53:46.929 --> 00:53:49.610
cause I'm gone for five minutes. Uh, I did have

00:53:49.610 --> 00:53:52.849
a joke though, uh, with one of my exes, one of

00:53:52.849 --> 00:53:55.289
her exes lived up the block from where we were

00:53:55.289 --> 00:53:56.769
living together. And I used to be able to say,

00:53:56.909 --> 00:53:58.750
I can't even go up the block without running

00:53:58.750 --> 00:54:01.869
into a dude. You fucked. And it was, you know,

00:54:01.889 --> 00:54:07.320
real, but I was joking, but it was true. That's

00:54:07.320 --> 00:54:10.900
fine. Hence the funny. Hence the funny. So talk

00:54:10.900 --> 00:54:14.639
to me about your 12 -week journey of total reclamation,

00:54:15.139 --> 00:54:19.739
renewal, and rebirth. Is this for men and female?

00:54:20.800 --> 00:54:23.659
Yeah, absolutely. Yes, yes, yes. So a 12 -week

00:54:23.659 --> 00:54:27.280
program, really exploring all of these issues,

00:54:27.500 --> 00:54:31.510
but deep diving into Yeah. All these beliefs.

00:54:31.769 --> 00:54:34.530
Just one second. You want to do, you want to

00:54:34.530 --> 00:54:36.449
do this with her? Me and you. We take her 12

00:54:36.449 --> 00:54:46.230
week intense. Of course. Of course. Yeah. We'll

00:54:46.230 --> 00:54:48.769
take this 12 week course, Chad. See if we come

00:54:48.769 --> 00:54:53.190
out of it. Um, wanting to, this is bad. The echo

00:54:53.190 --> 00:54:55.829
is bad. I'm getting lost in my own echo voice.

00:54:56.489 --> 00:55:00.719
Anyway. Do you have headphones that we could

00:55:00.719 --> 00:55:06.880
plug in? Yeah, no, it didn't sound very good

00:55:06.880 --> 00:55:10.559
when I tested it earlier. So let's see. I'm going

00:55:10.559 --> 00:55:13.139
to mute while you're doing that. And we're going

00:55:13.139 --> 00:55:15.920
to set up that way. That's the beauty of a live

00:55:15.920 --> 00:55:18.360
show, folks. You know this on the gracious to

00:55:18.360 --> 00:55:21.280
how we rock and roll here. This is a fun conversation,

00:55:21.599 --> 00:55:24.239
Chad. What are you thinking? Absolutely. I'm

00:55:24.239 --> 00:55:27.460
intrigued. I'm interest. So yeah, I mean, I'll

00:55:27.460 --> 00:55:29.360
check out her 12 week course. I could be interested.

00:55:29.900 --> 00:55:33.460
Yeah. I mean, she'd have to really do some transformation

00:55:33.460 --> 00:55:39.059
for us, dude. Let's see. I might be already transformed.

00:55:39.360 --> 00:55:43.579
I don't know. We're transitioning me and chatter.

00:55:44.099 --> 00:55:49.300
Are you there, Sadie? Yeah. Beautiful money.

00:55:50.239 --> 00:55:52.460
Great. It was just it was fine. And then just

00:55:52.460 --> 00:55:55.019
started. That was very strange. Anyway. I blame

00:55:55.019 --> 00:55:57.480
Bobby. We have a producer. I don't know if you

00:55:57.480 --> 00:55:59.380
could see in the background, but we have a producer

00:55:59.380 --> 00:56:03.500
that I blame for every technical mishap we have.

00:56:03.980 --> 00:56:06.900
Nice. Perfect. Yeah. But so yeah, talk to us

00:56:06.900 --> 00:56:08.679
about the 12 week journey. What does it entail?

00:56:09.119 --> 00:56:11.539
Is it because I don't like to do mental homework,

00:56:11.699 --> 00:56:12.599
you know what I'm saying? Like if I'm going on

00:56:12.599 --> 00:56:16.000
a journey, I kind of want it to happen to me.

00:56:16.099 --> 00:56:18.579
I don't want to have to like go and really like

00:56:18.579 --> 00:56:24.929
do some self searching and, you know, No, this

00:56:24.929 --> 00:56:27.650
is, yeah, there's definitely, you know, there's,

00:56:27.650 --> 00:56:32.170
there's practices to do, but it's really, yeah,

00:56:32.670 --> 00:56:34.730
exploring, getting underneath these belief systems,

00:56:34.969 --> 00:56:36.730
like bringing things up to our consciousness

00:56:36.730 --> 00:56:41.269
and yeah, looking at how have I been living my

00:56:41.269 --> 00:56:44.010
life and is it serving me? And the first six

00:56:44.010 --> 00:56:46.349
weeks of the program is really getting underneath

00:56:46.349 --> 00:56:52.190
all of this stuff and Yeah, like, I mean, everything

00:56:52.190 --> 00:56:54.269
we've been talking about, right? And it's even

00:56:54.269 --> 00:56:57.769
things like nutrition. What am I surrounding

00:56:57.769 --> 00:57:01.230
myself with? What kind of energies and frequencies?

00:57:01.690 --> 00:57:04.389
Because it's, you know, again, I do energy healing.

00:57:04.849 --> 00:57:08.449
So each week comes with an energy healing session

00:57:08.449 --> 00:57:11.349
to really, we bring this stuff up from, from

00:57:11.349 --> 00:57:13.769
beneath, and then we clear it out with the energy

00:57:13.769 --> 00:57:17.760
healing. So. it's um yeah it's a deep dive and

00:57:17.760 --> 00:57:20.360
like what have we just unconsciously taken on

00:57:20.360 --> 00:57:22.719
it's everything we've been talking about here

00:57:22.719 --> 00:57:26.059
um but really getting into it right um deep dive

00:57:26.059 --> 00:57:29.300
type of deal and more intense reflection yeah

00:57:29.300 --> 00:57:32.619
totally and then um also connecting with our

00:57:32.619 --> 00:57:34.780
spirituality because we've taken on those belief

00:57:34.780 --> 00:57:38.900
systems from this dogmatic religious system we've

00:57:38.900 --> 00:57:41.219
grown up in like this is how you're supposed

00:57:41.219 --> 00:57:44.219
to do God, right? And that doesn't work for a

00:57:44.219 --> 00:57:45.920
lot of people either. That's another one of the

00:57:45.920 --> 00:57:48.579
systems that's just falling apart. So, and there's

00:57:48.579 --> 00:57:51.480
a middle man, you have to, you know, go to church

00:57:51.480 --> 00:57:54.039
and pray in this way to get, you know, connected

00:57:54.039 --> 00:57:57.409
or, you know, like, let's Let's move out of that

00:57:57.409 --> 00:57:59.809
crap, you know, we are powerful beings. So it's

00:57:59.809 --> 00:58:01.630
looking at that too. Like, what have you taken

00:58:01.630 --> 00:58:04.429
on around that that's not serving you? How do

00:58:04.429 --> 00:58:07.429
we get out from under that? And then the, and

00:58:07.429 --> 00:58:09.210
we look at sexuality, I mean, we just look at

00:58:09.210 --> 00:58:11.329
everything, right? Like, that's why I call it

00:58:11.329 --> 00:58:16.019
a total life transformation. So many of us are

00:58:16.019 --> 00:58:18.280
just going about our day without any consciousness

00:58:18.280 --> 00:58:20.500
and we actually can create our own reality. We

00:58:20.500 --> 00:58:23.059
get to choose when we take control of it and

00:58:23.059 --> 00:58:25.179
we recognize that we have the power to decide

00:58:25.179 --> 00:58:28.159
and make different choices. So the last six weeks

00:58:28.159 --> 00:58:31.019
of the program then goes into like, okay, if

00:58:31.019 --> 00:58:33.000
those things weren't working for me, what is

00:58:33.000 --> 00:58:34.840
going to work for me? How do I want to live my

00:58:34.840 --> 00:58:36.860
life? Let's get very conscious of that and then

00:58:36.860 --> 00:58:39.719
make those decisions. So many people are just

00:58:40.139 --> 00:58:41.800
They're just going through their day, you know,

00:58:41.840 --> 00:58:44.380
they're on autopilot and not wondering why their

00:58:44.380 --> 00:58:46.099
lives aren't going the way they want them to.

00:58:46.239 --> 00:58:47.820
It's like, well, because you're not clear on

00:58:47.820 --> 00:58:49.619
how you want to live and what you want to do.

00:58:50.019 --> 00:58:52.260
And so the universe is giving you what, what

00:58:52.260 --> 00:58:54.360
you want. You, you're, you're not, you know,

00:58:54.880 --> 00:58:59.320
you're at. So let's get clear. And then you take

00:58:59.320 --> 00:59:03.019
off and go. And it's just, it's wildly transformative

00:59:03.019 --> 00:59:05.639
and people like, they don't even know what they're

00:59:05.639 --> 00:59:07.360
getting into when they get into this program.

00:59:07.440 --> 00:59:10.050
And then at the end, they're like, holy. crap,

00:59:10.230 --> 00:59:11.889
you know, I didn't know we were going to do that.

00:59:12.070 --> 00:59:14.250
Like, whoa. And then it's just, you know, real

00:59:14.250 --> 00:59:17.150
big life changes, you know, people leave careers

00:59:17.150 --> 00:59:19.110
that haven't been serving them. They get the

00:59:19.110 --> 00:59:21.750
courage and the confidence once they understand

00:59:21.750 --> 00:59:24.769
where they're trying to go and what really works

00:59:24.769 --> 00:59:27.550
for them, what they're passionate about. And

00:59:27.550 --> 00:59:30.389
they start making new choices and like everything

00:59:30.389 --> 00:59:34.650
shifts, you know, divorces happen, go away, you

00:59:34.650 --> 00:59:36.989
know, or just, you know, whole lifestyle changes

00:59:36.989 --> 00:59:40.349
because like, Oh, they've been on autopilot and

00:59:40.349 --> 00:59:42.210
they've, you know, here's how you're supposed

00:59:42.210 --> 00:59:44.610
to live your life. You, you know, go to school,

00:59:44.730 --> 00:59:47.349
get married, have kids, do the career, right?

00:59:47.369 --> 00:59:49.369
Then you retire and then maybe you go travel.

00:59:49.570 --> 00:59:55.590
Like, fuck that, right? Like, if you've been

00:59:55.590 --> 00:59:58.690
like a sexual doormat for, I'm just using those

00:59:58.690 --> 01:00:00.710
words, but for so long. And then all of a sudden,

01:00:00.909 --> 01:00:02.769
you know, you take your stuff and you get empowered.

01:00:03.369 --> 01:00:06.849
That's like a whole life change. You went from

01:00:06.849 --> 01:00:10.579
like, Maybe somebody who was okay fucking shining

01:00:10.579 --> 01:00:12.800
shoes to somebody who now like wants to run a

01:00:12.800 --> 01:00:15.579
fucking fortune 500 company because you have

01:00:15.579 --> 01:00:17.739
this all this power that you never had before

01:00:17.739 --> 01:00:22.280
like if you get somebody that you know Is not

01:00:22.280 --> 01:00:23.960
used to getting their way and then through sexuality

01:00:23.960 --> 01:00:25.960
they start getting it. It's empowering. They're

01:00:25.960 --> 01:00:27.639
like, oh shit I didn't know I had this in me

01:00:27.639 --> 01:00:30.619
It's like a whole nother way of thinking for

01:00:30.619 --> 01:00:34.119
a lot of people. So it's like yeah, if you kind

01:00:34.119 --> 01:00:36.329
of accomplish what you're accomplishing And these

01:00:36.329 --> 01:00:38.550
people have an awakening. It's like a real great

01:00:38.550 --> 01:00:41.469
lifestyle change in a, in a great way. Like people

01:00:41.469 --> 01:00:43.489
are getting divorced, which sounds like a bad

01:00:43.489 --> 01:00:45.530
thing, but they're probably out of a 10 year

01:00:45.530 --> 01:00:46.989
shitty marriage that they should have been out

01:00:46.989 --> 01:00:53.230
of years back. Right. Yeah. Or that. Yeah. How

01:00:53.230 --> 01:00:55.590
does, how does the course work? Is it a daily

01:00:55.590 --> 01:00:58.679
thing? I'm assuming it's virtual. Yeah, yeah,

01:00:58.719 --> 01:01:01.239
it is virtual and it is, um, yeah, there's daily

01:01:01.239 --> 01:01:04.699
practices. Part of it is I am a firm believer

01:01:04.699 --> 01:01:07.820
of, you know, doing daily practice, you know,

01:01:07.920 --> 01:01:10.460
whether that be a breath work, um, you know,

01:01:10.619 --> 01:01:14.500
meditation but masturbation. Absolutely. Self

01:01:14.500 --> 01:01:17.519
-pleasuring every day is very important to help

01:01:17.519 --> 01:01:20.519
us connect with our bodies. And again, the consistency

01:01:20.519 --> 01:01:24.679
and dedication to, you know, a practice. And

01:01:24.679 --> 01:01:27.199
after a while, you can let it go, but you don't

01:01:27.199 --> 01:01:29.000
know, you can't bear the fruits of a practice

01:01:29.000 --> 01:01:31.300
if you don't do it every day. So there's a foundation

01:01:31.300 --> 01:01:33.800
that's doing it every day. And then by the end

01:01:33.800 --> 01:01:35.599
of the program, you've been doing this thing

01:01:35.599 --> 01:01:38.480
for three weeks, right? So, you know, like practicing

01:01:38.480 --> 01:01:40.619
a breath work or, you know, whatever, there's

01:01:40.619 --> 01:01:42.280
different practices because everybody's a little

01:01:42.280 --> 01:01:45.519
different. So then you get to see like the actual

01:01:45.519 --> 01:01:48.280
fruits of that practice, right? I mean, breathwork

01:01:48.280 --> 01:01:51.119
is freaking powerful. And when we dedicate, you

01:01:51.119 --> 01:01:55.139
know, 10 minutes a day, 15 minutes a day. So

01:01:55.139 --> 01:01:57.739
there's there's practices like that, then there's

01:01:57.739 --> 01:02:01.659
journaling that there's different. Sadie real

01:02:01.659 --> 01:02:04.280
quick, because because you mentioned the breathwork,

01:02:04.400 --> 01:02:06.820
can can you let the audience know just maybe

01:02:06.820 --> 01:02:09.099
not all your techniques or something, but just

01:02:09.099 --> 01:02:11.059
maybe some kind of breath thing that they could

01:02:11.420 --> 01:02:13.719
practice to get centered like because people

01:02:13.719 --> 01:02:15.840
hear breathwork. I hear it on podcasts all the

01:02:15.840 --> 01:02:18.059
time. And it's kind of just a gloss over thing,

01:02:18.079 --> 01:02:21.119
but it's really important to maybe know a technique

01:02:21.119 --> 01:02:23.599
on how to do some of it. So is there like one

01:02:23.599 --> 01:02:25.500
little quick you can give somebody or just let

01:02:25.500 --> 01:02:29.719
them know what breath technique is or Yeah, people

01:02:29.719 --> 01:02:32.539
can go to my website or know my YouTube channel

01:02:32.539 --> 01:02:36.320
and I have breathwork on there some breathing

01:02:36.750 --> 01:02:39.690
techniques and I guide people through and people

01:02:39.690 --> 01:02:42.670
really enjoy those breathing. It's on Sacred

01:02:42.670 --> 01:02:45.869
Sensual Alchemy on YouTube. So that's what it's

01:02:45.869 --> 01:02:49.929
about. So that, yeah, go there. And it's for,

01:02:50.409 --> 01:02:53.110
what is breath, working what your breath for?

01:02:53.349 --> 01:02:56.889
It's to get centered. It's for physical things,

01:02:57.030 --> 01:02:59.849
but mental things as well, right? Right. Yeah,

01:02:59.949 --> 01:03:02.250
it's just it's a clearing. It's a purification.

01:03:02.630 --> 01:03:05.690
It's it's like energy work, right? We are these

01:03:05.690 --> 01:03:09.570
channels and when you breathe air and intentionally

01:03:09.570 --> 01:03:13.190
in these, you know, various ways it really clears

01:03:13.190 --> 01:03:15.789
things out. It opens things up in the most powerful

01:03:15.789 --> 01:03:21.190
unbelievable ways, right? And it just it. It

01:03:21.190 --> 01:03:23.309
just starts working on your body, mind and spirit,

01:03:23.610 --> 01:03:26.590
right? It clears out patterns and belief systems

01:03:26.590 --> 01:03:29.489
and unconscious things. It just, it opens our

01:03:29.489 --> 01:03:33.030
energy channels up so that things can flow more

01:03:33.030 --> 01:03:35.269
smoothly because we're very stuck, stagnant and

01:03:35.269 --> 01:03:37.230
blocked, right? And it just, it supports the

01:03:37.230 --> 01:03:40.369
movement and clearing of so much, so much. It's

01:03:40.369 --> 01:03:43.510
powerful. And unlike the technical aspect of

01:03:43.510 --> 01:03:46.170
it, it starts messing with like your body's oxygen

01:03:46.170 --> 01:03:48.789
and CO2 levels. And that's where you start to

01:03:48.789 --> 01:03:50.869
get some of those changes that you physically

01:03:50.869 --> 01:03:54.269
and mentally that are really go a long way in

01:03:54.269 --> 01:03:56.989
helping and healing that people just don't get

01:03:56.989 --> 01:04:00.730
into by doing a five minute breath exercise like

01:04:00.730 --> 01:04:04.449
can go a fucking long way into It's huge. It's

01:04:04.449 --> 01:04:07.789
huge. And that's a part of this program is, you

01:04:07.789 --> 01:04:09.769
know, some daily practices like that because

01:04:09.769 --> 01:04:12.469
sometimes we need that structure, right? We need

01:04:12.469 --> 01:04:15.349
some accountability. And so that again, this

01:04:15.349 --> 01:04:17.750
is like bringing all of the tools that I've learned

01:04:17.750 --> 01:04:20.630
on my path and just condensing it all like, here's

01:04:20.630 --> 01:04:23.329
what worked for me and, you know, try them on

01:04:23.329 --> 01:04:25.809
and see and not everything is going to land with

01:04:25.809 --> 01:04:28.590
everybody, right? It's very individual, unique

01:04:28.590 --> 01:04:31.400
people. So That's why I put so much into this

01:04:31.400 --> 01:04:34.119
program so people can try and play around and

01:04:34.119 --> 01:04:36.960
see like what works for me. And then and then

01:04:36.960 --> 01:04:38.699
by the time they're done with it, they have all

01:04:38.699 --> 01:04:41.199
of these tools that they can take with them.

01:04:41.539 --> 01:04:44.599
And yeah, it's just it's amazing. I feel like

01:04:44.599 --> 01:04:47.099
there was a question we were on that I lost track

01:04:47.099 --> 01:04:51.480
of. But I think it was what is your cup size

01:04:51.480 --> 01:04:55.039
for your bra? I don't know. Just kidding. It

01:04:55.039 --> 01:04:59.230
was basically what what the course is. So you

01:04:59.230 --> 01:05:02.969
do the daily thing. Is that a guided thing? Do

01:05:02.969 --> 01:05:05.130
you have to log in and you guide or is that just

01:05:05.130 --> 01:05:11.969
a self? Yeah, there's videos each week. And then

01:05:11.969 --> 01:05:13.769
there's again the energy healing session each

01:05:13.769 --> 01:05:16.269
week, which you can be there for not in person,

01:05:16.389 --> 01:05:20.150
but it's on Zoom. So you can be there to participate

01:05:20.150 --> 01:05:22.369
or just get the recording of it. But it happens

01:05:22.369 --> 01:05:25.980
anyway. Energy healing. and does not require

01:05:25.980 --> 01:05:28.900
your presence at all is really quite amazing

01:05:28.900 --> 01:05:31.460
in this new quantum understanding of reality.

01:05:31.760 --> 01:05:34.980
We just, you know, so it's, that's all distance

01:05:34.980 --> 01:05:37.599
healing as well. And just, yeah, so freaking

01:05:37.599 --> 01:05:41.880
powerful. That's, I think kind of the, yeah,

01:05:41.940 --> 01:05:44.219
the program without that piece would just not

01:05:44.219 --> 01:05:47.679
be the same at all. Yeah. And as people start

01:05:47.679 --> 01:05:50.300
to understand just how, you know, connected we

01:05:50.300 --> 01:05:55.500
are, as a people, as a society, as humans, through

01:05:55.500 --> 01:05:58.719
way more than physical spaces and touch, like,

01:05:59.159 --> 01:06:01.500
you know, healing of course can be done through,

01:06:01.699 --> 01:06:04.199
you know, that virtual type deal, because it's

01:06:04.199 --> 01:06:06.000
not virtual, you're connected in a different

01:06:06.000 --> 01:06:11.380
way besides, yeah. Yeah, all entangled. And as

01:06:11.380 --> 01:06:13.699
you start, you know, more and more getting into

01:06:13.699 --> 01:06:15.739
those subjects and stuff, you realize how real

01:06:15.739 --> 01:06:18.590
that stuff is and That's kind of the point of

01:06:18.590 --> 01:06:20.409
this stuff. We have a lot of cool people like

01:06:20.409 --> 01:06:22.869
yourself on here where we introduce to the audience,

01:06:23.329 --> 01:06:26.070
audience kind of falls in love, lets us know

01:06:26.070 --> 01:06:27.909
whether they want more or not. Have you guys

01:06:27.909 --> 01:06:30.210
come back? But also just to open their eyes to

01:06:30.210 --> 01:06:32.230
stuff and have them go on a journey and seek

01:06:32.230 --> 01:06:36.489
out some information and stuff like that. We

01:06:36.489 --> 01:06:39.250
are the gracious too with the all seeing eye,

01:06:39.309 --> 01:06:41.369
but we like to pretend we don't know as much

01:06:41.369 --> 01:06:43.230
as we know so they could go out and learn from

01:06:43.230 --> 01:06:45.809
themselves, you know? That type of deal. I'll

01:06:45.809 --> 01:06:51.210
sing. I love it. Hey now. It's right here. But

01:06:51.210 --> 01:06:55.030
Sadie, if you could let the audience know where

01:06:55.030 --> 01:06:57.269
they could get in touch with Sadie best and check

01:06:57.269 --> 01:06:59.090
out all your stuff and all your websites and

01:06:59.090 --> 01:07:02.550
all that jazz. Yeah, sacred central alchemy .com.

01:07:02.769 --> 01:07:07.250
And I'm on Instagram and YouTube with same sacred

01:07:07.250 --> 01:07:11.369
central alchemy. So very easy. And so go check

01:07:11.369 --> 01:07:14.250
out those videos. And if you check out If you

01:07:14.250 --> 01:07:15.889
don't check out anything from her, check out

01:07:15.889 --> 01:07:18.070
her breathing technique videos and see if you

01:07:18.070 --> 01:07:19.909
can get something from that. Cause that could

01:07:19.909 --> 01:07:22.989
be almost immediate in feelings and stuff like

01:07:22.989 --> 01:07:25.469
that. So good place to start to get people on

01:07:25.469 --> 01:07:28.110
your, on your board. Yeah. And those breathing

01:07:28.110 --> 01:07:30.969
exercises are geared towards, um, yeah, supporting

01:07:30.969 --> 01:07:33.730
our healthy sexuality. So there's, there's, they're

01:07:33.730 --> 01:07:36.409
really great. They're great. Yeah. So you might

01:07:36.409 --> 01:07:39.190
just breathe your way into a giant boner, dudes.

01:07:39.670 --> 01:07:44.449
Uh, as all I'm saying, Sadie, thank you. It actually

01:07:44.449 --> 01:07:49.610
happens. Absolutely. They sound like jokes, but

01:07:49.610 --> 01:07:52.070
hey, sometimes I'm spitting knowledge here. Uh,

01:07:52.190 --> 01:07:54.889
again, thank you, Sadie. Thank you. Pleasure.

01:07:55.210 --> 01:07:58.849
Thank you. Alright, the one and only, Sadie best,

01:07:59.090 --> 01:08:01.489
ladies and gentlemen. That was a cool, cool show.

01:08:01.690 --> 01:08:04.010
A lot of stuff we learned here, Mr. Gracie. Absolutely.

01:08:04.829 --> 01:08:07.429
I'm breathing my way into a boner right now.

01:08:07.929 --> 01:08:10.510
I want to go find and check out the course, see

01:08:10.510 --> 01:08:14.349
what it's like. I mean, why not? Dude, I was

01:08:14.349 --> 01:08:16.590
being serious when I said that. Like, if she

01:08:16.590 --> 01:08:18.250
could get to what she's trying to accomplish

01:08:18.250 --> 01:08:20.649
and gets the person taking her course to have

01:08:20.649 --> 01:08:23.090
that sexual awakening, it's such a big part of

01:08:23.090 --> 01:08:25.500
your life that You could go from being like a

01:08:25.500 --> 01:08:28.500
shy timid person to like a go grab the world

01:08:28.500 --> 01:08:31.619
by the balls type of person kind of overnight,

01:08:31.819 --> 01:08:34.279
you know, when you realize, you know, kind of

01:08:34.279 --> 01:08:35.960
asking about the logistics of the course, like

01:08:35.960 --> 01:08:37.579
how it works, but it sounds like it's pretty,

01:08:37.739 --> 01:08:41.140
uh, you can check out the videos and do it at

01:08:41.140 --> 01:08:43.600
your time daily, but you have to, you can like,

01:08:43.680 --> 01:08:45.520
Oh, I got five minutes here. I can do breath

01:08:45.520 --> 01:08:49.159
work and right. So and it seems like maybe she

01:08:49.159 --> 01:08:51.479
has like almost a full course out there with

01:08:51.479 --> 01:08:53.199
her like YouTube and stuff like that. But if

01:08:53.199 --> 01:08:55.380
you wanted someone on one time, you could do

01:08:55.380 --> 01:08:59.520
it with her as well. Yeah. But that was cool.

01:08:59.680 --> 01:09:01.779
Like I wanted to I still want to get like a full

01:09:01.779 --> 01:09:04.079
on because she seemed to make progressions from,

01:09:04.079 --> 01:09:08.439
you know, having some fun in high school to dancing

01:09:08.439 --> 01:09:10.399
to being an escort. But I really want to get

01:09:10.399 --> 01:09:12.579
a full on somebody who's in the escort business

01:09:12.579 --> 01:09:14.979
on here and really talk to them. See how that

01:09:14.979 --> 01:09:18.010
life is like. Is it scary? Do they like to do

01:09:18.010 --> 01:09:20.489
it? Are they doing it just for money? Like, you

01:09:20.489 --> 01:09:23.369
know, I would say a lot of them are doing it

01:09:23.369 --> 01:09:26.949
just for money. I would think, I mean, I may

01:09:26.949 --> 01:09:28.529
be wrong, but it sounds like say, say he will

01:09:28.529 --> 01:09:32.449
be the rare, the rare version of an escort like

01:09:32.449 --> 01:09:35.409
really enjoys it. Right. I think most women do

01:09:35.409 --> 01:09:38.970
it for, you know, out of need. Yeah. Well, I

01:09:38.970 --> 01:09:40.829
guess my only thing I'm just saying like as a

01:09:40.829 --> 01:09:43.920
dude, like if you're like, if you're with a girl

01:09:43.920 --> 01:09:45.539
that's not into it, you're not going to be into

01:09:45.539 --> 01:09:48.119
it. You know what I'm saying? So it's like, well,

01:09:48.140 --> 01:09:50.079
that's course, actually they, they're good actors.

01:09:50.079 --> 01:09:53.100
I think they act like they're really into it.

01:09:53.520 --> 01:09:57.399
Yeah. Oh, I forgot that part of their job. I

01:09:57.399 --> 01:10:00.279
had the number one question for every guy out

01:10:00.279 --> 01:10:02.640
there for her does size matter. But when she

01:10:02.640 --> 01:10:06.100
got lost on her track of whatever, um, she thought

01:10:06.100 --> 01:10:08.300
she was answering a question and then like, we

01:10:08.300 --> 01:10:09.829
didn't know what the question was. I was going

01:10:09.829 --> 01:10:11.550
to ask her that, but then I lost track. Just

01:10:11.550 --> 01:10:14.189
thought it'll be a funny, funny thing to hear

01:10:14.189 --> 01:10:17.149
her answer. She probably say no. She probably

01:10:17.149 --> 01:10:19.829
say no. She seems like a vibe person. She's a

01:10:19.829 --> 01:10:21.489
vibe person. That's a good thing too. What do

01:10:21.489 --> 01:10:26.270
you do for people who are sexually like incompatible?

01:10:26.430 --> 01:10:28.369
Like they love each other, but maybe she's got

01:10:28.369 --> 01:10:32.130
like a fucking, you know, airplane hangar down

01:10:32.130 --> 01:10:35.289
there and he's got a fucking little Mazda Miata

01:10:35.289 --> 01:10:39.869
as the vehicle. Microfellows. Dude, can you believe

01:10:39.869 --> 01:10:43.550
like, what would you do if you had a micro phallus

01:10:43.550 --> 01:10:45.869
bro? Like, listen, I don't need to be the biggest

01:10:45.869 --> 01:10:47.949
dude in the world. I could rock with average

01:10:47.949 --> 01:10:51.970
stuff. But below average micro penis, dude, I

01:10:51.970 --> 01:10:53.550
don't know what I would do with myself. I might

01:10:53.550 --> 01:10:56.810
transition chat. I might transition. It could

01:10:56.810 --> 01:11:01.510
happen. Joanna never sounded so good. Yeah. Why

01:11:01.510 --> 01:11:04.670
go from a little pecker to a huge vagina? And

01:11:04.670 --> 01:11:07.050
I'd be like, that's right, boys, you can't handle

01:11:07.050 --> 01:11:12.029
this. Anywho, Bobby, why don't you come on here

01:11:12.029 --> 01:11:15.550
and take our show to a screeching halt? What

01:11:15.550 --> 01:11:19.529
do you mean a screeching halt? Nothing, nothing.

01:11:20.670 --> 01:11:22.670
So did you learn anything, Bobby? Are you still

01:11:22.670 --> 01:11:25.409
into tantric sex? Or are you thinking about coming

01:11:25.409 --> 01:11:28.029
up with some breathing techniques? I already

01:11:28.029 --> 01:11:31.609
do breathing techniques. I'm learning, I'm learning

01:11:31.609 --> 01:11:34.890
to tantric sex now, but I'm starting slow. I'm

01:11:34.890 --> 01:11:38.170
starting with the feet. and then moving my way

01:11:38.170 --> 01:11:41.270
up. Did he say he's starting with the feet, Chad?

01:11:41.949 --> 01:11:44.829
Yes. That sounds like you're getting into fetish

01:11:44.829 --> 01:11:48.630
work and not, uh, no, no, it's, it's not fetish.

01:11:48.810 --> 01:11:51.970
It's, it's about like feet foot massages. There's

01:11:51.970 --> 01:11:54.670
certain reflex, there's certain reflex points

01:11:54.670 --> 01:11:58.430
on everybody's foot. You could even see the charts

01:11:58.430 --> 01:12:03.350
of, um, the reflexology. How much for a pair

01:12:03.350 --> 01:12:05.250
of your dirty socks? Is that where we're going

01:12:05.250 --> 01:12:10.329
with this? No choice has a Johnson love with

01:12:10.329 --> 01:12:15.909
Sadie. Listen, I like I like every woman that's

01:12:15.909 --> 01:12:19.210
sexually open and is attractive. You know, I

01:12:19.210 --> 01:12:21.609
would base in the world, by the way, do you know

01:12:21.609 --> 01:12:23.649
where she is in the country? Bobby, you should

01:12:23.649 --> 01:12:26.090
be sliding into her DMs for me right now and

01:12:26.090 --> 01:12:28.729
finding this out. Come on, dude. What are you

01:12:28.729 --> 01:12:34.090
here for? Yeah, no, I'm not really sure. Uh,

01:12:34.149 --> 01:12:36.569
we found each other in the dark, dude. It was

01:12:36.569 --> 01:12:39.689
crazy. No, uh, we found each other on, uh, some

01:12:39.689 --> 01:12:44.289
Facebook thing. And, uh, yeah. And, um, I heard

01:12:44.289 --> 01:12:45.649
what she was about. I was like, that seems like

01:12:45.649 --> 01:12:50.069
a cool guest man. Yeah. And lo and behold. And

01:12:50.069 --> 01:12:53.069
we really just scratched the surface, uh, with,

01:12:53.250 --> 01:12:58.250
with all that, you know, uh, like probably could

01:12:58.250 --> 01:13:01.109
have gotten to some specifics of. people, she's

01:13:01.109 --> 01:13:02.609
done stuff. Well, that's what I was trying to

01:13:02.609 --> 01:13:05.510
see if like she ever had to, you know, your coach

01:13:05.510 --> 01:13:11.689
and somebody who's so sexually shy, like I was

01:13:11.689 --> 01:13:14.130
wondering, you know, she said no basically, but

01:13:14.130 --> 01:13:15.550
I was wondering if she ever had to like physically

01:13:15.550 --> 01:13:18.010
kind of coax them out because the mental game

01:13:18.010 --> 01:13:22.029
wasn't working. And I should have asked if she

01:13:22.029 --> 01:13:24.510
didn't do that, would she be open to it? And

01:13:24.510 --> 01:13:26.489
I feel like she would be because she's not looking

01:13:26.489 --> 01:13:31.000
at it as like going against Patient person confident.

01:13:31.180 --> 01:13:34.279
Yes. It's like part of the thing And it seems

01:13:34.279 --> 01:13:36.500
like the way she looks at sexuality which is

01:13:36.500 --> 01:13:38.840
like no biggie. That would be no biggie, you

01:13:38.840 --> 01:13:44.300
know could be could be All things that we will

01:13:44.300 --> 01:13:47.199
ask her on the next show that she's got Sadie

01:13:47.199 --> 01:13:50.779
best part two part two Good Bobby. So what do

01:13:50.779 --> 01:13:54.119
we got for Bobby's world before? We have to get

01:13:54.119 --> 01:13:59.239
you out of here and put you back in the You know,

01:13:59.239 --> 01:14:03.199
I have a couple things I have first I have Jim

01:14:03.199 --> 01:14:07.260
carry when he was exposing the Illuminati on

01:14:07.260 --> 01:14:10.319
a on a tonight show. Oh, yeah, I saw that one.

01:14:10.340 --> 01:14:14.640
He's doing oh, that's so fake good It was funny

01:14:14.640 --> 01:14:17.600
though. It was funny. Yeah, but he's just like

01:14:17.600 --> 01:14:20.000
fucking busting Jimmy's balls like oh, you don't

01:14:20.000 --> 01:14:36.260
know this Jimmy you're part of it That's Bobby

01:14:36.260 --> 01:14:38.340
Chad. So if you don't know, he's playing stuff

01:14:38.340 --> 01:14:40.119
out of his speakers and allowing the microphone

01:14:40.119 --> 01:14:45.640
to pick it up so I had to mute him. That's why

01:14:45.640 --> 01:14:47.479
I tell him to wear his headphones, but he don't

01:14:47.479 --> 01:14:51.960
listen. He's on his own journey. God damn it.

01:15:04.109 --> 01:15:07.449
Any who yeah, there was that Jim's basically

01:15:07.449 --> 01:15:09.409
on there pretending that he's in the Illuminati

01:15:09.409 --> 01:15:11.649
Kim was looking down like he's got three heads,

01:15:11.710 --> 01:15:13.550
but yeah, it's something better than that Bobby

01:15:13.550 --> 01:15:17.270
What was the you brought up a point though when?

01:15:18.750 --> 01:15:22.930
You mentioned the Illuminati that had my brain

01:15:22.930 --> 01:15:25.470
go somewhere that I thought would be cool and

01:15:25.470 --> 01:15:32.420
fun and Do I remember it though mr. Gracie? And

01:15:32.420 --> 01:15:35.340
I feel like it was on something we just watched

01:15:35.340 --> 01:15:39.680
with Rogan, but it was such a cool thing. And

01:15:39.680 --> 01:15:42.100
it made me think about something that I thought

01:15:42.100 --> 01:15:46.579
about differently. What was it? I need, I need

01:15:46.579 --> 01:15:49.840
AI in my brain to just like hit the rewind button.

01:15:50.039 --> 01:15:50.979
Like, you know what I'm saying? So I feel like,

01:15:51.119 --> 01:15:53.399
what was I thinking about four seconds ago? Bust

01:15:53.399 --> 01:15:56.500
out the neural link. Yes. Dude, I'm ready to

01:15:56.500 --> 01:15:58.640
go. As soon as that thing's ready, sign me up.

01:15:58.960 --> 01:16:03.630
Let's go. Make me a better human. Um, what up

01:16:03.630 --> 01:16:04.970
chat? And we were talking about something cool

01:16:04.970 --> 01:16:06.829
before we had Sadie come on to and we kind of

01:16:06.829 --> 01:16:11.189
cut it short. Yeah, we were. Yeah, we cut it

01:16:11.189 --> 01:16:14.789
off real quick. I can't remember. You were, you

01:16:14.789 --> 01:16:16.789
were on a roll. I know that. All right. Let's

01:16:16.789 --> 01:16:18.989
go to the audience real quick. See, uh, check

01:16:18.989 --> 01:16:20.949
out some comments and then we shall bid them

01:16:20.949 --> 01:16:28.470
a do. Uh, let's see here. Uh, part two live from

01:16:28.470 --> 01:16:32.659
John's bedroom. Yes. Our only fans will be up

01:16:32.659 --> 01:16:39.479
shortly. But bump bump nonplank. Bobby's says

01:16:39.479 --> 01:16:42.859
that all of you are NPCs. You're not really part

01:16:42.859 --> 01:16:47.000
of this. Only he is the main character. Can you

01:16:47.000 --> 01:16:52.000
imagine if if we are the NPCs and Bobby's world,

01:16:52.000 --> 01:16:55.180
this is scary. Bobby's running shit. Our leader

01:16:55.180 --> 01:17:04.130
is checked out. Our leader is Uh, yeah. Simulation.

01:17:04.710 --> 01:17:07.189
Oh Chad, do you believe we're like, where do

01:17:07.189 --> 01:17:09.310
you, what are your thoughts on that? I know I

01:17:09.310 --> 01:17:11.449
go back and forth on that being the simulation,

01:17:11.729 --> 01:17:14.890
simulation, excuse me. But like in your brain

01:17:14.890 --> 01:17:17.210
of brains, like so in other words, like, do you

01:17:17.210 --> 01:17:20.069
think you can have this level of thinking like

01:17:20.069 --> 01:17:22.470
you personally, like, you know, the way you think

01:17:22.470 --> 01:17:25.090
and be in a simulation, like even though the

01:17:25.090 --> 01:17:27.829
idea of the simulation. Is real like do you think

01:17:27.829 --> 01:17:30.470
it would be so ingrained that you would be thinking

01:17:30.470 --> 01:17:33.729
kind of like you're thinking now? I think in

01:17:33.729 --> 01:17:36.789
you know in in theory it seems like yes That

01:17:36.789 --> 01:17:38.949
would be the whole purpose is to make you think

01:17:38.949 --> 01:17:41.569
this is reality and make you believe it whole

01:17:41.569 --> 01:17:46.029
holy like this But if all we knew was this reality

01:17:46.029 --> 01:17:48.550
Why would that part need to be there because

01:17:48.550 --> 01:17:51.270
you wouldn't have like if this is all we knew

01:17:51.270 --> 01:17:53.310
we wouldn't know that people thought we wouldn't

01:17:53.310 --> 01:17:57.329
know that you know fucking all these different

01:17:57.329 --> 01:17:59.710
colors and like it seems like we made the simulation

01:17:59.710 --> 01:18:03.029
way too complicated. If it is like we could probably

01:18:03.029 --> 01:18:06.029
get away with the Sims, the video game. If they

01:18:06.029 --> 01:18:07.510
like, they don't know they're in the video game,

01:18:07.590 --> 01:18:10.930
the Sims. Right. Well, right. And why would we

01:18:10.930 --> 01:18:13.109
know we're in a simulation? I don't know. I'm

01:18:13.109 --> 01:18:14.829
just saying this level of thinking like I don't

01:18:14.829 --> 01:18:18.069
think the video characters in the Sims are thinking

01:18:18.069 --> 01:18:20.430
like they're just no input. They don't sentient

01:18:20.430 --> 01:18:24.189
conscious. Yes. Yes. Well, I mean, so. Go back

01:18:24.189 --> 01:18:27.069
to the movie the matrix like they explained why?

01:18:27.670 --> 01:18:30.829
The simulation is so real because you if it wasn't

01:18:30.829 --> 01:18:34.149
real then If it didn't appear to be so real then

01:18:34.149 --> 01:18:37.649
you're not your mind would would You know try

01:18:37.649 --> 01:18:41.029
to throw it away, right? Well boy, but you're

01:18:41.029 --> 01:18:42.930
just in this you're just in this little energy

01:18:42.930 --> 01:18:46.539
pod make an energy for the for the Super computers.

01:18:46.960 --> 01:18:49.439
But let me go. Let me go deep, dude. Let me go

01:18:49.439 --> 01:18:53.199
deep. So we're operating as if this is a real

01:18:53.199 --> 01:18:57.119
world. And then the only way to recreate this

01:18:57.119 --> 01:18:59.979
world in a simulation would be to have that simulation

01:18:59.979 --> 01:19:04.600
be exactly like this world is. Right. That's

01:19:04.600 --> 01:19:06.859
how the simulation is real. So we don't know.

01:19:07.100 --> 01:19:09.359
I mean, if this is a simulation, what is the

01:19:09.359 --> 01:19:11.300
real world? Well, that's what I said. So go over

01:19:11.300 --> 01:19:14.539
here. So so. Because basically what you were

01:19:14.539 --> 01:19:17.079
saying like the matrix it has to be so real that

01:19:17.079 --> 01:19:19.520
your brain is indiscernible like is this fake

01:19:19.520 --> 01:19:23.039
is this reality, right? But if this whole thing

01:19:23.039 --> 01:19:25.619
is a simulation What if we just made up humans

01:19:25.619 --> 01:19:29.260
made up earth made up pyramids none of it's real

01:19:29.260 --> 01:19:32.159
and the people who actually put on this simulation

01:19:32.159 --> 01:19:34.960
are fucking big -ass spider -looking fucking

01:19:34.960 --> 01:19:38.119
things and this is the cool ass video game idea

01:19:38.119 --> 01:19:40.260
They came up with oh, let's make them have two

01:19:40.260 --> 01:19:43.579
legs and fucking You know, I mean that's an interesting

01:19:43.579 --> 01:19:46.319
concept because the matrix matrix the movie assumes

01:19:46.319 --> 01:19:49.439
that did its humans making the simulation Well,

01:19:49.460 --> 01:19:53.000
it's actually AI computers Using this history

01:19:53.000 --> 01:19:55.359
of humans making a human simulation so that they

01:19:55.359 --> 01:19:58.100
can use the human body for batteries But yep,

01:19:58.100 --> 01:20:00.380
yeah, it could be some completely fucking alien

01:20:01.380 --> 01:20:04.180
Dude, realization just made this all up and live

01:20:04.180 --> 01:20:06.659
in a size for computers. That's a real mind fuck

01:20:06.659 --> 01:20:09.380
like at least part where we were thinking before

01:20:09.380 --> 01:20:11.800
is like, OK, humans made this simulation. We're

01:20:11.800 --> 01:20:14.020
just kind of riding off at seeing if it works.

01:20:14.420 --> 01:20:17.319
But if it's the complete mind, humans never existed.

01:20:17.500 --> 01:20:20.079
This is all a fucking simulation from up high.

01:20:20.619 --> 01:20:25.369
That's crazy, bro. Mm -hmm. We just fucked you

01:20:25.369 --> 01:20:28.109
all here organized religion. There is no Jesus.

01:20:28.430 --> 01:20:31.689
There is no God. There is no Mohammed. It's all

01:20:31.689 --> 01:20:36.170
fake. You heard it. You heard it. It's to uh,

01:20:36.329 --> 01:20:38.829
gracious Tuesday, testicle Tuesday. We haven't

01:20:38.829 --> 01:20:42.329
go. Hey, I mean, you know, the simulation kind

01:20:42.329 --> 01:20:46.270
of explains Democrats. Yes. And how, yeah. And

01:20:46.270 --> 01:20:49.869
how they could be this absurd and think fucking.

01:20:50.640 --> 01:20:52.880
There's no consequences for this way of thinking.

01:20:53.619 --> 01:20:58.819
Yeah. And just kidding, Democrats. Yeah, you're

01:20:58.819 --> 01:21:01.380
probably right, though, Chad. In that jest, you

01:21:01.380 --> 01:21:03.640
just came up with the actual creators of the

01:21:03.640 --> 01:21:07.520
simulation and it's some far lefty Momo. But

01:21:07.520 --> 01:21:09.979
then you go back to like the Mandela effect and

01:21:09.979 --> 01:21:13.340
you're like, yes. Yeah. The Ferdilum logo used

01:21:13.340 --> 01:21:15.159
to have a Ferdilum on it. Like what the fuck?

01:21:15.460 --> 01:21:18.729
Right. or Jiffy peanut butter. No, it's Jiff.

01:21:18.949 --> 01:21:20.550
Like all these things that you're like, wait

01:21:20.550 --> 01:21:23.069
a minute, what the fuck? That was that seems

01:21:23.069 --> 01:21:26.670
like I really believe that I knew that then.

01:21:26.930 --> 01:21:29.069
Right. They're saying it's fake or wasn't real.

01:21:29.529 --> 01:21:32.210
And what is that movie and the genie or whatever?

01:21:32.789 --> 01:21:34.850
It's like, what the fuck? What is that? Is that

01:21:34.850 --> 01:21:37.289
a glitch in the matrix? So like, so like, in

01:21:37.289 --> 01:21:39.770
other words, why would they? Why would we all

01:21:39.770 --> 01:21:42.310
think it had the cornucopia in it? And then now

01:21:42.310 --> 01:21:44.310
they're saying it doesn't like wouldn't the easier

01:21:44.310 --> 01:21:47.779
part to be? doing is putting the cornucopia in

01:21:47.779 --> 01:21:50.220
there that we actually can be two theories. It's

01:21:50.220 --> 01:21:54.760
it's timeline shift. Oh, well, I guess there's

01:21:54.760 --> 01:21:56.340
three. It didn't it didn't happen would just

01:21:56.340 --> 01:21:58.819
remember shit differently than it actually was

01:21:58.819 --> 01:22:02.840
timeline shift. I like that one. Or it's or is

01:22:02.840 --> 01:22:04.979
the matrix and it's just glitches in the matrix.

01:22:05.199 --> 01:22:08.920
Yes. So timeline shift I like. And then I also

01:22:08.920 --> 01:22:10.979
like the glitch in a matrix. Those seem like

01:22:10.979 --> 01:22:14.260
the the second one where we just remember incorrectly

01:22:14.260 --> 01:22:17.170
is no way. Sorry. He says he has a pair of the

01:22:17.170 --> 01:22:20.770
cornucopia. Let's see a picture. Are they have

01:22:20.770 --> 01:22:22.869
a picture? I just got to find it. It's going

01:22:22.869 --> 01:22:28.489
to take me a while. I'll post it. I'll post it

01:22:28.489 --> 01:22:31.310
on the site. I'll post it on our site. How old

01:22:31.310 --> 01:22:34.829
are these underwear? Yeah, they are through to

01:22:34.829 --> 01:22:37.970
the moon. Be my BVD spelled Boulevard at this

01:22:37.970 --> 01:22:42.569
point. Anyway, so it's an interesting concept.

01:22:42.750 --> 01:22:46.079
Yeah, it's Yes. It's interesting to ponder. It

01:22:46.079 --> 01:22:49.939
is, dude. My mind is blown from the ending up.

01:22:50.079 --> 01:22:52.439
Well, good show all around, but this last portion

01:22:52.439 --> 01:22:54.880
is really like, I don't, I want to stop talking

01:22:54.880 --> 01:22:57.159
and think about what we just like. I want to

01:22:57.159 --> 01:22:59.359
be a, I want to be a fly on a wall in this conversation.

01:22:59.520 --> 01:23:02.180
I don't want to be part of it. Anyway, gracious

01:23:02.180 --> 01:23:05.079
audience. Thank you. We appreciate you. This

01:23:05.079 --> 01:23:07.699
has been fun. This has been real. We got plenty

01:23:07.699 --> 01:23:10.859
more for you. We got some really cool stuff on

01:23:10.859 --> 01:23:14.630
the horizon. Check out. He's going to post his

01:23:14.630 --> 01:23:17.630
underwear on Facebook. So get ready. Yeah. Yes.

01:23:17.729 --> 01:23:21.210
They are holy and not like, uh, you know, how

01:23:21.210 --> 01:23:23.930
old are these funny things to not hold on the

01:23:23.930 --> 01:23:28.149
seventies and eighties? Hey now. Let Bobby say

01:23:28.149 --> 01:23:31.310
goodbye real quick. Good. Bye, everybody. Thank

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